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Wellegant Woman is a podcast for women over 40 who are ready to reclaim their energy, confidence, and joy. Join Midlife Coach Karen Viesta as she shares information, strategies and inspiration to help women redefine midlife, reimagine what’s possible and step into the most fulfilling chapter of their lives. If you’re a woman in midlife who is ready to prioritize your health and wellbeing, elevate your thinking and reinvent yourself, you’re in the right place! For information and free resources, visit www.wellegantwoman.com.
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Midlife is often accompanied by uncertainty and transition, which often triggers fears related to aging, health, relationships, finances and an empty nest, among other things. Societal pressures to conform to youth-obsessed ideals only exacerbate these fears. However, by understanding what underlies these fears, women can shift their focus inward and work towards growth, self-acceptance, and creating a life based on their own values and aspirations. Listen to this episode and learn ho...
What if you could move through life unshaken—completely at peace, no matter what’s happening around you? That’s the power of becoming The Unbothered Woman. In this episode, we’re diving into the mindset shifts and practical strategies that will help you stop overreacting, overexplaining, and over-caring about things that don’t deserve your energy. You’ll learn how to set boundaries without guilt, protect your peace, and finally free yourself from the stress of other people’s opinions and dram...
Every thought, habit, and action is a form of practice—and whether intentional or not, these repetitions are shaping your life. In this episode, we explore the idea that “You get better at what you practice. And everything is practice" (James Clear).Together, we’ll uncover the subtle ways we may be unintentionally practicing negativity, self-doubt, or avoidance, and how to shift toward habits and thoughts that align with the life we truly want to create. Midlife is the perfect time ...
In this episode, Karen reflects on the new year and the importance of setting intentions through the practice of choosing a 'Word of the Year.' She discusses how this single word can guide decisions, actions, and mindset throughout the year, emphasizing the need for a thoughtful and reflective process in selecting the word. Karen shares her own process for choosing a word for 2025 and encourages listeners to work throughout the year on embodying their chosen word. 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE...
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most transformative topics for women over 40—training your brain. Just like your body needs exercise to stay strong and healthy, your mind requires intentional work to stay sharp, resilient, and aligned with your goals. Yet, many of us are operating on mental ‘default settings’ that keep us stuck in old patterns and prevent us from living the life we truly desire. Tune in to discover why midlife is the perfect time to do a mental 'reset' and ...
As we approach the new year, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of setting goals and making resolutions. But too often, common mistakes prevent us from achieving the changes we truly desire. In this episode, we’re breaking down the five biggest mistakes people make when planning for the new year and sharing how you can avoid them to create real, lasting transformation in midlife. 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE Send a Text Message :) 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE! **Be sure to grab y...
What sets successful women apart isn’t luck or talent—it’s their habits, mindset, and how they navigate challenges. In this episode, we explore the key principles that help successful women achieve their goals, even in the face of setbacks. From emotional mastery to staying consistent and resilient, this conversation will inspire you to adopt new strategies for thriving in midlife and beyond. Tune in to discover what truly drives success and how you can incorporate these practices into your o...
In this milestone 100th episode, Karen reflects on her podcasting journey and features a compilation of the most impactful moments from previous episodes, offering listeners motivation and inspiration. 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE Send a Text Message :) 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE! **Be sure to grab your FREE guide: OwnYour Life: 20 Ways to Set Boundaries and Live YOUR Life, YOUR Way HERE **Follow me on Instagram (HERE) and Facebook (HERE) **Please note that the information provided on th...
In this episode, we’re diving into one of my favorite topics—accessories! I’ve always believed that accessories are the secret to great style. They have this magical ability to take even the simplest outfit and transform it into something extraordinary. Today, I’m sharing my best tips and tricks for using accessories to elevate your wardrobe, express your personal style, and make getting dressed feel like fun again. From mixing textures to layering jewelry and balancing statement pieces, we’l...
Menopause brings a unique set of challenges, from physical symptoms like hot flashes and sleep disruption to emotional shifts that can sometimes feel overwhelming, but with the right tools and practices, this stage of life can be a time of profound transformation and self-care. In this episode, Karen shares the essentials every woman needs for a smooth and empowered menopause journey - the ‘Menopause Toolkit’. She reveals a carefully curated list of things designed to help you navigate midlif...
In this episode, we explore how to take control of our biggest distractions—not by managing our time, but by managing our minds. Midlife is often a stage where distractions creep in through social media, shopping, people-pleasing, and even emotional eating. Instead of just avoiding these distractions, we look at the underlying thoughts that drive them, empowering you to reclaim your time and focus with practical mind-management strategies. We dive into specific strategies for recognizing the ...
In this episode, I chat with Laurie Gerber, love and relationship coach, and we explore the deeper challenges and rewards of love in midlife. Laurie shares her definition of what healthy love is and identifies the biggest challenges women face. Among other things, we explore: How to show up in a way that’s authentic and aligned with who you are now, versus who you may have been in the past,Why alignment on values and beliefs is essential for true connection,Tips for fostering communicat...
In this episode, we’re talking about something every woman can relate to—the messy middle. Midlife is often full of change, uncertainty, and a sense of not quite having it all together. If you’ve ever felt like everyone else has their life perfectly in order while you’re struggling to figure things out, know this: everyone’s a mess. You’re not alone, and in fact, the mess is a natural part of transformation. Join me as we explore what the messy middle really is, why it’s such a crucial part o...
In this episode Karen discusses the often misunderstood concept of sexiness. Inspired by her recent trip to Portugal, Karen shares the lessons she learned about confidence and sensuality from observing how Europeans engage with life. She challenges the typical perception of sexiness, offering a different perspective. Karen explains why feeling sexy is an inside job, not something that depends on external validation, physical appearance, or age. She shares actionable tips to help you reconnect...
In this episode, Karen sits down with Masha Goins to discuss the concept of the 'sister wound' and its impact on women’s lives. Together, they explore how societal pressures and the desire for validation can foster feelings of comparison, competition and 'Imposter Syndrome' among women. Masha offers practical strategies to overcome these negative patterns by shifting from competition to collaboration, reclaiming personal dreams in midlife, and combating social media’s influence on self-worth....
In this episode, we’re diving into a topic we all face: dealing with difficult people. Whether it’s at work, in family dynamics, or everyday encounters, challenging personalities can test our patience and peace of mind. But what if the power to handle these situations with grace and confidence lies in our mindset? Join me as we explore how to navigate these interactions without getting defensive or shrinking back, and learn how to stay grounded in who you are, set boundaries, and protect your...
In this episode, we explore how to Finish the Year Strong by reassessing and recommitting to your goals as the holidays and new year approach. Rather than feeling overwhelmed or losing momentum, learn why it's crucial to end the year on a high note and how doing so sets the tone for a powerful start to the next one. Karen shares practical strategies and a step-by-step plan to help you stay on track and finish with intention. Tune in and discover how to take control, stay focused, and enter th...
In this episode, Karen dives into the common habit of mentally negotiating with ourselves and explains how it holds us back from living the life we truly want. From hitting the “snooze button” on our goals to rationalizing why we can delay taking action, this internal tug-of-war drains our time, energy, and potential. Karen explores why we do this, the negative effects it has on our lives, and most importantly, how to stop. Tune in for actionable strategies to break free from the cycle of sel...
In this episode, Karen discusses the concept of achieving goals without the grind. She explores 'hustle culture' and the reasons why women feel the need to constantly hustle and grind, along with the negative impact it can have on our well-being. Karen introduces the idea of the Wellegent Way, a softer and more aligned approach to productivity, and shares five practical strategies for shifting into this approach. The benefits of this approach are, among other things, reduced stress, inc...
Many women in this stage of life feel a strong pull to make meaningful changes, but where do you begin? Join me as we explore the three essential steps to creating a life that truly reflects who you are and what you want. This is more than just self-improvement; it's about reclaiming your power, making some key decisions, embracing your choices, and committing to the life you deserve. Tune in to discover how you can begin your own transformation journey and make midlife your most empowering c...
Have you ever had something in your life that you really wanted to change, something you really wanted to do, or stop doing, or achieve…and you knew exactly what you needed to do but you just couldn’t seem to do it? That is the Knowing-Doing Gap and some women can become stuck there for years (even decades). In this episode, I discuss the internal resistance that keeps us stuck and I offer mindset strategies to address this resistance and help you move into action. I provide practical techniq...
In this episode, I sit down with Jenn Kautsch, the founder of "Sober Sis," to discuss a topic that affects many women in midlife: our relationship with alcohol. Jenn, a leading voice in the sober-curious movement, shares her personal journey of reevaluating alcohol's role in her life and offers valuable insights into why many women in midlife are rethinking their drinking habits. We explore why midlife can be a pivotal time for women to reassess their relationship with alcohol, including the...
In this episode, Karen discusses the concept of creating magic in our lives, particularly during midlife. It isn't the things outside of us that create the magic in our lives, but rather WE bring the magic to our lives. Karen emphasizes the unique opportunities and freedom that midlife brings, and encourages listeners to tap into their own power to create the life of their dreams. She provides strategies for adding a little (or a lot!) of magic to your life. Get more information about Midl...
In this episode, Karen discusses the concept of self-care and how it is often misunderstood. She emphasizes the importance of soul care, which focuses on deeper emotional and spiritual well-being, and provides practical strategies for incorporating more soul care into our daily life. Get more information about Midlife Mastery HERE. Sign up for the Wellegant Woman Newsletter HERE. Listen to Episode How to Have More Fun HERE. Send a Text Message :) 🌺 JOIN MIDLIFE MASTERY HERE! **Be sure to ...
In this episode, Karen welcomes stylist Holly Katz, an expert in fashion and personal style. Holly shares her invaluable insights on creating a 'style plan' tailored for women in midlife. Holly addresses common pain points and pitfalls while offering practical strategies to build a wardrobe that is both beautiful and functional. Tune in to discover how to revamp your style, enhance your confidence, and embrace your best self through the power of fashion. Listen to the Fashion Crimes Podcast ...
In this episode, Karen dives into the concept of becoming obsessed with your life. She explores why many women are often more focused on their roles and responsibilities rather than their own lives, and how shifting this focus can lead to profound changes. Karen defines obsession, discusses the characteristics of someone deeply engaged with their passions, and provides actionable steps to apply these traits to your own life. Learn how embracing this mindset can transform your experience, maki...
In this episode, I discuss evolving relationships between mothers and their adult (or soon-to-be adult) children. As children mature and become independent adults, the dynamics within the family shift, presenting both challenges and opportunities for growth. I offer insights and strategies to help you navigate this transition with grace and positivity, so that you can create better communication and deeper connection. Check out my private coaching package HERE. Check out this podcast episod...
Do you strive for flawlessness, set excessively high standards, and end up being overly critical of yourself and others? Yup - that's called perfectionism and it's a huge issue among women, especially women in midlife. Perfectionism ultimately leads to all-or-nothing thinking, procrastination, avoidance, difficulty delegating, and stress. In other words, it totally undermines your health, joy and peace. In this episode, I share strategies to overcome perfectionism - to embrace imperfection, a...
On this week’s episode, meet Andrea Knoche, host of the popular podcast “From Mrs. to Ms.” Andrea and I chat about all things sex/relationships as it applies to women in midlife. We talk about how changing bodies impact libido, relationship dynamics and how they affect intimacy, strategies for maintaining connection and passion, and so much more. Andrea and I take a deep dive into how to best navigate all the things, so that we can live with pleasure, passion, joy and satisfaction at any and ...
In this episode, we're exploring the power of giving your home a ‘refresh’, especially in midlife. Our homes are more than just physical spaces—they’re reflections of our inner selves and they can be powerful tools for personal development. By creating living spaces that align with our best selves, we create environments that bring us peace, beauty, and pleasure AND bring us closer to our wellness goals. We’ll explore why midlife is the perfect time for a home refresh and how decluttering, si...
Whether you are married, in a relationship, or single and dating…this week’s episode of the podcast is a must-listen! In this episode, I interview Laurie Gerber, a love and relationship coach. Laurie discusses the importance of confronting the lies we tell (to others and ourselves) and shares advice on fostering vibrant, meaningful relationships during midlife. Laurie provides a comprehensive roadmap - a powerful three-step process - for creating the relationship of your dreams. Y...
In this episode, I explore why the pursuit of being "nice" actually hinders personal fulfillment and authenticity, particularly for women in midlife. I discuss how striving to be pleasant and agreeable often leads to inauthenticity, self-neglect and superficial relationships. You’ll learn the crucial distinction between being nice and being kind, and why prioritizing niceness is often detrimental. By letting go of the desire to ‘be nice’ and by striving for more empowering goals, listeners ca...
Summer is just around the corner, and there's no better time to start preparing for it. Getting ready for summer isn't only about planning vacations or buying new swimwear; it's about making sure every aspect of your life is set to enjoy the season to the fullest. In this episode, we’ll explore some key areas to focus on: preparing your body, refreshing your home, updating your routines, organizing your schedule, and stocking up on summer essentials. I share 15 things that I'm doing (and you ...
What do you do when you become triggered? In this episode, I discuss how to manage emotional triggers. You’ll learn how to recognize when you're being triggered, what you need to do before reacting, and how to regulate your nervous system in the moment so that you can move forward. I share strategies for processing resentment and pent-up energy, returning to the present moment, and communicating from a place of calm and confidence, which will significantly improve outcomes in stressful situat...
In midlife, societal noise and expectations often leave women feeling invisible and constrained and in this episode, you’ll learn how to take your power back by rewriting narratives, challenging stereotypes, and reshaping your perception of women in the second half of life. I share how to create your own definition of beauty and success, how to let go of judgment and criticism (both from others and from within), and how to surround yourself with empowering voices that support new and ex...
Who's in your V.I.P. section? We address this question on this week’s episode of the podcast as we consider our circles of influence. Our V.I.P.’s (Very Important Persons), hold sway over our thoughts, actions, and ultimately, the results we’re getting in our lives. That’s why discerning the members of our V.I.P. section is crucial, especially during the complexities of midlife. Tune in as I discuss intentional living and share practical strategies for surrounding ourselves with positiv...
On this week’s episode of the podcast, I interviewed Marisa Moon, a National Board-certified Health & Wellness Coach and an Intermittent Fasting Instructor. Marisa and I talk about the unique needs and challenges faced by women over 40 and how Intermittent Fasting can be a tool to support the body at this stage of life. The key is that it has to be implemented in a way that doesn’t further stress the body during this stage of life. Listen as Marisa shares all the Do’s and Don’ts so ...
In this episode, we're talking about the transformative power of our daily habits and I’m revealing the habits that have truly upgraded my life. Although I consider wellness to be the foundation of a well-lived life, I share some lesser-known habits - the ones that truly shift our identity and deepen personal growth. Tune in to discover how adopting these habits can lead to profound changes in all areas of your life, empowering you to evolve beyond current circumstances, age powerfully and cr...
In this episode, we explore how becoming a decisive woman can unlock opportunities and propel personal growth. Drawing from personal experiences and insights, I share practical strategies to cultivate decisiveness, trust your intuition, manage emotions and take swift action. From redefining failure to harnessing inspiration, each tip is tailored to help you break free from indecision and embrace the "power of now." Tune in to discover how becoming a more decisive woman can help you create cla...
With jam-packed schedules and numerous responsibilities, prioritizing health and fitness can often feel like a daunting task. However, by incorporating short bursts of activity into your day and focusing on 15-minute workouts, women in midlife can reap significant benefits (mentally and physically). From cardiovascular exercises and strength training to flexibility and mobility work, I explore a variety of workout options that can be completed in just 15 minutes, no matter where you are. Whet...
Join me as I chat with Alison Lumbatis, stylist and the creative mind behind Outfit Formulas®, where she empowers women to embrace their unique style and feel confident in their own skin. With a keen eye for fashion and a passion for helping women discover their 'style story', Alison shares insights into her journey as a stylist. Among other things, we discuss the importance of style for women in midlife, exploring how it can be a tool for transformation. Join us as we uncover the...
In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of Queen Energy and explore how embodying Queen Energy elevates confidence and creates a sense of empowerment. Drawing from personal experiences and scientific principles, I share strategies for embodying Queen Energy, highlighting the importance of authenticity, taking responsibility, effective communication and boundaries, among other things. Tune in to discover how embracing your Queen Energy can supercharge your confidence and transform your ...
In this week's podcast, join me as I chat with Danielle Daem, Sugar Freedom Expert. Danielle and I explore the intricate layers of emotional eating, blood sugar balancing, and the important journey of reconnecting with one's body. In a world where food often becomes intertwined with emotions, Danielle offers invaluable insights and strategies for breaking free from the cycle of emotional eating. She shares techniques for blood sugar regulation and cultivating mindfulness around eating ...
In this episode, I share the secrets of maintaining vibrant and healthy hair as we age. Join me as I discuss hair care essentials for women over 40 - products, tips and strategies tailored specifically for us. From the foundation of healthy hair care, including the importance of nutrition and scalp health, to essential hair care products, practices and styling strategies, I cover it all. Learn solutions for dry and thinning hair, changing hair texture, loss of volume and other concerns ...
In this episode, we dive deep into the art of boundary-setting and its impact on women in midlife. I discuss the effects of people-pleasing behavior and the transformative power of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. I provide practical steps and strategies to help you stop people-pleasing, create better boundaries, prioritize self-care, and cultivate authentic connections. Discover how asserting your needs and limits can empower you to live with greater confidence, resilience, ...
In this episode, I share my 'Wellegant' Style Commandments where style isn't just about clothes, it's a philosophy of self-expression and empowerment. Discover how to redefine your style, starting with knowing yourself and dressing for the person you're becoming. Learn the art of quality over quantity, dressing for your current body, and embracing your unique features. With expert tips on creating a cohesive wardrobe and mastering the art of the statement piece, this episode is your gui...
In this episode, Karen tackles common misconceptions about health and weight management, particularly for women over 40 . She discusses the importance of shifting the focus from weight loss to overall health. Karen also debunks 7 common myths around how to manage our weight and remain healthy and vital. Through practical insights, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how certain seemingly healthy habits may be counterproductive. Emphasizing a holistic approach, th...
In this episode, Karen shares the profound wisdom of her grandmother, Ida, a remarkable woman who defied age and embraced life with unparalleled vitality and grace. Karen reflects on how her grandmother embodied the principles of longevity and fulfillment and shares the 10 principles that she believed were the 'fountain of youth'. Ida's lessons resonate deeply, offering timeless insights into living with purpose, passion, and joy. Tune in as we unravel the secrets of a life well-...
As Valentine's Day approaches, we're talking all about the concept of a 'grand romance.' I explore the traits of a romantic, offer a fresh perspective on what it means to have a grand romance, and discuss the power of being the hero in one's own story. Imagine a life filled with integrity, passion, connection, creativity, resilience, celebration, and reinvention....this episode serves as a poignant reminder that a grand romance is available to everyone; it transcends age and circumstanc...
Midlife is a time that is often characterized by caregiving - we may be caring for children, spouses, aging parents, or some combination of all three. In this episode, I interview Cathy VandenHeuvel, a coach for caregivers and host of The Caregiver Cup podcast. Cathy offers essential strategies for maintaining our own well-being while tending to the needs of others. We also discuss the 4 stages of caregiving and the unique challenges faced by women in midlife who find themselves in this role....
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I really enjoyed listening to your first episode and I'm looking forward to listening to others to transition through this perimenopause period, thank you.