The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe

Dr. Brenna Chirby and Dr. Virginia Jones are licensed psychologists with over 20 years of combined experience in private practice. Dr. Chirby began her career as a Sports Psychologist at a major university athletic department. Together, they have built strong reputations helping teens and adults overcome mental health challenges.Drawing from both their clinical expertise and their personal experience as mothers of three athletic children each—who competed from youth sports through elite club and collegiate levels—they founded MindBalanceSPORT. Their unique approach combines traditional mental health strategies with practical mental performance training to help young athletes develop a healthier mindset and achieve optimal performance.After years of watching the intense “do more, be better, win at all costs” culture in youth sports—and noticing that no coach ever offered mental training across more than 20 teams—they created MindBalanceSPORT to fill this critical gap. They have seen far too many young athletes drop out due to stress, disengagement, lack of enjoyment, and injuries caused by overtraining.ParentShift course 30% OFF with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Dr. Brenna Chirby & Dr. Virginia Jones on LinkedIn:Dr. Brenna ChirbyDr. Virginia JonesMindbalanceSPORT Social Media Links:Instagram: @mindbalancesportFacebook: MindBalanceSPORTWebsite: https://www.mindbalancesport.com/You can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the fourteenth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Trust — a powerful mindset for sports parents to practice, believing in your child’s ability to grow, learn, and handle challenges in their own youth sports journey.It’s not about stepping back completely — it’s about choosing to trust their effort, their process, and their capacity to bounce back instead of jumping in to fix, direct, or rescue.When the urge to control or over-advise appears, pause and trust: trust their coach, trust their timing, and most of all, trust that your child is capable.Take a breath. Reset.Your trust becomes the quiet confidence that helps your child believe in themselves.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Marty Schupak is the President and owner of Schupak Sports, one of the most comprehensive youth sports media companies, producing instructional videos, books, and drills since 1999. Starting with youth baseball coaching videos, Marty has expanded to basketball, soccer, and other sports, authoring over 30 books like "101 Youth Baseball Drills" and recently publishing "Tee Ball Myths & Solutions"—a practical guide for parents and coaches to make tee ball fun and meaningful. He has delivered easy-to-follow resources that help families teach fundamentals at home, emphasizing fun, repetition, and skill development without expensive equipment. Marty has appeared on podcasts and forums discussing youth sports coaching, practice templates, common errors in teaching hitting, fielding, shooting, and more, as well as his writing process for creating effective instructional content. Based in Valley Cottage, NY, his mission is to make sports accessible and enjoyable, inspiring parents to coach effectively and kids to build lifelong love for athletics through structured, positive training.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Marty on LinkedIn: Marty Schupak Other Social Media Links for Marty:Instagram: @shupak_sportsYoutube: @SchupakSportsFind more about Marty's books on Amazon: Marty Schupak  You can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the thirteenth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Courage — a quiet strength for sports parents to draw on, facing the discomfort of uncertainty, tough moments, or necessary boundaries in your child’s youth sports journey.It’s not about bravado — it’s about showing up authentically, whether that means letting your child risk failure on the field, having honest conversations about effort or behavior, or stepping back when your instinct is to protect.When fear creeps in—about outcomes, judgment, or letting go—choose courage instead: trust your child’s process and your own role as steady support.Take a breath. Reset.Your courage becomes the quiet example that empowers your child to face challenges with their own bravery.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Carrie Kimmell is a baseball mom and youth sports content creator based in the US, running "Baseball with JR & Carrie" alongside her son JR to empower parents in training kids from scratch to elite levels. With no initial baseball knowledge, she shares relatable videos on drills, mindset, motivation, and parent challenges, helping families build skills at home without expensive coaching. Featured in youth sports summits like the "Youth Sports Success Summit," Carrie discusses navigating coaching-parenting balance, overcoming insecurities, and fostering commitment over talent. Her mission focuses on making baseball accessible and fun, inspiring parents to support their kids' dreams while emphasizing trajectory, growth, and family involvement in travel ball and beyond.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaSocial Media Links for Carrie: Instagram: @carrie.kimmellFacebook: Baseball with JR & CarrieYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/

Welcome to the twelfth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Humility — a grounding virtue for sports parents to embody, acknowledging limits, embracing learning, and modeling graciousness in the competitive arena of youth sports.It’s not about self-diminishment — it’s about perspective, celebrating wins without arrogance and viewing setbacks as opportunities for growth rather than failures.When reflecting on a game or season, share your own lessons humbly; it shows your child that strength comes from openness, not always being "right" or superior.Take a breath. Reset.Your humility becomes the foundation that inspires your child to play with grace and keep improving.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Patricia Rodríguez Barrios, born March 10, 1982, in San Sebastián, Guipúzcoa, is a Spanish businesswoman and sports executive with over 17 years in senior roles. She holds a Bachelor of Business Administration from the University of Deusto and a Master's in International Business from ISC Paris, with advanced programs in leadership from IESE Business School. Starting her career in operations and finance, she became the first woman to manage a First Division Spanish football club at SD Eibar in 2016, where she served as financial director from 2014 and led the club through key growth phases. She later held management positions at Elche CF and Granada CF, focusing on teamwork, process improvements, and efficiency. Currently, she is the General Manager of Real Club de Tenis de San Sebastián, advises football clubs and leagues, collaborates with Sportboost (SportsTech startup accelerator), and serves on the Advisory Board of the World Football Summit and Spanish Sports Marketing Association. Known for breaking barriers in sports management, Patricia lectures at institutions like LaLiga Business School on sports marketing and international business. She is also working on a book project and shares insights on goal setting and women's football.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Patricia on LinkedIn: Patricia Rodríguez BarriosOther Social Media Links for Patricia:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patrb7You can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the eleventh Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Consistency — a cornerstone habit for sports parents to embody, maintaining steady support, routines, and responses through the ups and downs of youth sports.It’s not about rigidity — it’s about reliability, showing up with the same positive energy, encouragement, and boundaries every practice and game to build trust and stability for your child.Whether praising effort after a win or loss, or sticking to family routines around sports, your consistent approach reinforces lessons that last beyond the field.Take a breath. Reset.Your consistency becomes the reliable rhythm that helps your child develop discipline and enduring confidence.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

John Davey, born in Detroit, is the Founder and CEO of Fast Track Tennis, a company dedicated to making tennis accessible and fun for kids through portable training devices that allow practice anywhere without a court or coach. A self-taught tennis player who became a standout #1 singles player on his NCAA Division 1 team, John aspired to go pro but pivoted to entrepreneurship after recognizing the 80% dropout rate in youth tennis by age 13 due to barriers like cost and access. Launched in 2021, Fast Track Tennis offers an easy, affordable tool to teach fundamentals, helping families reduce dropout and build skills at home. With over 25 years in consumer tech and sports, John has appeared on FOX61, Hartford Business Journal, and podcasts like the Feedback Podcast, discussing how his innovation solves real problems for parents and kids. Now based in Hartford, CT, his work emphasizes growing the game, fostering engagement, and empowering youth to develop lifelong passion for sports.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with John on: Instagram: @fasttracktennisFacebook: @fasttracktennisCompany Website: Fast Track TennisYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the tenth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Expectation — a key awareness for sports parents to cultivate, recognizing how your hopes and standards shape your child's experience in youth sports without overwhelming them.It’s not about lowering the bar — it’s about aligning expectations with reality, focusing on effort, growth, and enjoyment rather than perfect outcomes or comparisons.Before the next game or season milestone, reflect on your expectations: Are they fueling motivation or adding undue pressure? Adjust to celebrate progress over perfection.Take a breath. Reset.Your balanced expectations become the uplifting framework that allows your child to pursue excellence with freedom and joy.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa

Vlado Platenik, a Slovak tennis coach and former professional player, is the founder of the Professional Tennis Coaches Association (PTCA) and vice president for Slavic countries, dedicated to elevating coaching standards worldwide. With over 25 years on the professional tour, he has coached players to remarkable achievements, including Daria Kasatkina to multiple WTA titles and Grand Slam finals, Dominika Cibulkova to a WTA Finals victory, Nadia Petrova to a career-high #3 ranking, and currently Lulu Sun in her breakout 2024 season. A native of Bratislava, Vlado transitioned from playing to coaching, emphasizing ethical practices, player development, and innovation in training. His work with EMPIRE Tennis Academy in Trnava and advisory roles like the Nord Anglia Education Advisory Board highlight his commitment to youth tennis education and global citizenship. Vlado's philosophy centers on building strong coach-player relationships, fostering mental and physical resilience, and promoting fair play, making him a respected voice in tennis coaching.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaCheck out Vlado's Website: https://www.vladimirplatenik.com/ Other Social Media Links for Vlado:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vladoplatenik/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vlado.platenikYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the ninth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Control — a balanced approach for sports parents to recognize what’s truly in their power, focusing on their own responses and support rather than trying to dictate every aspect of their child’s athletic journey.It’s not about micromanaging — it’s about discerning the difference between what you can influence (like your encouragement and preparation) and what you must release (like game outcomes or coaches’ decisions).In moments of frustration or high stakes, pause to ask: What can I control here? Redirect your energy to positive actions that model steady leadership for your young athlete.Take a breath. Reset.Your focused control becomes the guiding light that empowers your child to take ownership of their path.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa

Dr. Tommy Floyd is the President of the National Archery in the Schools Program (NASP), a nonprofit that has introduced archery to over 20 million students since 2002, promoting focus, confidence, and inclusivity in youth sports across 10,000+ schools. With a background in education—including roles as a teacher, principal, and superintendent—he holds an Ed.D. and has dedicated his career to student development, serving on boards like the Kentucky Association of School Administrators. Tommy's leadership at NASP emphasizes archery's unique ability to engage all kids, regardless of physical ability, fostering life skills like discipline and teamwork. He has appeared on podcasts like "Raising Athletes" and "Healthy Youth Sports Podcast," discussing how archery transforms student engagement and teacher-student relationships. Based in Kentucky, Tommy's work inspires safer, more inclusive youth sports environments, making him a key advocate for character-building through accessible athletics.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Tommy on LinkedIn: Tommy Floyd Other Social Media Links for Tommy:Twitter/X: https://x.com/naspschools Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/naspschools/ NASP Website: https://www.naspschools.org/You can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the seventh Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Release — a liberating mindset for sports parents to adopt, letting go of unhelpful pressures, past setbacks, or rigid expectations in your child's youth sports experience.It’s not about giving up — it’s about freeing yourself and your child from the weight of "what ifs" or over-attachment to results, allowing room for joy and natural progress.After a disappointing performance or heated moment, consciously release the tension: exhale the frustration and embrace the next opportunity with fresh energy.Take a breath. Reset.Your ability to release becomes the freeing force that helps your child play with unburdened passion and resilience.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa

Melissa Fortenberry is the Founder and CEO of HeatSense, a groundbreaking wearable technology company dedicated to monitoring heat strain in young athletes to enhance safety in extreme conditions. With over 25 years in consumer tech at companies like Expedia, RVShare, and Philips, she pivoted to sports innovation after a personal experience at her son's 107°F football game in Texas, where she realized the gaps in traditional heat management—focusing on environment-only metrics rather than individual responses. As a mother of three kids in outdoor sports, Melissa developed HeatSense to integrate core temperature, skin temperature, heart rate, and Wet Bulb Globe Temperature (WBGT) data, providing real-time insights for coaches to adjust training loads, prevent risks, and maintain performance. Her work shifts youth sports from reactive to proactive safety, empowering parents with transparency and athletes with feedback. Melissa's contributions address the growing threat of extreme heat, making her a key voice in protecting young players while fostering confident, effective practices.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Melissa on LinkedIn: Melissa Fortenberry Other Social Media Links for Melissa:HeatSense Website: https://heatsense.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heatsenseapp/ You can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.

Welcome to the sixth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Boundaries — an essential framework for sports parents to establish, defining healthy limits in involvement, expectations, and interactions to support your child's autonomy in youth sports.It’s not about building walls — it’s about creating clarity, setting respectful guidelines that protect everyone's energy and prevent burnout while encouraging responsibility.Whether it's limiting post-game critiques or defining your role versus the coach's, honor those boundaries to model self-respect and balance for your young athlete.Take a breath. Reset.Your clear boundaries become the safe structure that empowers your child to navigate challenges with independence.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa

Marco Trungelliti, born January 31, 1990, in Santiago del Estero, Argentina, grew up in a tennis-loving family and turned pro in 2008, specializing in singles with a career-high ATP ranking of #112 (March 4, 2019) and doubles #174 (April 1, 2013). He has earned over $2.1 million in prize money, competing mainly on the ATP Challenger Tour, securing 6 Challenger singles titles, and making notable Grand Slam appearances, including a stunning upset over top-10 player Marin Čilić at the 2016 French Open. His most famous story came in 2018 at the French Open, where he drove 10 hours from Barcelona with his mother and 89-year-old grandmother to compete as a lucky loser after initially losing in qualifiers—an anecdote that highlights his determination and family bond. In 2015, Marco became a whistleblower, reporting match-fixing attempts that led to bans for three Argentine players, facing death threats but standing firm for integrity in tennis. Now residing in Ordino, Andorra, as a father to a young son, Marco emphasizes work-life balance, cherishing family time—like emotional trips to Rwanda with his mother—and viewing fatherhood as a grounding force that provides perspective on losses and fuels his passion for the sport. His advocacy for fair play and mentoring young players focus on resilience, ethical values, and enjoying the journey beyond wins.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Marco on Instagram: @marco.trungellitiYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/ 

Welcome to the sixth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Patience — an essential mindset for sports parents, giving your child the grace to build abilities, navigate challenges, and foster perseverance in youth sports without forcing rapid results.It’s not mere waiting — it’s about honoring the path, refraining from hasty interventions or expectations so that authentic progress and insights emerge organically.In the midst of training sessions or post-match moments, hold off on pushing for instant changes; offer the patience that lets them explore, stumble, and advance on their unique timeline.Take a breath. Reset.Your deliberate patience creates the gentle flow in which your child uncovers their personal pace and victories.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa

Valeriya Alexandrovna Solovyeva, born November 3, 1992, is a retired Russian professional tennis player who specialized in doubles, achieving a career-high WTA ranking of #67 in 2013 and winning 2 WTA titles. With a junior career highlighting successes like the 2009 Junior French Open doubles title, she transitioned to coaching after retiring, now serving as a women's tennis coach at Tempo Tennis in Brussels, Belgium. As a mother and wife, she mentors female athletes, emphasizing the mind-body connection, physical education, and personal development. Her work focuses on empowering young players with confidence, resilience, and skills for life beyond the court, drawing from her own experiences in high-level competition. Valeriya is based in Brussels, where she balances family life with her passion for tennis and mentorship.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daa Entrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daaConnect with Valeriya on LinkedIn: Valeriya Solovyeva Other Social Media Links for Valeriya:Instagram: @lera.solovyevaYou can explore more of Hernan's work on his website, https://www.hernanchousa.com/.Music Production by Sebastian Klauer. You can reach him at klauersebas@gmail.com.

Welcome to the fifth Monday Reset for Sports Parents, a short, 5-minute reflection inside The Youth Sports Parenting Tribe.Each Monday Reset brings you one word, one idea, and one mindset to help you start the week calm, clear, and connected.Today’s word is Space — a crucial concept for sports parents to practice, allowing your child room to breathe, learn, and own their journey in youth sports without constant oversight.It’s not about disengagement — it’s about trusting the process, stepping back from micromanaging every play or decision to let them develop independence and problem-solving skills.During practices or after games, resist the impulse to jump in immediately; give them the space to process, reflect, and grow from their experiences on their own terms.Take a breath. Reset.Your intentional space becomes the open field where your child discovers their own strength and passion.ParentShift course 30% off with the code TRIBE. Link below: ParentShift (English): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift?ref=c23daaEntrena Tu Legado (Spanish): https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado?ref=c23daa