Leading Yourself

You've gotten clear. You know what you want. So why hasn't anything changed?In this episode, we're talking about the real obstacles that derail alignment: identity lag, uncentered ambition, and inherited design. We're going deep into Tony Robbins' teaching that identity—not motivation—is the most powerful force in human personality.You'll learn:Why your behavior always matches your identity (not your intentions)The Identity → Design → Behavior loop that creates lasting changeHow to hold both ambition and centeredness without choosingThree questions to design a year that actually fits who you're becomingThis isn't about doing more or less. It's about doing what fits.Alignment isn't a feeling. It's a design choice.

Last week, we talked about personal intention — about clarity, values, and designing a year that actually feels like yours.Today, we’re zooming in on one specific area of your life that deserves that same level of intention: Your career.Because here’s the truth — and I want you to really hear this:If you don’t have a plan for your career,someone else does.Your company has a plan.Your manager has a plan.Your industry has a plan.The market definitely has a plan.And if you’re not actively shaping your direction, you will end up reacting to theirs. Not because you’re incapable. Not because you lack ambition. But because careers don’t drift upward by accident. They move in the direction of attention. So today, we’re not talking about five-year plans or rigid roadmaps.We’re talking about strategic clarity — the kind that helps you make better decisions, have smarter conversations, and stop feeling like you’re just “hoping it works out.”By the end of this episode, you’ll have:A clear way to think about the next 12 months of your careerA simple framework to guide your decisionsAnd one concrete focus for Q1 that actually moves the needleJoin our Patreon Community here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/3989172/join⁠Explore 1:1 Career Coaching here: ⁠https://bit.ly/2026coaching

If you’ve set New Year’s resolutions and already feel behind, off track, or discouraged — this episode is for you.In this opening episode of the year, Carolina challenges the entire resolution system and explains why most goals fail — not because you lack discipline or motivation, but because the system itself is built on pressure, perfection, and willpower.In this episode, you’ll explore:Why willpower-based goals don’t work in real lifeThe shame cycle that keeps so many people stuck every JanuaryWhat actually creates sustainable, meaningful changeA calmer, more intentional way to approach January — without guilt or perfectionThis isn’t about becoming a “new you.”It’s about creating clarity, alignment, and momentum that actually lasts.If you’re tired of starting over every year and ready for a steadier, more honest approach to growth, press play.Join our Patreon Community here: https://www.patreon.com/3989172/joinExplore 1:1 Coaching here: https://bit.ly/2026coaching

As we approach the end of the year, I’m pressing pause. This episode is a reflection: 13 lessons I lived, learned, and carried with me this year. These are the insights that shaped how I show up, and it felt like the perfect way to close out the year together.Wishing you Happy Holidays and a joyful, prosperous and fulfilling 2026!

In this episode of Leading Yourself, I sit down with Erin Dewsbury-Ribeiro, DEI officer and author of Dreaming in Color, to explore what allyship looks like in real life—not in theory.Erin shares how her journey began with a simple virtual book club that evolved into deeper conversations about racism, empathy, and understanding after the murder of George Floyd. We talk about the power of curiosity, the courage it takes to connect across cultures, and how diversifying what we read, watch, and listen to can completely shift our perspective.You’ll hear practical steps for becoming a more intentional ally, why examining your consumption habits matters, and how Erin’s Instagram community, Let’s Read Diversely, is helping people broaden their lens through literature.This is a conversation about listening differently, learning with humility, and choosing connection in a world that often feels divided.Grab a copy of Erin's book here: https://amzn.to/3YhJC1nConnect with Erin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dreamingincolorthebook/

Today’s episode is a special one — we’re looking back, not to reminisce, but to understand what actually moved the needle this year.Because 2025 wasn’t shaped by big dramatic changes.It was shaped by the small things—tiny, ordinary habits that didn’t feel impressive in the moment, but quietly transformed my energy, my confidence, my mindset, and the way I show up every day.I realized something powerful: lasting change comes from simple, sustainable habits, not overhauls.In this episode, I’m sharing the seven small habits that made the biggest difference in my life this year—habits that don’t require extra time or money, just intention and awareness.My hope is that one or two speak to you and spark your own shift.

Can you believe we're in the final stretch of the year?The last month always feel complicated. There's excitement, but also exhaustion. Gratitude, but also overwhelm.And if you're anything like me, your evenings can start to look like this: Dinner. Maybe a glass of wine. A scroll through social media. One episode of something, okay maybe two, and then suddenly it's 10:30 and you're too tired to do anything meaningful before bed.Sound familiar?For years, that was me. I told myself I was unwinding. But in reality, I was numbing out, not recharging.And as I started reflecting on what it means to end the year strong, I realized: it's not just about what we do during the day. It's about how we spend our evenings.Because your evenings set the tone for your mornings. And your mornings set the tone for everything else.So today, I want to talk about how to reclaim your evenings, not just to rest, but to reconnect with yourself, so you can finish the year not drained, but deeply fulfilled

This week I am seating with Susan M Barber to discuss the importance of visibility in career development.Susan shares her journey from a long corporate career to becoming a coach, emphasizing the need for individuals to take charge of their careers and be intentional about their visibility. We explore various frameworks and exercises from Susan's books, including the five-step framework for visibility and the career clarity framework, and also talk about common visibility mistakes, the difference between bragging and authentic visibility, and the impact of cultural expectations on personal visibility.Grab a Copy of Susan's New Book here: https://amzn.to/4o0stnr

Real talk:We’re in the final stretch of the year.And this is the season when your energy can either feel focused and intentional — or completely scattered and drained.Between holiday plans, wrapping up work projects, social gatherings, and trying to finish the year “strong,” it’s so easy to end up spending your energy everywhere — but not really investing it anywhere that truly matters.So today, I want to pause with you and ask a powerful question:👉 Are you spending your energy… or are you investing it?Because how you manage your energy in these last few weeks of the year — not your time, not your to-do list, but your energy — is what determines how you’ll step into the new year.So grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s talk about what it really means to invest your energy in what gives you life — instead of draining it away.

In this episode, I sit down with Andy Storch to explore the power of personal branding in today’s workplace. We talk about how self-awareness, reputation, and intentional branding can shape your career—especially in a world where AI is changing the way we work. Andy reminds us that everyone already has a personal brand, whether we realize it or not, and that being intentional about how we show up can make all the difference. We also dive into how to highlight your work confidently (without feeling boastful) and why developing the human skills AI can’t replicate is more important than ever.Some key takeaways from this episode: Personal branding is essential for career success.Self-awareness is the foundation for growth.Reputation is crucial in today's job market.Intentional branding can influence how others perceive you.Human skills will become more valuable as AI evolves.Feedback from others can help clarify your brand.Building relationships is key to career advancement.You should actively manage your personal brand.Social media, especially LinkedIn, is important for visibility.Investing in your brand is like saving for retirement.Grab a copy of Andy's book Own your Brand, Own your Career here: https://amzn.to/4hLEKKNGrab a copy of Own your Career, Own your Life here: https://amzn.to/47tx3FJConnect with Andy in LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andystorch/

Since it’s Halloween week, I thought we’d do something fun — and reflective.Because let’s be honest: Halloween isn’t just for kids in costumes and pumpkin spice everything.It’s actually full of powerful metaphors for growth, transformation, and leadership — if you know where to look.Today, we’re going to unpack the life and career lessons hidden in this spooky, candy-filled holiday — from the masks we wear, to the fears we face, to the ways we can bring more play, courage, and authenticity into our lives.Let’s start with the obvious: Halloween is all about costumes.So grab your coffee, or maybe a handful of chocolate, and let’s dive in.

Let’s get real — how many times have you told yourself, “I’ll do it tomorrow,” and then tomorrow turns into next week… and then months go by? You’re not alone. Procrastination isn’t about laziness — it’s about fear, stress, and the stories we tell ourselves when we feel overwhelmed.In this episode, we’re unpacking the truth about procrastination and the six distinct ways it shows up. From the perfectionist who waits for the “right time,” to the avoider who’s scared of failing, you’ll learn how to recognize your patterns — and more importantly, how to shift them.Because procrastination isn’t just about unfinished tasks; it’s about the dreams we keep delaying. So grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s talk about how to stop putting your life — and your goals — on hold.

Before 2026 arrives, there are 5 career conversations you need to have.Not just with your manager. Not just during performance review season. But with yourself, your mentor, your peers — and the people who can help you grow.Because career growth doesn’t just happen because you work hard. It happens because you communicate intentionally.As we close out 2025, this is the perfect time to pause and ask:👉 What conversations have I been avoiding?👉 Where do I need more clarity, feedback, or visibility?👉 What do I really want next year to look like for my career?In this week’s episode I’m sharing The 5 Career Conversations You Need to Have Before 2026 — the exact playbook to help you reflect, realign, and step into the new year with purpose and momentum.Grab your coffee and your journal — this one’s all about getting intentional before the year ends. Learn more and join EmpowerHER: https://leadingyourself.my.canva.site/empowerher

Have you ever looked around your life — your career, your family, your relationships — and thought, “I’ve built so much… but where did I go in all of this?”If so, this episode is for you.Today, we’re talking about midlife resets — not as a crisis, but as an awakening. A moment to pause, realign, and reconnect with who you’re becoming.Because here’s the truth: you can have a beautiful life on the outside and still feel a quiet restlessness within — a sense that you’ve outgrown an old version of yourself.In this episode, I’ll walk you through 10 signs you might be ready for a midlife reset — not red flags that something’s wrong, but invitations to listen, evolve, and step into your next chapter with intention.Join me for this conversation — it’s honest, grounding, and maybe the reminder you’ve been needing: you’re not lost, you’re just ready for what’s next.✨ Learn more about EmpowerHER and join us: https://leadingyourself.my.canva.site/empowerher

It's October, and if you're anything like me, you might be feeling that familiar end-of-year fatigue starting to creep in. You know what I'm talking about—that feeling where your initial New Year's excitement has worn off, but December still feels so far away. You're tired, maybe a little burned out, and the thought of pushing through the final quarter feels overwhelming.Well, I'm here to tell you that this feeling is completely normal, and more importantly, there are practical ways to reignite your motivation and finish this year strong. Today, we're going to talk about overcoming year-end fatigue and staying motivated all the way through December.

I can’t believe we’re already in October. And if you’re anything like me, this time of year comes with two competing thoughts:On one hand, ‘Wow, the year is almost over.’And on the other, ‘Wait… I still have so much I wanted to do this year!’Here’s the good news: you don’t have to wait until January to make a fresh start. In fact, October is the perfect time to refocus, reset, and reignite your goals.Why? Because you still have 90 full days left in 2025. Ninety days — that’s a quarter of a year. It’s enough time to make meaningful progress. It’s enough time to change your habits, your energy, your health, even your career trajectory.And today, I’m going to walk you through what I call a 90-Day Power Shift. It’s a way to stop putting your goals on hold for ‘someday’ and start taking powerful action today.So if you’ve been thinking, ‘It’s too late… I’ll just start in January’ — I want you to lean in. Because it’s not too late. You have time. And what you do in the next 90 days can set you up for an incredible 2026Join the Last 90 day Challenge here: https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/last90day

Today, we’re getting practical.We’re talking about the skills that will future-proof your career.Because let’s be honest — the world of work is changing fast.AI, automation, remote work, shifting industries… it’s a lot. And it’s easy to feel like you’re playing catch-up.But here’s the good news:When you focus on building the right skills — the timeless, transferable, human skills — you set yourself up to thrive, no matter what changes around you.So today, we’re going to break down the 7 must-have skills for today’s job market — and how you can start developing them right now, whether you’re job searching, growing in your current role, or dreaming about your next chapter.Let’s get into it.

Last week we talked about the habits that hold us back — the ones that quietly keep us stuck. And you know me, I believe every coin has two sides. Which means… if there are habits that drain us, there are also habits that can lift us up.So today, we’re flipping that coin. I’m sharing seven super-simple habits that can transform your day — not months from now, but in just a matter of days. Think of these as micro-shifts, not major life overhauls. Habits you can weave into your routine without adding extra hours, but that create real clarity, energy, and momentum.Join Thrive 2025: https://leadingyourself.my.canva.site/thrive2025

Today, I want to talk about something we all wrestle with — habits. But not the good ones like drinking water, moving your body, or journaling. I’m talking about the sneaky habits that keep us stuck.And here’s the tricky part — these habits don’t always look ‘bad.’ Some of them masquerade as hard work, high standards, or just being realistic. But if you zoom out, you realize they’re the very things holding you back from growth, peace, and progress.So today we’re going to unpack 8 habits that keep you stuck — and more importantly, how to start breaking free from them.Because here’s what I know: your future doesn’t change until your habits do.Join Thrive 2025: https://leadingyourself.my.canva.site/thrive2025

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