“Why do you always do that?”

“Why do you always do that?”

Update: 2025-09-17
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Have you ever found yourself saying (or hearing), “Why do you always do that?” That frustration often comes from our Enneagram stance, the automatic way we move through the world.

In this week’s episode Courtney and I talk about how stances shape our relationships, what’s happening in the brain when they get triggered, and how slowing down, practicing attunement, and building trust can change everything.

Join us as we talk about how to move beyond reactivity and create healthier, more attuned relationships.

Jackie's Instagram // Enneagram with JB
Courtney's Instagram // Courtney B Coaching

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“Why do you always do that?”

“Why do you always do that?”

Jackie Brewster