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Why No Contact Pulls Avoidants Back EVERY Time

Why No Contact Pulls Avoidants Back EVERY Time

Update: 2025-08-27
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Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it’s because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper.


In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You’ll learn why avoidants don’t miss you while you’re still reaching out, the stages they go through after a breakup, and the two main reasons they eventually return—even if it takes longer than you’d like.


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Why No Contact Pulls Avoidants Back EVERY Time

Why No Contact Pulls Avoidants Back EVERY Time

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