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Why Men on Dating Apps Are Exhausting

Why Men on Dating Apps Are Exhausting

Update: 2025-10-31
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Dating apps should make things easier, right? Instead, they often feel like an emotional rollercoaster with endless swiping, ghosting, and low-effort conversations. 

In this video, Sascha Haert—women's relationship coach and creator of honest, empowering content—dives deep into why men on dating apps are so exhausting, and what you can do to protect your peace and set higher standards.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work while getting hit with “hey” messages, dead-end chats, or the classic “what are you looking for?” bait—this one's for you. Sascha breaks down the key dating app behaviors that drain your energy and offers practical mindset shifts to help you navigate online dating with clarity and confidence.

👉 In this episode:

The truth about low-effort men on dating apps

How the swipe-addicted culture affects real connection

Why so many matches never lead to anything real

Recognizing the “situationship epidemic” and how to avoid it

What emotionally available men actually look like online

Whether you're new to dating apps or deep in the trenches, this video is your no-nonsense guide to reclaiming your energy and raising your standards.

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Why Men on Dating Apps Are Exhausting

Why Men on Dating Apps Are Exhausting

Sascha Haert