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Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One

Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One

Update: 2025-12-16
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In this episode, we explore one of the most common and most misunderstood challenges women face: difficulty reaching orgasm!! Bruhhhhhhhhh…


I share why wanting orgasm is natural, not a sign that something is wrong with you, and how pressure, effort, and performance can actually shut down the body’s natural pleasure response. We talk about why pleasure unfolds more easily when you shift from trying to allowing, and why safety and relaxation are essential for deeper sensation.


I also share how I went through my own journey of relearning pleasure without effort or performance and how it actually is possible!


If you're curious, or LOVING this...I invite you to join the email list to be informed when my January deep pleasure dive series becomes available! Link below:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/start-here



Keywords:

orgasm, pleasure, pleasure literacy, women’s pleasure, low libido, difficulty reaching orgasm, relearning pleasure, personal journey, feminine embodiment, nervous system safety, relaxation and arousal, women’s sexual health, big O

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Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One

Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One

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