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Why Does Talking About the Past Always Go Wrong? Learn to Do It Right

Why Does Talking About the Past Always Go Wrong? Learn to Do It Right

Update: 2025-07-24
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Struggle to talk about the past without it turning into pain or panic? This episode teaches how to build emotional intimacy without fear or emotional collapse.

Maurice Harker walks you through one of the most important and most difficult relationship skills: talking about the past without destroying progress. With tools like the Foursquare Listening Method, emotional safety prep, and step-by-step intimacy layering, you’ll learn to lead uncomfortable conversations without causing harm—to yourself or your spouse.

🎧 In this episode:

  • What emotional intimacy really looks like

  • How to safely begin sharing about the past

  • How to prepare spiritually (and stay grounded if it gets messy)

  • Why trusting yourself and God matters more than trusting your spouse

  • How to lead conversations even if she isn’t ready yet

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Why Does Talking About the Past Always Go Wrong? Learn to Do It Right

Why Does Talking About the Past Always Go Wrong? Learn to Do It Right

Maurice Harker