The Susan Winter Show

Are you the only one trying? It takes two— not just YOU. One person alone cannot make the relationship work. If you’re the only one trying, you NEED to do this instead: A relationship cannot thrive on the effort of one person alone. True love requires two individuals who are willing to express their needs, listen to each other, and work toward solutions together. When both partners actively participate, the relationship has the foundation it needs to grow and endure. Express your needs Your partner shares their needs Negotiate and secure ‘next steps’ Website: https://www.schoolofattraction.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/schoolofattraction Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6SX9WKgEWynkxyulGhDihC?si=62449e8d26ac4ba2 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschoolofattraction/ Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Hidden Red Flags? Want to avoid heartbreak? Learn how to spot hidden red flags early in dating—before they damage your confidence and self-worth. https://youtu.be/6aeVzqvvQHE Early dating often feels exciting, but it’s also the time when hidden issues reveal themselves. Subtle signs of hesitation, lack of alignment, or emotional distance can show up before a relationship even begins. Discover how to identify these early red flags, protect your heart, and choose partners who are truly right for you. Spot hidden red flags early Catch subtle signs of hesitation Protect your self-worth in dating Website: https://www.schoolofattraction.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/schoolofattraction Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6SX9WKgEWynkxyulGhDihC?si=62449e8d26ac4ba2 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschoolofattraction/ Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Tired of feeling lonely? Longing for true love? Here’s how to attract the right type of partner and create a deep, lasting love: #loneliness #findingtruelove It’s not just you—there’s a loneliness epidemic. Technology and social media have created the impression of closeness, yet finding a healthy partner for a lasting love can feel impossible at times. But there is a workaround that will ground us and enable not only self-love, but the true love of another. Why We’re Feeling Lonely External and Internal Stressors Attracting the Right Partners Website: https://www.schoolofattraction.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/schoolofattraction Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6SX9WKgEWynkxyulGhDihC?si=62449e8d26ac4ba2 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschoolofattraction/ Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The reason you’re not finding love isn’t what you think. Modern dating comes with hidden barriers—and this insightful discussion with Damien Diecke reveals how to overcome them so the perfect person can finally find you. Damien Diecke is the Head Coach and Founder of the ‘School of Attraction,’ and ‘The Dangerous Man’ retreat in Australia. Damien has spoken at events in over 20 countries on a wide range of topics including Dating, Relationships, Masculinity, Gender, Self-confidence, and more. Why does love feel so elusive? In this conversation, we explore our attraction hooks and defaults, the turmoil of repeated failures, and the surprising power of self-responsibility. From filling our own tank with self-care to embracing the shadow self, we uncover why “no game” dating, balancing masculine and feminine energies, and finding wholeness are the keys to letting the perfect person finally find you. Today’s world makes it harder Powerful actions you can take Opening the door for real love Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The Avoidant’s Love Bombing Cycle- They shower you with love, pull away, and later want to reconnect. Here’s how to spot—and stop—the avoidant’s love bombing cycle. An avoidant’s pattern often begins with intense love bombing, creating the illusion of closeness and safety. Then, without warning, they pull away, go no contact, and reappear months later expecting to pick up where things left off. This episode breaks down the emotional mechanics behind this toxic cycle and shows you how to respond with clarity and strength. How love bombing creates a false sense of security. Why avoidants pull away and go no contact. How to handle their return without losing your power. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Ask THIS on a First Date: What’s the best way to vet a great match on a first date—without sounding like you’re conducting an interview? Here’s a simple protocol that’s both elegant and effective. First dates can be tricky. We want to make a great first impression, while also filtering for the best match. What questions should we ask? How many questions are too much? Here’s the way to be natural and gain valuable insight. Being Authentic While Gaining Insight Questions to Ask Avoiding Red Flags and ‘The Dream” Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Your partner’s been slowly pulling away yet remains silent when asked if anything’s wrong. You’re confused, but trying to remain hopeful. Here’s how to know if you’re being ‘Banksyed.’ You feel this shift. You don’t want to be negative, you don’t want to freak out, but they’re not giving you much information. How long do you wait? Will this cycle self-correct? You may be in the midst of being Banksyed, but lacking communication you won’t know until the end. Signs of Being Banksyed Why Your Partner Won’t Communicative How You Should Handle It Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They’ve dumped you—but still want to talk. They say you’re great, but... Now you're stuck in limbo, hoping that staying in contact might bring them back. Here's what’s really happening when your ex keeps you close, why it messes with your head, and how to stop being a pawn in their game. You’re hoping this might be your chance. Maybe this is how you can (eventually) get back to where you were or even elevate your former position. But here’s the game— by keeping you around, your ex is selfishly enjoying your company and keeping you hooked by fueling false hopes. Why No Contact Reclaims Your Power How Contact Keeps You Hooked How To Quickly Break the Spell Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

She was way into you, then poof! She’s suddenly gone cold. Why did she lose interest? Here’s why pace has you now in the chase. A passionate kiss doesn't guarantee more. This green flag turned red can be confusing until you understand what's happening inside the woman's mind. Green Light then Red Learning to Adjust the Pace Why Chasing Get Her Back Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

There’s a downside to being too nice in a relationship. Overly agreeable behavior can dampen your partner’s attraction. Here’s how to be nice and have boundaries. Are you stuck being a good girl? Afraid to speak up when hurt or push back when your needs aren’t being met? Are you the good guy? Always there for your partner, who’s never there for you? Patient to a fault and doing all the work to keep your partner even-keeled? This video is for you. You can be loving and not lose yourself in the process. Too Nice Creates Resentment Setting Boundaries with Diplomacy Loving Them Without Losing Yourself Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Want to be happier—even when it doesn’t come naturally? Happiness and positive thinking are skills that can be learned and developed. It’s easier than you think. Here’s how: https://youtu.be/i0brdFQx_NE There is a technique to establish a pattern of positive thinking. It comes with practice and repetition. My video shares the key to ending rumination and self-criticism through this simple, fundamental shift. Catch Your Thoughts The Art of Anchoring Cultivating Gratitude Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Stuck in the same dating cycle of going from hope to disappointment again and again? Here’s how to shift the pattern, change who you attract, and finally create the kind of connection you deserve. It’s hard to date again after disappointment. But you can shift the pattern and attract a real connection. When dating seems to go nowhere, the one component that’s consistent is YOU. And that’s the good news. When you shift yourself, you get better dating outcomes. Identify Your Patterns of Attraction Forensic Evaluation of Partner Patterns Shift Yourself for Better Partner Outcomes Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Uniquely original movement specialist Zarina del Mar isn’t your typical fitness influencer. Her signature 3D Method is a powerful system that helps individuals reconnect with their bodies through mindful, multidimensional movement, as witnessed by Zarina’s 2.5 Million subscribers. Zarina Del Mar is a movement specialist, entrepreneur, and mother who has redefined how we connect with our bodies. Zarina left her career as a corporate tax lawyer to follow a deeper calling—helping others heal and thrive through movement. It has empowered 2.5 Million followers worldwide to build strength, resilience, and self-trust. Your Body is Your Own Gym Longevity and Mobility Body for Life— Not For Vanity Social links: Website:https://whateva.club/eng Instagram: @zarina_del_mar_world Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You know you're not a priority—but here's how to become one. Shift the dynamic, reclaim your power, and be more than just an option. Whether they’re keeping you on the back burner, offering crumbs of attention, or always “too busy,” the message is clear: you’re not being valued. But that can change. Here’s how to step back into your power and transform your role from optional to essential—without begging, chasing, or losing yourself in the process. Reevaluate Your Investment Recategorize Their Position Embrace Your Power Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Slow dating in a fast world — Are you a modern person seeking a more traditional approach to love? Here's how to find a partner who's on board with slow dating and building a genuine connection for a meaningful partnership. If you're feeling like you were alone in today's world, wanting something of a bygone era, think again. You're not the only dater seeking something real — and a proponent of slow dating. Slow Dating Protocol Filtering for the Right Partners How to Build the Connection Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Trapped in the breakup–makeup loop, stuck in a cycle you can't escape? Here's how to break free and reclaim your power for good. The breakup–makeup loop keeps you stuck in a cycle of leaving and returning, never getting to resolution of the issues that are plaguing the relationship. This loop keeps repeating, even when you know the relationship no longer serves you. Learn why it's so hard to let go — and how to finally break free for good. The endless break up-make up cycle. Decoding your behavior. How to break free. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You've done the work. You've stayed open. Gotten out there — online and in person. So why are you still alone and questioning your worth? Here's the shift that changes everything: Does love still feel out of reach? Wondering why others seem to find love with ease and you don't? If you're feeling ashamed, confused, or even guilty about being single, you're not alone. Far too many people carry a quiet burden of believing they've somehow failed at Love. But that perspective is not only wrong — it will never assist you in your journey. Love isn't a reward for effort. Being single isn't a personal flaw. Edifying self-worth and eliminating self-judgment. Be sure to check out ‘Allowing Magnificence' — both in book and audio, to reconnect with your worth and release the shame that blocks love. Link below: Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Everyone wants to be happy. But how? Temporal pleasure isn't sustainable — but training our mind for optimism IS. My interview with Neil Wood, top keynote speaker and business consultant, reveals how to reshape your thinking and kickstart happiness. Neil Wood has over 35 years of experience as a sales rep, trainer, speaker, and business coach. He has given more than 5,000 presentations in his career and has trained more than 50,000 sales representatives. Neil has also written and published five books. One of his most popular books is ‘Dating Success After 40' which talks about relationships and finding your ideal partner. How To Learn To Be Happy Programming Your Mindset Catching Your Thoughts Expect and Notice Enjoyable Things Neil Wood Keynote Speaker/Master Facilitator/Author Neil@neilwoodconsulting.com Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They sleep with you — but won't commit. Wondering why they won't date you seriously? Here's what you need to know if you're stuck in a loop of hoping and waiting. Maybe it's not about you. Maybe it is. They could be committed to casual dating. Maybe they're emotionally unavailable, unskilled for partnership, or lack sufficient attraction. In truth, you may never know. But the reason you're stuck in a painful situation-ship is because you're committed to the dream — and a partner who won't commit. Acknowledge the Reality Accept the Truth Keep the Dream. Replace the Person Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They left when you needed them most. You realize they're not your person, but you still want them. Here's how to handle the battle between your head and heart — and come out victorious. Your mind knows the relationship wasn't right if they could leave you this way — but your heart can't seem to stop wanting them. Why is it so hard to let go, even when the logic is clear? Keep the Dream. Replace the Person. Why Your Heart and Mind are at Odds Steps to Unify Your Heart and Mind How To Rise From the Ashes Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile