One was a bitch .... one was a whore. One was loving him ... the other one was hating him ... a lot.

... but he was still dreaming of a beautiful life. … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

A dear friend of mine from India, who i use to chat a lot about philosophical issues, sent me few days ago the last scenario he wrote ... and was actually preparing to send to Bollywood.

He was believing in the motivational part of that story and was almost sure that the scenario will be accepted.

Bottomline .... the story is about a guy that had in the same time a relationship with a lady that he was defining as a bitch ... but also one with a lady that he considered as being a whore.

He had many, many moments when he was thinking which one to choose.

The bitch was hating him, but was a good partner ... loyal,

taking care of family issues etc etc.

The other one was loving him a lot ... but she proved during the time when they were together ... that her mental software was one of a ... whore ... and this was the reason why he defined her in such an ugly way.

In fact, after a while ... he started to dislike so much the both of them ... that he was telling all kinds of things about them to all his friends.

But ... the funny thing was that he was still continuing being connected to both of them.

And what is weird is that in the beginning he was amazed of both of them ... being so happy he is in that relationship ... but the time changed everything.

In fact the time ... showed the dark side of both ladies and that happiness from the beginning ... that infinite joy of being together ... was metamorphosed in a clear feeling of totally dislike.

Same persons ... but time changed completely his inner feelings.

But what he did not saw all those years ... was that he was changed.

He changed his principles, his way of seeing life and his feelings about how he wants as his life to look like.

But still he was silly enough ... to continue everything with both of them.

The change had come, but only inside of him, by connecting and becoming one with his inner self.

But he could not had the power yet to change his outside

world ... or maybe it was not the right time ... yet.

He started to meditate more and more ... and was exploring his both experiences with the 2 ladies and after analyzing and defining why this is keep happening to him on and on and on ... he suddenly realize that he is actually a coward ... that was telling to everybody about the bitch and the whore, but never had the power to say it load ... “You are a bitch!!” and “You are a whore” ... and also mention ... “I don’t want to live as that anymore! Is enough!”

You see ... the bitch or the whore ... are existing in anyone’s life ... on different forms ... as a colleague at work, a friend that is pretending being your best friend, a neighbor that is driving us crazy by years ... but we are too cowards to define them face to face ... the way they are.

Actually everything is a choice and sometimes between a healthy relationship and one that is actually helping us with some silly interests we have ... we forget about the principles of life and support everything is necessary ... just to see our interests completed.

So ... the life we have is just the result of the choices we made.

Today ... after reading the scenario of my talented friend from Bollywood ... i wonder myself who are the persons from my life that i can define, even in a metaphorical way ... bitch ... or whore.

But what about me?!

... well ... don’t know if i have the guts to define me in such a clear way ... at least ... not yet.

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