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Why Monogamy Isn’t Morality (Dan Savage)

Why Monogamy Isn’t Morality (Dan Savage)

Update: 2025-07-15

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Sex advice legend Dan Savage joins Amanda for a conversation about desire, trauma, and why our culture still freaks out over butt stuff. They dig into why shame is boring, why marriage isn’t sacred, and how telling the truth about your sex life might just be the most liberating thing you can do.

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Why Monogamy Isn’t Morality (Dan Savage)

Why Monogamy Isn’t Morality (Dan Savage)

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