Ever find yourself saying yes when every cell in your body is screaming no? That moment—when your gut says one thing but your mouth betrays you—is exactly where your power leaks away. As recovering people-pleasers, we've mastered the art of negotiating our non-negotiables to keep everyone happy, everyone except ourselves.

What if your exhaustion, resentment, and that fantasy about escaping to a remote island with some goats isn't actually random? It's the direct result of repeatedly compromising on the boundaries that protect your energy, values, and wellbeing. These aren't just preferences or nice-to-haves—they're the foundation that allows you to function, thrive, and feel like yourself.

The four-step Mojo Method shared in this episode offers a practical roadmap to finally make your non-negotiables actually non-negotiable. You'll learn why your brain has been wired to abandon yourself before others can abandon you, how to recognize the exact moment you start to negotiate (that's your red flag!), and concrete strategies to hold firm even when it feels uncomfortable. Through Maya's story, you'll see how one well-placed boundary can transform not just your life but empower those around you.

Remember: your needs are not up for debate. You're not hard to love for having them—you're powerful for honoring them. Whether your non-negotiable is eight hours of sleep, no work on weekends, or being spoken to with respect, this episode is your permission slip to protect what matters. Your future self will thank you for listening.

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