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Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage

Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage

Update: 2025-10-21
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In this episode, we dive into a listener question about a sex addict who withholds intimacy while engaging sexually with others. Many partners struggle with betrayal, confusion, and grief when their spouse avoids connection at home but seeks it elsewhere.



We explore the concept of intimacy anorexia, why addicts withdraw sexually, and what it might mean for the future of a marriage. Our discussion covers:



Recognizing patterns of sexual avoidance and betrayal



Understanding the emotional impact on the betrayed partner



How to approach healing and communication in complex relationships



The psychology behind why some partners “play married” instead of fully engaging



If you’ve ever felt sexless in your marriage, betrayed, or just confused about your partner’s behavior, this conversation is for you.



💡 Take action: If this topic resonates, subscribe for more discussions on marriage, intimacy, and relationship healing. Share your thoughts in the comments—your story may help someone else feel seen.

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Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage

Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage

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