Forget the glossy brochure version of retirement. We get honest about what happens when the calendar opens up, the title falls away, and the to-do list is yours to write. From late drops and real-life health worries to the small rituals that keep a day anchored, we map how freedom and responsibility can live side by side without burning you out.

I share the unedited arc: decades of work that look different from the traditional path, the decision to downsize into a one-bedroom in Chicago, and the messy first year that followed. Then we talk about the turn—finding community at the pool, building a loose routine, learning to enjoy guilt-free downtime, and rediscovering creativity. We unpack the true pros of retirement—time, flexibility, travel on your schedule, and the joy of saying no—as well as real cons like chores that don’t retire, days that blend together, and the friction of two people home at once.

Money gets the clarity it deserves. We break down why keeping fixed costs lean, paying down housing, and timing big purchases (hello, “last car”) can make everything feel lighter. We also explore how to travel smarter, not harder, and why city living can be a surprising win for safety, access, and daily connection. Most of all, we focus on identity: liking yourself more without a boss, forgiving old mistakes, and building a life that runs on community, movement, and meaning. If you’re retired, almost there, or just retirement-curious, this conversation offers practical steps and a warm nudge to design the next chapter on purpose.

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