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Why Most Coaches Fail to Lead And How to Never Be One of Them | Tex McQuilkin

Why Most Coaches Fail to Lead And How to Never Be One of Them | Tex McQuilkin

Update: 2025-08-20
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In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of leadership and athletics. A conversation that exposes the often-overlooked emotional and psychological challenges young athletes face, both on and off the field.

Our guest takes us deep into the role of confidence, feedback, and environment in shaping an athlete's identity. From the scars of bullying to the struggle of staying aligned with personal goals, this is a revealing look into what truly builds resilience and long-term performance.

We explore why feedback must be fast, how to create a positive feedback loop, and the crucial role parents play, not just as supporters, but as emotional regulators and strategic partners. With practical frameworks like the "green line" alignment model and the "two car rides home" technique, this episode offers actionable tools to help athletes thrive in high-pressure environments.

Beyond the field, this is a leadership masterclass on how to balance independence with guidance, win with integrity, and build a mindset that thrives on progress over perfection.


KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • The environment plays a crucial role in an athlete's success.

  • Confidence is built through 

  • experience and belief.

  • Feedback should be viewed as a gift for growth.

  • Parents need to balance guidance with independence for their children.



⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 -
The Role of Helicopter Parenting
02:56 - Understanding Winning and Effort
05:56 - Creating a Thriving Environment
09:07 - Building Confidence Through Experience
11:58 - Reframing Feedback for Growth
15:08 - Navigating the Feedback Loop
18:06 - Balancing Independence and Guidance
21:00 - The Dynamics of Team Leadership
23:59 - Stages of Leadership Development
26:53 - The Importance of Action and Commitment
29:51 - Lessons in Winning and Losing
32:58 - The Courage to Try
36:00 - Feedback as a Gift
38:47 - Closing Thoughts on Growth and Development
 
 
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Why Most Coaches Fail to Lead And How to Never Be One of Them | Tex McQuilkin

Why Most Coaches Fail to Lead And How to Never Be One of Them | Tex McQuilkin

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