noseyAF: Conversations about Art, Activism, and Social Change

Ep #109 : Neighbors, Strangers, and the Stories Between Us with Ann RosenSummary:It's our season finale, y'all! 🎉 We made it to the end of Season 7 of noseyAF — AND we crossed 100 episodes! I still can't believe it. None of this happens without you, so thank you for being nosey right along with me all season long. I am so grateful. In this episode, I sit down with Ann Rosen, a Brooklyn-based portrait photographer and activist whose decades-long practice sits at the intersection of art, social justice, and human dignity. We talk about her evolution from abstract portraiture to her current project On Being Seen — an ongoing photography and writing workshop series with women in New York City shelters and transitional housing programs. Anne opens up about her own personal struggles, including surviving addiction and emotional trauma, and how those experiences shaped her deep empathy for the women she photographs. If you've ever wondered how art can truly serve a community — and what it means to really see someone — this one's for you.Topics discussed:Ann's artistic journey from abstract photography to intimate portrait work, including her In the Presence of Family series documenting diverse NYC families at street fairsThe On Being Seen project — photographing and collecting the stories of women in NYC shelters, and how the diptych format combines portraits with the subjects' own handwritingAnn's personal history with addiction and trauma, and how it informs her empathy-driven approach to social justice photographyThe ethics and logistics of photographing vulnerable populations — model releases, privacy, and consentWhat photography can do that other forms of activism can't, and advice for photographers wanting to do community-centered workChapters:• 00:24 - End of an Era: Season Finale• 01:26 - The Journey of Ann Rosen: From Painting to Photography• 15:40 - Empathy Through Photography: A New Perspective• 28:33 - Understanding Homelessness and Resilience• 37:51 - The Journey of Recovery and Art• 45:50 - The Importance of Community and Neighborly RelationsAll About Ann: Ann Rosen (b. Brooklyn) is a New Jersey-based artist known for her social justice projects using portrait photography as a tool for empowerment and empathy. In Rosen’s current project, Being Seen, she teaches art and photography workshops with women from marginalized communities such as shelters, formerly homeless Veterans, recovering addicts, formerly incarcerated.Rosen graduated from SUNY at Buffalo (BFA) and the Visual Studies Workshop (MFA), studying with Nathan Lyons, Joan Lyons and John Wood. Her influences are stark B&W and color portraits by Irving Penn, Paul Strand, and Catherine Opie.Resources mentioned in this episode:Housing Plus — organization supporting women experiencing homelessness and those transitioning out of incarcerationFive Myles Gallery, BrooklynCEPA Gallery, Buffalo, NY — upcoming solo show in NovemberBrooklyn Arts Council — grant funding source for Ann's workVisual Studies Workshop, Rochester, NY — Ann's graduate schoolNoteworthy quotes from this episode:"I think that everybody has the right to be seen and everyone has the right to be respected.""Photography is a universal language. You don't need to know English or any other language.""I realized I was giving to others what I had experienced the joy of gaining after a traumatic lifestyle.""Nobody wants to be sitting on the street. But the gestalt of seeing a person who is homeless — they're going to harm me? No, they're not going to harm me."Connect with AnnInstagram: @annrosenphotographyWebsite: annrosen.comConnect with StephanieInstagram: @stephaniegrahamEmail: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my art and projectsEnjoy my work? Join my studio newsletterMore Episodes at noseyaf.comPlease leave me feedback or send me a message:Support the ShowRate and Review the show:Share noseyAF with your friends:Buy a pinBuy a printJoin the noseyAF DispatchEpisode Credits:Produced and Hosted by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Edited by: Risha BrownLyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam FamCover Art: Emma McGoldrick

Ep # 108: Your Calm Calendar: Rest, Burnout Recovery, and Resisting Hustle Culture with Nicole HavelkaWelcome back to another episode of noseyAF on Lumpen Radio!! We have Nicole Havelka joing us, a burnout recovery coach, mindfulness teacher, former pastor, and host of the podcast Just Rest: Burnout Tips for Everyday Radicals — to talk about what it actually takes to stop running on empty. Nicole gets into how she went from a self-described "recovering grind culture addict" to building a whole business around helping high-achievers and everyday radicals reclaim their time and energy. She introduces her Calm Calendar Club, a program built around planning your life in a way that actually honors your energy — not just squeezes more out of it. If you've ever felt like you're dropping the ball, this conversation will remind you: you're not dropping balls, you're just carrying too many.What We Talk AboutOkay, so pull up a chair — this one goes places.How Nicole went from overachiever to burnout recovery coach (and what growing up in Omaha, Nebraska had to do with it)Why hustle culture is literally designed for you to fail — and why that's not your faultBurnout in ministry and why being "on call 24/7" is just not humanWhat COVID quietly taught us about the power of saying noThe seven types of rest from Sacred Rest by Sandra Dalton-Smith — sleep is just ONE of themHow planning your calendar with your values first changes everythingWhy ADHD and neurodivergent folks need planning systems that actually work for their brainsThe Calm Calendar Club: what it is, how it works, and who it's forWhy "you're not failing the system — you're just trying to do too much"The radical act of rest as resistance, especially for Black women (shoutout to Tricia Hersey's Rest Is Resistance)Doing your part in activism and community work — without burning yourself all the way downThings We MentionedCalm Calendar Club — Nicole's program for planning your life around your energy and values → defythetrend.com/calm-calendarJust Rest: Burnout Tips for Everyday Radicals — Nicole's podcastRest Is Resistance by Tricia Hersey (affiliate link)Sacred Rest by Sandra Dalton-Smith (the seven types of rest: physical, mental, sensory, creative, social, emotional, and spiritual) (affiliate link)Artist Admin Hour — Stephanie's weekly co-working session for artists tackling the admin work that makes the work work → artistadminhour.comChapters: • 00:33 - Introduction to noseyAF Conversations • 04:36 - The Pressure of Hustle Culture • 13:21 - The Challenge of Self-Care in Ministry • 16:54 - Navigating Burnout and Community Engagement • 23:50 - The Culture of Exhaustion • 29:50 - The Importance of Rest and Reflection • 37:30 - Addressing Time Management Challenges • 44:55 - Planning for Success: Reflecting on Your Values • 47:03 - Exploring Priorities and Planning Strategies • 54:45 - Exploring the Importance of Rest • 01:01:21 - Finding Balance: The Importance of Rest and HobbiesAll About... Nicole HavelkaYou're gonna love Nicole — she's a burnout recovery coach and certified mindfulness teacher who spent years in ministry before turning her hard-won lessons into a whole business helping people resist hustle culture and build sustainable lives. Her whole thing is that rest isn't lazy — it's the foundation for everything.More about Nicole: Nicole Havelka is a burnout recovery coach, mindfulness teacher, clergy person, and recovering grind-culture addict who helps people and organizations resist hustle and reclaim rest. A clergy person turned entrepreneur, she brings bold honesty and a healthy dose of play to help changemakers prevent burnout and build sustainable lives and workplaces. Nicole hosts the podcast Just Rest: Burnout Tips for Everyday Radicals and leads a community of Rest Rebels on Substack. → defythetrend.com | defythetrend.substack.comSponsor Shoutout 💖This episode is brought to you by Artist Admin Hour The admin work that makes the work work. Every Wednesday, 7–9pm Central, artists show up on Zoom to tackle residency apps, grant applications, budgets, invoices — whatever you've been avoiding. Body doubling, no shame, real community. 25–45/month, but email Stephanie if that's not doable. → artistadminhour.comConnect with Nicole HavelkaWebsite: defythetrend.comCalm Calendar Club: defythetrend.com/calm-calendarPodcast: Just Rest: Burnout Tips for Everyday RadicalsSubstack: https://defythetrend.substack.com/More ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on Instagram @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #:107 The Introvert’s Guide to Speaking Up with Mahlena-Rae JohnsonSummary of the episodePublic speaking can be intimidating—especially for introverts. In this episode of nosey AF: conversations about art, activism, and social change, Stephanie talks with speaker, comedian, and author Mahlena-Rae Johnson, who calls herself the Professor X for introverted edtech CEOs with stage fright.For more than two decades, Mahlena has helped leaders learn how to communicate clearly and confidently, whether they’re pitching ideas, presenting on stage, or navigating everyday professional conversations. In this conversation, we explore what it means to be an introvert in leadership, why public speaking is so challenging for so many people, and how preparation, self-awareness, and practice can transform presenting into something much more enjoyable.Mahlena also shares insights from her book Speak Anyway, which encourages people to use their voices—even when fear or self-doubt shows up.If you’ve ever felt nervous about speaking in front of people, this conversation will remind you that finding your voice is a skill you can learn.What we talk aboutWhat introverted leadership looks like in practiceWhy public speaking anxiety is so commonHow preparation and self-awareness improve communicationCultural identity, citizenship, and how they shape how we show upPersonal branding and navigating competitive job marketsRethinking genius, education, and how people learnChapters00:28 – Understanding Introverted Leadership09:12 – The Art of Speaking: Overcoming Fear and Finding Your Voice19:22 – Navigating Cultural Identity and Citizenship32:56 – Navigating Personal Branding in a Competitive Job Market46:09 – Exploring Genius and EducationThings We MentionedSpeak Anyway by Mahlena-Rae Johnsonhttps://mahlenaspeaks.blogspot.com/2023/11/speak-an.htmlAll about… Mahlena-Rae JohnsonSpeaker, comedian, and six-time author Mahlena-Rae Johnson describes herself as the Professor X for introverted edtech CEOs with stage fright. For more than two decades, she has helped leaders hone the superpower of public speaking and communicate their ideas with clarity and confidence.Her work focuses on helping founders and professionals—especially in the education technology space—develop communication skills that make pitching, presenting, and everyday leadership conversations easier and more authentic.Mahlena has been featured on CBC Kids, The Great Canadian Woman Podcast, BusinessBecause, and more.Connect with Mahlena-Rae JohnsonInstagram: @mahlenasguidetolife Website: https://mahlenaspeaks.blogspot.com/ Book: Speak AnywayConnect with StephanieJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare Nosey AF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsHosted by: Stephanie Graham Edited By Risha Brown Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam Cover Art: Emma McGoldrick

Ep # 106: Consistency Over Perfection: Briana Clearly on Making 12 Films in a YearThis episode was recorded live on Saturday February 28th, 2026 at Lumpen Radio.Summary of the episodeIn this live, unedited episode recorded at Lumpen Radio 105.5 FM in Chicago, I sit down with Chicago filmmaker Briana Clearly to talk about what it really means to choose consistency over perfection.Briana took on the ambitious challenge of making 12 films in 12 months — and then turned that experiment into a community-driven initiative called Filmmakers Mixtape. In this conversation, we unpack how committing to one film a month transforms not just your craft, but your mindset.We talk about creative blocks, releasing work before it feels “ready,” building artistic community without ego, and why making good films is actually a side effect — not the point.If you’re an artist stuck in perfectionism, a filmmaker craving momentum, or someone who needs a reminder to just make the thing anyway, this episode is for you.What we talk about (you know… casually)Making 12 films in 12 months (and why you don’t need money to do it)Why consistency beats perfection every timeBuilding Filmmakers Mixtape from a personal challenge into a cohortHow community makes better art (and better artists)Briana’s journey from the Navy to film schoolMentorship, vulnerability, and learning to take feedbackThe dream of friendship-centered dramediesReleasing work publicly — even when it feels scaryThings We MentionedFilmmakers MixtapeLeague of Their Own ChicagoBrain StudiosLumpen RadioAll about... Briana ClearlyYou’re gonna love Briana Clearly — she’s a collaborative director, community builder, and the creative force behind Filmmakers Mixtape, a 12-month filmmaking challenge designed to help artists prioritize process over perfection.A former Navy sailor turned Chicago-based filmmaker, Briana is deeply committed to telling stories centered on Black women, friendship, and lived experience — always inviting audiences into conversation rather than spectacle.She believes filmmaking is a practice, not a performance. And honestly? That energy is contagious.Chapters: • 00:00 - Introduction to noseyAF• 09:02 - Exploring Filmmaking and Personal Storytelling • 20:54 - Exploring the Dynamics of Friendship in Storytelling • 31:56 - The Birth of Filmmakers Mixtape • 41:32 - The Importance of Vulnerability in Filmmaking • 50:41 - Exploring New Art Practices • 59:01 - The Art of FilmmakingSponsor Shoutout 💖This episode is brought to you by Artist Admin Hour.Every Wednesday from 7–9pm CT, artists gather on Zoom to tackle the admin we’ve all been avoiding — grant applications, budgets, residency forms, invoices, all of it.Because behind every exhibition is a clear budget.Admin is the flex.Join us at: artistadminhour.comConnect with Briana ClearlyInstagram: @brianaclearlyFilmmakers Mixtape: @filmmakersmixtapeWebsite: https://www.brianaclearly.com/More ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Episode 106: Why Welcoming Everyone Gets Complicated with Garland FullerWhat this episode is about:What does it actually take to build a space where people feel like they belong? Garland Fuller — culture consultant and founder of Third Space Academy — has made it her life's work to answer that question. We get into the gap between what organizations say they value and how they actually operate, why "I want everyone to come" is a lot trickier than it sounds, and what intentional community building really looks like in practice.This one hit close to home — I share what I've been learning building my pop-up cinema project on Chicago's south side through the Change Collective fellowship, and Garland brings the strategic clarity to help it all click.Let's get into it:What is a culture consultant, actually? Garland breaks down the "people, place, program" framework and why culture is often the unseen force shaping how organizations actually operate — not just what's on the mission statementValues: aspiration vs. reality — Why integrity and service are on everyone's list, what it actually means to walk the talk, and when it might be time to update values that no longer fit who your org has becomeThird spaces are disappearing (or getting expensive) — From libraries to record shops to country clubs, Garland explains the spectrum of third spaces and who's really being invited inThe "I want everyone to come" trap — Why all-ages, all-inclusive spaces are aspirational but tricky, with real examples from Stephanie's micro cinema project (Poetic Justice vs. Disney night, anyone?)Building the Community Impact Collective — Garland's digital sanctuary for femmes who are done fitting into boxes, why she built it for community over solo learning, and the Show and Tell Mondays that keep it realAdapt or die: organizations that are going stale — A real talk about churches, legacy orgs, and what happens when your next generation isn't in your current membershipPractical strategies: surveying, focus groups, and why anonymous mattersLeadership advice that hits: People are watching you in the small moments more than the big keynotesChapters: • 00:08 - Introducing the Guest • 07:20 - Understanding Culture and Values in Organizations • 16:55 - Creating All-Age Spaces: Building Community Connections • 19:00 - Exploring Community Engagement • 31:27 - Building Community and Support in Creative Spaces • 36:14 - Facilitation and Empathy in Group Dynamics • 44:21 - Facilitation and Engagement in Education • 48:21 - Creating Third Spaces: Starting from Your WhyThings We MentionedThird Space Academy — Garland's coaching program for leaders building intentional community spaces Community Impact Collective — Garland's digital community for femmes and changemakers The Change Collective Fellowship — the civic leadership fellowship Stephanie participated in that sparked her pop-up cinema projectSoho House — referenced as an example of an exclusive, membership-based third spaceRay Oldenburg's concept of "third spaces" — the sociological framework underlying this whole convo (optional — confirm if mentioned explicitly)All about... Garland You're gonna love Garland — she's an award-winning People Strategist with over 15 years of expertise in HR, talent acquisition, employee engagement, and training. She's also an adjunct professor at the USC Price School and Principal Consultant at Fuller Circle Consulting, where she helps organizations build optimal, inclusive workplaces. Oh, and she founded Third Space Academy — so yeah, she's been busy.Connect with Garland InstagramWebsiteCommunity Impact CollectiveConnect with StephanieCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Risha BrownLyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Thank you for listening to noseyAF! So happy to have your ears!This Conversation was recorded live for Lumpen RadioEp #104: Joe Schupbach: Care Is the CurriculumSUMMARYWhat does care really look like — beyond Valentine's Day chocolates and heart-shaped cards? In this episode of noseyAF, Stephanie Graham sits down with Joe Schupbach, a mission-driven educator, theater maker, and instructional coach with over two decades of experience in public education, nonprofits, and community-centered theater. Together they explore care as a daily practice: in classrooms, in collaborative creative spaces, in our neighborhoods, and in ourselves.Joe shares how he stumbled into creative leadership, what trauma-informed teaching really means in practice, and why experiential learning matters more than ever in today's schools. The conversation moves through faith and identity, the joys of cooking as connection, and ends with a rallying call to get nosy about your local schools — and to support live, in-person art.WHAT WE GET INTO 💬You know when a conversation just goes everywhere in the best way? That's this one. Here's a taste of what Joe and Steph cover:00:26 — Introduction to noseyAF01:15 — Care as a daily ritual: not just something you perform on Valentine's Day, but how it shows up in classrooms, rehearsal rooms, and community spaces every single day08:35 — How Joe accidentally fell into creative leadership — starting as a teaching artist right out of college and slowly becoming the person leading the room18:06 — What trauma-informed teaching actually looks like on the ground, and why instructional coaches like Joe are changing the game in Chicago high schools27:02 — Art-making during and after COVID-19 — how the pandemic forced a reckoning with what live, communal performance means and why it still matters32:29 — Faith, identity, and how the personal bleeds into the professional for educators and artists alike41:43 — Cooking as a love language: a genuinely delightful tangent about how preparing food for people is one of the most caring acts you can do53:11 — How non-parents and non-teachers can meaningfully support local educators — including the surprisingly powerful role of Local School Councils (LSCs)THINGS WE MENTIONED 🔗Embarc Chicago — Joe's organization, working with 17 high schools in the Chicago area → embarcchicago.orgjosephschupbach.com— Joe's personal site for artistic work, directing, and collaborationsChange Collective Fellowship — the leadership program Joe and Stephanie both participated inLooking Glass Theatre — one of Joe's longtime artistic collaboratorsPlayMakers Laboratory, The Neo-Futurists, The Ruffians, Salonathon, The Paper Machete — Chicago theater orgs Joe has worked withDonorsChoose — mentioned as a way to directly support classroom supply needsLocal School Councils (LSCs) — the elected, community-based governing bodies of every Chicago Public School (and yes, you can be on one even if you don't have kids in the school!)ALL ABOUT JOE SCHUPBACH 🎭You're gonna love Joe — he's a two-MFA-having, theater-making, trauma-informed teaching wizard who genuinely believes care is the foundation of everything.Joe Schupbach is an educator, writer, and director with 22 years of experience in public education, experimental community-based theatre, and nonprofit administration. He is a facilitator and instructional coach and currently serves as Head of Experiential Coaching at Embarc. Joe has been a frequent artistic collaborator with The Midwives, The Neo-Futurists, The Paper Machete, PlayMakers Laboratory, Pocket Guide To Hell, The Ruffians, and Salonathon. Joe holds two MFAs and is a proud Chicago Public Schools graduate. He was a 2024 fellow with Change Collective and is currently leading the Chicago Cohort of Change Collective fellows.SPONSOR SHOUTOUT 💖Come work with us at Artist Admin Hour , and get your work done.CONNECT WITH JOEWebsite: josephschupbach.comInstagram: @joeschupbachMore ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on Instagram @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #103: Mental Health for Expats — Building Community Abroad with Moved With PeaceSummary of the EpisodeWhat really happens after you move abroad and the honeymoon phase wears off?In this episode of noseyAF, host Stephanie Graham sits down with writer and community-builder Stephanie Rubinato to talk honestly about mental health for expats, postpartum depression, and the emotional realities of building a life far from home. Living abroad is often portrayed as dreamy and effortless—but this conversation pulls back the curtain on what’s usually left out.Stephanie shares her personal experience navigating postpartum depression after moving to Italy, the isolation many immigrants and expats feel, and why community care is just as important as cultural immersion. Together, they unpack slow living, creative burnout, friendship shifts, and what it really takes to build meaningful support systems abroad.This episode is a grounding, honest reminder that moving overseas doesn’t magically solve everything—and that seeking help, sharing resources, and building community is part of the journey.What We Talk About(aka: the real stuff you don’t see on Instagram 🇮🇹)Mental health challenges for immigrants, expats, and digital nomadsPostpartum depression while living abroadThe gap between “aesthetic expat life” and realityBuilding community through Moved With PeaceSlow living, self-trust, and creative rhythmsFriendship shifts, boundaries, and nourishmentWhy vulnerability is a form of survival (not weakness)Chapters00:08 – Introduction to the Guest03:07 – Navigating Mental Health Challenges as an Expat22:32 – Navigating the Creative Chaos35:51 – Building Community Abroad39:51 – Navigating Friendships and Family DynamicsThings We MentionedMoved With Peace – Stephanie’s community-centered project for immigrants and expatsTherapy resources & finding culturally aligned mental health support abroadSlow living, journaling, affirmations, and grounding practicesThe upcoming Italian Reset Retreat (launching 2027)All about… Stephanie RubinatoYou’re gonna love Stephanie Rubinato — she’s a writer, community-builder, and calm-in-the-chaos type of creative.Stephanie Rubinato is a writer and content strategist living in Italy, creating honest, grounded stories through Moved With Peace and Stephanie Rubinato Media. Her work centers slow living, self-trust, mental health, and building community—especially for immigrants and expats navigating life far from home. Through her writing, video projects, and upcoming retreats, Stephanie reminds us that we don’t have to do it all—we just have to do what’s real.Connect with Stephanie RubinatoInstagram: @movedwithpeaceWebsite: movedwithpeace.comYouTube: Moved With PeaceConnect with StephanieCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted by Me, StephanieEdited By: Risha BrownCover Art + Branding: Emma McGoldrickLyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #102: Getting Dressed Is Identity Work How Personal Style Opens Doors with Stylist KylaSummary of the episodeEver had a full-blown meltdown trying to figure out what to wear? Personal stylist Kyla gets it—and she's here to tell you that your closet struggles go way deeper than just "not having the right clothes." In this episode, we're diving into the psychology of personal style, why taking your image seriously is actually a power move (not vanity), and how getting dressed every single day is identity work in disguise.Kyla shares her journey from tech career to personal styling, breaks down why smart women absolutely DO care about their appearance, and explains how your closet might be signaling things about you that you didn't even realize. We talk about the "sexy Trinity," why you should only shop four times a year (yes, really), and how showing up ready to be seen has opened doors Kyla never expected. If you've ever felt invisible, stuck in leggings, or like your wardrobe doesn't match who you're becoming, this conversation is for you.What we're getting intoWhy correcting people on your name is actually about claiming your presence (and how Kyla turned it into a whole brand)The connection between personal style and leadership—and why the "charismatic guy" gets ahead while brilliant women stay in the backgroundHow your closet reveals your mental state (spoiler: if it's cluttered, your mind probably is too)The three S's of feeling sexy: skin, support, and subject (aka the sexy Trinity)Why you should NEVER shop more than four times a yearThe difference between transactional styling and transformational stylingHow to build a mix-and-matchable wardrobe that actually serves youWhy talent isn't enough—and how Kyla's style helped her land opportunities she never saw comingThe real reason you have a closet full of clothes but "nothing to wear"Chapters: • 00:18 - Introducing Kyla: A New Perspective on Fashion• 06:01 - The Journey of Identity and Image• 19:12 - The Psychology of Personal Style• 28:27 - Understanding Consumerism and Personal Style• 45:11 - The Power of Style and PresenceThings We MentionedKyla's Closet Essentials Checklist - $2 resource with styling lesson (available at kylanotkayla.com)Master Class on Feeling Sexy - Kyla's course on the three S's of sexy styleThe Sexy Trinity: Skin, Support, SubjectCapsule Wardrobe concept - Cyclical seasonal approach to your closetFashion Psychology - The real psychological impact of what you wearTech industry & remote work culture - Kyla's background before stylingThe Caribbean - Where Kyla spent two years before returning to the USAll about KylaYou're gonna love Kyla—she's a personal stylist, former tech professional, and the woman behind "It's Kyla Not Kayla." She's equal parts practical systems guru (Virgo Moon energy) and woo-woo manifestation queen, and she truly believes your style is the biggest manifestation tool you have at any price point. Kyla helps creative women show up ready to be seen through transformational styling that goes way beyond just picking out cute outfits. She's all about identity work, closet psychology, and making sure you're the subject—not the object—in your own life.Connect with KylaWebsite: kylanotkayla.comInstagram: @itskylanotkaylaNoteworthy Quotes"You can be wildly successful at something you were never meant to do.""Smart women don't avoid caring about their appearance—they're strategic about it.""Every day when you get dressed, it is the daily practice of identity work. Who am I being? Who am I becoming?""If your closet is cluttered, your mind is cluttered. If you are hiding in dull or shapeless clothing, you're trying to hide.""Style is not supposed to be a costume. It's supposed to be something that supports you through your life.""Your style is the biggest manifestation tool that you have at your disposal at any price point, at any stage in life.""Stay ready so you don't have to get ready.""Nobody should be shopping more than four times a year. It's a hill I'm willing to die on."Connect with StephanieCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced and hosted by me!Edited by Risha BrownLyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam FamCover Art and Branding: Emma McGoldrick

Ep #101: Freedom, Flexibility, and Filling the Gap: How Melquea Smith Built a Creative Life Through Children's Book IllustrationSummaryIn this episode, I sit down with Melquea Smith, a children's book illustrator, author, and world traveler who's redefining what it means to build a creative life on your own terms. Fresh off five weeks in Belgium (with cats and a chicken!), Melquea shares how losing her nonprofit job became the catalyst for going full-time as an illustrator, why representation in children's books matters deeply, and how she's scaling her art through Brown Sugar Graphics—a clip art membership celebrating Black and Brown kids in all their beautiful diversity.We get into the nitty-gritty of how picture books actually get made, what authors should look for when hiring an illustrator, and why visual storytelling is so much more than "just drawing." Plus, Melquea drops gems on building a sustainable creative business, navigating perfectionism, and finding alignment between your work, your values, and your joy.If you've ever wondered what goes into those gorgeous picture books, dreamed of going location-independent as a creative, or just need permission to imagine a different way of living—this one's for you.Chapters00:19 - Introducing Melquea Smith: A Visionary in Children's Literature10:13 - Navigating Change: Embracing Freedom and Creativity20:00 - Transitioning to Children's Illustration35:06 - The Importance of Representation in Children's Literature56:41 - The Journey of Creating Diverse Clip Art01:02:01 - The Creative Journey of Brown Sugar GraphicsWhat We Talk AboutHow Melquea networked like a pro at the American Library Association Conference with custom postcards and a manuscript wish listLosing a job in the nonprofit world and choosing full-time illustration instead of going back to corporateLiving and working abroad: five weeks in Belgium, falling in love with the Netherlands, and becoming a global citizenThe actual process of illustrating a children's book—from thumbnails to color scripting to final artWhy illustrators aren't just "drawers"—they're visual storytellers, marketers, and business ownersThe severe lack of diverse, high-quality clip art featuring Black and Brown kidsHow Brown Sugar Graphics is filling that gap with joyful, authentic representations of kids with different skin tones, hair textures, body types, abilities, and moreWhat authors should know before hiring an illustrator (hint: it's not just about the art)The power of email lists, the exhaustion of social media, and showing up where it matters mostThings We MentionedAmerican Library Association (ALA) Conference – A major event for librarians, publishers, and children's book creatorsManuscript Wish List (MSWL) – A tool agents, editors, and illustrators use to share what kinds of projects they're looking forRoom to Read – An organization fighting illiteracy globally; Melquea illustrated Two Homes in Omar's Heart for themThe Biggest Gift of All – Picture book illustrated by Melquea, written by Luda Goglushko, published by Cluedus PressThe Time Machine – Picture book illustrated by Melquea, written by Pauline David Sachs, published by Cardinal Rule PressDeviantArt – An early online platform for artists (nostalgic vibes for millennials!)Dream Machine Course by Chris Oatley – The course that helped Melquea choose her creative pathLiz Wilcox's Email Marketing Membership – The inspiration behind Melquea's membership modelBrown Sugar Graphics – Melquea's clip art membership featuring diverse illustrations of Black and Brown kids ($9/month)IngramSpark – A self-publishing platform for authorsTeacher Pay Teachers – A marketplace for educational resourcesLittle Women Atlanta – Reality TV show Stephanie loves (and a great example of representation mattering!)All About Melquea SmithYou're gonna love Melquea—she's a children's book illustrator, author, full-time creative, and certified world traveler who's all about Black and Brown joy, imagination, and possibility on the page. With over two decades of illustration experience and a background in nonprofit fundraising, she brings storytelling, strategy, and serious skill to every project. She's illustrated multiple picture books, co-founded a local cosplay group, rocks blue box braids and piercings with pride, and is currently plotting her move to the Netherlands. Basically, she's living proof that you can build a creative life that's aligned with your values, your body, and your joy.Connect with Melquea SmithWebsite: prettykittypaintings.com (click the pink "Surprise" button for 3 free illustrations!)Brown Sugar Graphics: Join the membership for $9/month and get weekly diverse clip art featuring Black and Brown kidsInstagram: Follow Melquea for behind-the-scenes illustration work, travel stories, and creative business insightsCome to the Studio? 🪑✨Good Stuff Only 💅🏾Fresh art, messy ideas, tiny victories, wild inspirations, candid stories, fun secrets, and the occasional surprise—straight from my studio to your inbox.Join artists, curators, gallerists, and art lovers getting first looks at new work 1-2x a month.Good Stuff Only subscribers get:👀 First Looks — New artwork, pins, films, and projects before anyone else📖 Studio Stories — The messy, honest behind-the-scenes of making art IRL🎉 Good Vibes Only — Candid updates and occasional treats📅 What's Next — Exhibition invites, screenings, releases, and art happenings→ Subscribe to Good Stuff OnlyMore Ways to ConnectEmail: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my work: missgraham.comFollow me on Instagram: @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodes: noseyAF.comSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsa...

This conversation was recorded live at Lumpen Radio in Chicago on Saturday, January 10, 2026.Ep # 100: Chicago Artist Deirdre Fox on Turning Plastic Waste into Environmental Art & Visual PoetrySummary of the episodeChicago-based artist Deirdre Fox joins noseyAF for a live, unedited conversation from 105.5 FM Lumpen Radio about art, plastic waste, and environmental consciousness. Deirdre’s practice transforms discarded consumer packaging into drawings, fiber works, and installations that challenge how we think about disposability, permanence, and material value.In this episode, host Stephanie Graham talks with Deirdre about her artistic journey, the idea of visual poetry, and how mindfulness—both in making and consuming—shapes her work. Together, they explore the tension between organic and synthetic materials, the limits of recycling, and the role artists play in addressing environmental responsibility through creative practice.This conversation invites listeners to slow down, look closer, and reconsider the materials that move through their everyday lives.What we talk aboutTransforming plastic consumer packaging into drawings, fiber works, and installationsVisual poetry and storytelling through materialMindfulness, consumption, and environmental responsibilityThe evolution of Deirdre’s artistic practice from representational to abstract workMaking art that lives in the tension between permanence and disposabilityChapters: • 00:00 - Introduction to noseyAF• 02:30 - Deirdre's Artistic Journey with Plastic Waste • 15:20 - Reflecting on Pouch Cove • 29:36 - Finding One's Voice in Art • 42:56 - Balancing Time and Creativity • 52:13 - Exploring Artistic Processes and Sustainability • 58:43 - Exploring Artistic CollaborationsAll about… Deirdre FoxYou’re gonna love Deirdre they’re a Chicago-based artist turning everyday plastic waste into visually refined, quietly radical works of environmental reflection.Deirdre Fox crochets and weaves plastic consumer packaging into drawings, fiber pieces, and drawing installations. Her work functions as personal gestures of environmental consciousness, rooted in the understanding that plastics made for convenience—like single-use bags—last far longer than intended, and that recycling alone is not an adequate solution.Her practice questions systems of built-in obsolescence and accumulated waste, while creating visual poems that hold time, care, and material awareness. Deirdre has exhibited at FlexSpace Riverside Art Center, Hyde Park Art Center, Boundary Chicago, Evanston Art Center, the Museum of the Shenandoah Valley, Koehnline Museum of Art Gallery, and the Swedish American Museum, among others. She has received multiple grants from the City of Chicago and the Illinois Arts Council and maintains her studio at Mana Contemporary Chicago.Sponsor Shoutout 💖This episode is brought to you by Artist Admin HourGet your work done with structure, with company. Check out Artist Admin Hour at missgraham.com/artistadminhourConnect with Deirdre FoxInstagram: @deirdre_fox_artWebsite: http://www.artbydado.com/Connect with StephanieCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Recorded Live at Lumpen RadioLyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam FamCover Art + Branding: Emma McGoldrick

EP# 99 The Rise of Women’s Sports, NIL Money, and the Power of the Everyday Athlete with Angela Hollowell✨ Episode SummaryWomen’s sports are having a moment — and it’s about time.In this episode of noseyAF, Stephanie Graham sits down with filmmaker, writer, and Melanin MVP founder Angela Hollowell to talk about the rise of women’s sports, the impact of NIL (Name, Image, and Likeness) money, and why the idea of the “everyday athlete” might change how we think about movement altogether.We get into how women athletes, especially women of color, are finally getting visibility, how branding and social media have reshaped college and pro sports, and why athleticism doesn’t have to look one specific way. From glam on the court to cycling for joy, this conversation explores how creativity, confidence, and culture show up in sports — and in life.If you’ve ever thought “sports aren’t really for me,” this episode might change your mind.🗣️ What We Get IntoWhy women’s sports are finally getting real attentionHow NIL money changed the game for college athletesWhat an “everyday athlete” actually is — and why it mattersGlam, femininity, and breaking outdated ideas of athleticismThe pressure young athletes face in the age of social mediaFilmmaking, creativity, and finding balance without burning out⏱️ Chapters00:11 — Welcome & setting the scene00:35 — The rise of women’s sports + NIL money11:22 — How Melanin MVP came to be17:06 — Everyday athletes & redefining movement23:19 — Reality TV, Alabama, and cultural detours27:30 — Documentary filmmaking & creative process37:14 — Balance, focus, and doing less better46:03 — Sports relationships & team dynamics48:24 — Melanin MVP Awards brainstorm 👀55:54 — The yearbook idea & what’s next🔗 Things We MentionedMelanin MVP – Newsletter + podcast spotlighting women athletes of colorThe Melanin MVP Cross-Training Quiz (not for the weak, apparently 😭)NIL (Name, Image, and Likeness) legislation🌟 All About Angela HollowellYou’re gonna love Angela — she’s thoughtful, hilarious, deeply intentional, and casually changing how we think about sports and storytelling.Angela Hollowell is the founder of Rootful Media, a creative documentary film production company based in Durham, North Carolina. She’s also the host of the video podcasts Honey & Hustle and Melanin MVP.Her work centers Southern voices and explores the outdoors, health equity, environmental justice, and social impact — all through a thoughtful, culture-forward lens. Beyond filmmaking, Angela helps visual storytellers and creative entrepreneurs grow their audience and build meaningful creative businesses.When she’s not working, you can find her outside, on a bike, or enjoying a fruity beer or margarita with friends 🍹.🔌 Connect with AngelaInstagram: @honeyhustlepodWebsite: https://www.angelahollowell.com/Newsletter / Podcast: Melanin MVP👋🏾 Connect with Stephanie✨ Check out my work📸 Follow me on Instagram💌 Join the Good Stuff Only Newsletter🎧 Listen to more episodes🫶🏾 Support the ShowShare nosey AF with a friendRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop Art🎬 Episode CreditsProduced, hosted, by me, StephanieLyrics: Queen LexEpisode Edited by: Risha BrownInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #98: Print Your Legacy: Lawrence Nalls on Multi-Generational Photography and PrideSummary of the episodeLawrence Nalls, managing photographer of Forty Photography, shares the profound journey of building a multi-generational Chicago photography studio rooted in legacy, storytelling, and community service. In this conversation, Lawrence reveals how his father's Vietnam War documentation sparked a family tradition that's now entering its third generation. We explore the emotional weight of photography as both art form and responsibility, the importance of print over digital, and why Lawrence believes every photograph should make you feel something. From learning to "figure it out" with his first camera to teaching his sons the business, Lawrence offers candid insights on building trust with clients, the hard lessons of running a creative business (yes, take deposits!), and how to help people see past their insecurities to capture pride. This episode is a masterclass in intentional photography, sustainable creative practice, and the power of printed images to preserve family legacy.What we're getting intoYou know how some conversations just feel like sitting down with someone who's lived it and learned it? That's this whole episode.The origin story of Forty Photography - from Vietnam War footage to a thriving multi-generational studioWhy prints matter more than digital files - and how Lawrence shifted his entire practice around this philosophyThe business side of photography - storage systems, deposits, redundancy, and the stuff nobody talks aboutBuilding trust and managing client insecurities - including Lawrence's "word bank" technique for portrait sessionsKeeping enthusiasm alive after 19 years - the daily present philosophy and why relationships are wealthFilm vs. digital and intentionality - how shooting film shaped Lawrence's approach to digital photographyParenting, sports, and passing down the legacy - raising two sons in the family businessFolks and Things We MentionedForty Photography - Lawrence's multi-generational Chicago photography studioJohn H. White - Pulitzer Prize-winning photographer and church friend who inspired LawrenceGordon Parks - Legendary photographer and director of ShaftAnnie Leibovitz - Renowned portrait photographerRichard Avedon - Fashion and portrait photographerSarah Oliphant - Artist who hand-paints canvases for photography backgroundsChicago Alliance of African American Photographers (CAAAP) - Organization focused on documenting Black life with prideRainbow Beach - Lawrence's "happy place" on Chicago's South SideArtist Admin Hour - Stephanie's Wednesday accountability sessions for artists (artistadminhour.com)Chapters:• 00:00 - Introduction to the Conversation• 06:49 - The Legacy of 4D Photography• 12:36 - The Transition to Digital Photography• 15:50 - Documenting Family Memories• 22:50 - Capturing Moments: The Art of Photography and Trust• 34:11 - Managing a Photography Business: Insights from Experience• 42:12 - Lessons Learned from Hard Experiences• 44:32 - The Importance of Sports in Parenting• 49:44 - Exploring Photography and Relationships• 56:15 - Reflections on the Podcast JourneyAll about Lawrence You're gonna love Lawrence—he's a third-generation photographer, cigar enthusiast, devoted father, and the kind of creative who believes every photo should evoke a sense of pride. His studio, Forty Photography (named after doctors told his father he'd be lucky to live to 40 after Vietnam War injuries—he's turning 80 next month!), serves families, schools, and organizations across Chicago. Lawrence approaches photography with intention, encouraging clients to think beyond social media and put their memories on the wall. He's also the guy who will absolutely not participate in your negative self-talk during a photo session—instead, he'll have you build a word bank of how you want to feel, then help you embody it.Connect with Lawrence NallsInstagram: @fortyphotographyWebsite: fortyphotography.comLocation: Bridgeport, ChicagoCome to the Studio? 🪑✨Want more? Good Stuff Only subscribers get:👀 First Looks — New artwork, pins, films, and projects before anyone else📖 Studio Stories — The messy, honest behind-the-scenes of making art IRL🎉 Good Vibes Only — Candid updates and occasional treats📅 What's Next — Exhibition invites, screenings, releases, and art happenings→ Join artists, curators, and art lovers getting Good Stuff OnlyMore ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on Instagram: @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Theme Music Lyrics: Queen LexTheme Music Instrumental: Freddie Bam FamRecorded Live at Lumpen Radio, ChicagoThis episode was recorded live on Saturday, December 27, 2025, at Lumpen Radio in Chicago.

Ep #97: OUTCRY Project: How Collective Scream Sessions Create Radical Empathy and Healing with Whitney BradshawThank you for listening to noseyAF! So happy to have your ears!This conversation was recorded live at Lumpen Radio on Saturday, December 13, 2025Summary of the episodeWhat does it look like to be out loud together? In this powerful episode, artist and activist Whitney Bradshaw shares the story behind OUTCRY—her groundbreaking social practice project that brings women, non-binary, and genderqueer people together for collective scream sessions centered on healing, resistance, and radical empathy.Born from the intersection of the MeToo movement and the 2016 election,OUTCRY creates intentionally intersectional spaces where participants practice speaking up and out for themselves, release trauma held in their bodies, and build unexpected community with strangers. Over seven years, Whitney has facilitated nearly 80 sessions in 14 states, photographing more than 530 participants in moments of raw emotional power.We get the skinny on what actually happens during these two-hour sessions, the science behind why screaming makes us 7% stronger, and how radical empathy can transform both personal healing and collective action. Plus, we talk about the new documentary film OUTCRY: Alchemists of Rage, somatic therapy, scream boxes, and why our culture desperately needs more spaces for collective grieving.Key Takeaways:The OUTCRY project serves as a transformative platform for collective healing and empowerment, particularly for marginalized communitiesScreaming is not merely an act of expression; it serves as a therapeutic mechanism that fosters resilience, emotional release, and literally makes you 7% strongerWhitney Bradshaw's work emphasizes the importance of radical empathy, encouraging participants to engage deeply with diverse experiences across intersectional identitiesThe sessions facilitate a unique environment where individuals can practice voicing their truths in front of strangers, contributing to personal and communal growth and often forming lasting friendships and activist networksResources & Links:The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk21C Museum Hotel Louisville (current exhibition through end of December 2025)Chapters00:09 - Introduction to Motivation and Self-Reflection01:38 - Introducing OUTCRY: A Collective Healing Experience17:14 - Voices Unleashed: The Power of Sharing Stories22:50 - The Importance of Expressing Anger27:11 - Introduction to Radical Empathy41:41 - The Evolution of OUTCRY51:10 - The Evolution of OUTCRY: A Journey of Healing and Art55:57 - Exploring Artistic Identity and New ProjectsAll about Whitney You're gonna love Whitney she's a powerhouse artist, activist, and the kind of person who invites neighbors over to scream in her living room (and bakes banana bread for the occasion).Whitney Bradshaw is an artist, activist, educator, curator, former social worker, and documentary film producer whose practice is dedicated to healing and empowerment while boldly confronting the social systems that marginalize and oppress. She is the creator of OUTCRY, an ongoing social practice project that has been exhibited widely across the United States, with solo shows at Atlanta Contemporary, the Berkeley Art Museum and Pacific Film Archive, the DePaul Art Museum, Villanova University Art Gallery, Moreau Galleries at St. Mary's College, the 21c Museum Hotel Louisville, and Wave Pool Contemporary Art Fulfillment Center.Her photographs are held in prominent collections including the Museum of Contemporary Photography, the DePaul Art Museum, Northwestern University Pritzker School of Law, the Hall Art and Technology Foundation, and the Sara M. and Michelle Vance Waddell Collection and have been featured in Ms. Magazine, The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, NewCity Magazine, and Vogue.Both Whitney and OUTCRY are the subject of a short documentary film titled OUTCRY: Alchemists of Rage directed by Clare Major and produced by Frankly Speaking Films. The film premiered at the Frameline Film Festival in San Francisco in June 2024 and was shortlisted for the International Documentary Association's Best Short Film Award of 2024.In Fall 2023, Whitney was named one of NewCity Magazine's "50 Chicago Artists' Artists." She currently serves as curator at the Lubeznik Center for the Arts in Michigan City, Indiana, following earlier roles as chair of the visual arts conservatory at the Chicago High School for the Arts, curator of the esteemed LaSalle Bank Photography Collection, and adjunct professor of photography at Columbia College Chicago. Before her curatorial and educational career, she worked as a social worker supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault, families of children with disabilities, and adults with disabilities.Whitney holds an MFA in Photography from Columbia College Chicago and a BA in Sociology and Women's Studies from Eastern Illinois University, where she helped establish the interdisciplinary Women's Studies program in 1988 and became its first graduate in 1991.Recent Press on Whitney:Ms. Magazine: "Screaming for Change"NewCity: "Feminine Gaze Feminine Rage OUTCRY" by Zara Yost (August 8, 2024)NewCity's Top 50 Chicago Artists' ArtistsMs. Magazine: "Whitney Bradshaw's OUTCRY"Sponsor Shoutout 💖This episode is brought to you by Artist Admin HourEvery Wednesday, 7 to 9pm Central, artists show up on Zoom to tackle what we've been avoiding: residency applications, grant apps, budgets, invoices, whatever's on your list. Two hours of body doubling with structure, no shame, and real community. $25 to $45 a month gets you in. But if that's not doable, email me—getting this done is very important, and we will make it work.Stop letting admin sabotage your practice. Join us today at Artist Admin Hour.Connect with WhitneyWebsite: WhitneyBradshaw.comInstagram: @thewhitneybradshawFilm Website: OUTCRYfilm.comWhitney's Linktree : For upcoming screenings, exhibitions, and sessionsComing Up: The Feminist Art Project's Special Session at the College Art Association National Conference in Chicago on Feb 21More ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on Instagram: @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam FamPhoto of Whitney by Jamie Kelter Davis for Seriously Badass Women

Ep #96: Bring the Avalanche: How to Turn Rejection Into Motivation — with Maurice Proffitt“Trust yourself. This world will try to tell you otherwise every single day.”- Maurice ProffittThis conversation was recorded live at Lumpen Radio on Saturday November 22, 2025Summary of the episodeIn this episode, we sit down with Chicago creative and producer Maurice Proffitt to talk about creative rejection, the fear of success, and what it really takes to build a career without waiting for permission. Maurice shares the moments that shaped him: the childhood spark that made him a storyteller, the brutal rejection that changed his entire trajectory, and how he learned to turn setbacks into motivation.If you’ve ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or right on the edge of something big—but scared to leap—this conversation will give you fuel.What we talk aboutA friendly deep-dive into what it really means to grow as an artist.Turning rejection into motivationOvercoming the fear of success and leveling upGrowing up Black in Schaumburg and finding your “B-side” identityWhy you should stop asking for permission and create anywayBuilding B-Side Productions and DreamscapeFriendship, community, and the people who hold you upMaurices first web series “Broke AF,” filmmaking, and learning to editThe moment he said: “Enough is enough — I’m building my own lane.”Things We MentionedRejection Proof: How I Beat Fear and Became Invincible Through 100 Days of Rejection by Jia Jiang (affiliate link)“Broke AF” web series B-Side StudiosDreamscape TheatreBatman Begins — “Why do we fall?” referenceChapters:00:23 - Introduction to Self-Expression01:51 - The Fear of Success12:24 - Navigating the Creative Landscape19:33 - The Heartbreak of Rejection24:33 - The Concept of B-Side Productions31:51 - Identity and Growing Up in Schaumburg36:15 - The Journey of Friendship and Creativity44:11 - Transition to Filmmaking and Editing51:01 - Resilience in the Face of Adversity54:43 - The Journey of a Show: From Preparation to PerformanceAll about... Maurice ProffittYou're gonna love Maurice Proffitt—he’s a filmmaker, theatre producer, community-builder, and creative force whose work centers the stories and voices usually overlooked. From theater to film to building his own production companies, Maurice is all about creating space for the hidden gems, the B-sides, and the people who don’t fit the mold.Sponsor Shoutout 💖This episode is brought to you by Artist Admin Hour.Admin is the flex—and your practice deserves it. Join us Wednesdays, 7–9pm CT for structured co-working that helps you get things off your list and out of your head.Learn more: artistadminhour.comConnect with Maurice ProffitInstagram: @mrproffitWebsite: https://www.dreamscapetheatre.com/More ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow on Instagram @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with a friendRate & Review on your podcast platformBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam FamArtist Admin Hour instrumental by Soundroll

Ep # 95: Queer History Is Everywhere: Dr. Kate Henry on Archives, Rhetoric & Lisa BenSummary of the episodeHey its Stephanie here! In this episode of noseyAF, we get into queer history, archives, and public scholarship with Dr. Kate Henry — writer, scholar, poet, and creator of Lisa Benography, a public scholarship project documenting Lisa Ben, the woman behind the first known lesbian magazine in the U.S. Kate and I talk about the magic and messiness of archives, what feminist historiography actually is, and how queer stories survive even when institutions try to erase them.We also get into creative writing, rhetoric, butch/femme histories, and what it means to consider your own life an archive. It’s tender, nerdy, funny, and honestly one of my favorite conversations.What we talk aboutHow Dr. Kate first stumbled into queer history and feminist historiographyThe wild, brilliant, and deeply influential life of Lisa BenWhy archives matter — and how everyday people create themThe difference between academic scholarship and public scholarship (and how to make knowledge accessible)Creative writing, rhetoric, and the “moves” queer creators make under censorshipA juicy tangent on personal archives, family keepsakes, and documenting our own livesHow queer histories survive through scraps, letters, love, and community careThings We MentionedLisa Benography website (Kate’s public scholarship project)ONE Archives at the USC Libraries (where Lisa Ben’s papers live)“Vice Versa” — the first known lesbian magazine in the U.S.The book Overlooked by The New York Times (Kate is cited in the Lisa Ben entry)Patrick Kelly biography project by Dr. Eric Darnell PritchardMagazine of Horror / sci-fi fanzines (Lisa Ben’s “Tigrina” work)Chapters:00:09 - Exploring Queer History: The Legacy of Lisa Ben09:06 - Public Scholarship and Queer Histories24:11 - The Impact of Lisa Ben and Queer Archives34:53 - The Legacy of Lisa Ben: Documenting Queer Histories47:01 - The Evolution of Personal and Public ScholarshipAll about Dr. Kate HenryDr. Kate Henry is a Productivity Coach who specializes in sustainable and well-being-oriented productivity for folks working on academic writing projects. Kate holds an MFA in Creative Writing and a PhD in Rhetoric and Composition, and she researches and publishes as a public scholar. She's the author of the newsletter "Tending," the host of the podcast "Honing In," and she lives in Boston, MA, with her spouse, two cats, and a 7-pound chihuahua.Connect with Dr. Kate HenryInstagram: @thetendingyearWebsite: https://katehenry.com/Newsletter: Tending with Dr. Kate HenryPodcast: Honing In🚨 Also, as I mentioned in the episode, Dr. Kate is a productivity coach. If you need your life together, hit her up in December. She will open her books for new Success & Accountability Coaching Clients who want to work together in 2026.Connect with StephanieCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramJoin the Good Stuff Only NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep # 94 : Plant-Based Entrepreneur Niehla Ollie: From Beauty Industry to Homegirl’s HummusThis episode was recorded live on Saturday November 8th at Lumpen Radio in Chicago.Summary of the episodeThis week on noseyAF, I’m talking with Niehla Ollie, the creative behind Homegirl’s Hummus. After more than 20 years in the fashion and beauty world, Niehla had a late-night hummus craving in Milwaukee that changed everything. What started as a midnight snack moment turned into a full-on business built on flavor, love, and community.Niehla opens up about loss, faith, and starting over, and we get into how food can heal and connect people. She shares what it’s really like to run a food business, the importance of taking care of yourself while chasing your dreams, and why kindness and a good dip go a long way.This conversation is full of heart, hustle, and hummus — the perfect combo.Chapters:• 00:17 - A New Beginning• 06:08 - The Origin of Homegirls Hummus• 12:40 - Transitioning to Healthy Eating Choices• 19:22 - Navigating Dietary Restrictions During the Holidays• 22:57 - The Journey of Homegirl Hummus• 32:06 - The Importance of Self-Care• 45:34 - Faith and Business: A Journey of Hope• 52:15 - Exploring the World of Hummus and Beyond• 56:11 - The Art of EntertainingWhat we talk aboutHow Niehla went from beauty industry boss to hummus queenThe story behind Homegirl’s Hummus and how it started with one late-night cravingWhy plant-based eating doesn’t have to be complicated or boringHandling grief, growth, and entrepreneurship with faith and flavorThe real talk about self-care and staying grounded while building something newAll about… Niehla OllieYou’re gonna love Niehla Ollie (aka Niehla O). After more than 20 years in fashion and beauty, she wanted to help people feel good from the inside out. That led her to create Homegirl’s Hummus, a plant-based brand that’s all about community, creativity, and connection.She started making hummus for friends in L.A. back in 2016, and after moving back home to Chicago — and through some major life changes — she decided to go all in. In 2021, Homegirl’s Hummus was officially born, spreading love (and hummus) one scoop at a time.Connect with NiehlaInstagram: @homegirlshummusWebsite: homegirlshummus.comMore ways to connect:EmailCheck out my workFollow me on InstagramListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep 93: Stop Overthinking Your Brand: A Real Talk Guide for Creative EntrepreneursSummary of the episodeIn this episode of noseyAF, I sit down with brand designer and website strategist Bridget Baker to demystify the overwhelming world of branding for artists and creative entrepreneurs. Bridget shares her journey from professional dancer and choreographer to helping people build authentic brands that actually reflect who they are—not who they think they should be. We dig into why branding feels so intimidating, how to give yourself permission to be yourself online, and why perfection is the enemy of connection. Bridget breaks down the difference between personal and business brands, explains when (and if) you should worry about brand consistency, and shares practical advice for creative people who contain multitudes. If you've ever felt paralyzed by the pressure to have perfectly polished brand photos, matching color palettes, or a "professional" online presence, this conversation is for you.Topics discussed:Why branding feels overwhelming and how to give yourself permission to be authenticThe difference between personal and business brands (and what to do when you ARE the business)How minimalism and organization principles apply to brand strategyWhen to update your brand colors, photos, and messaging (spoiler: it's more flexible than you think)Building community through co-working spaces like Write Shit MondaysThe problem with AI-generated brand content and homogenized aestheticsPractical first steps for clarifying your brand based on what you actually want your life to look likeChapters:• 00:14 - Introduction to Bridget Baker• 06:57 - The Intersection of Personal and Business Branding• 12:25 - Evolving Brand Stories• 17:41 - The Role of Minimalism in Branding• 26:28 - The Journey to Website Branding• 37:06 - Exploring Community and Connections• 38:43 - The Evolution of Write Shit Mondays• 46:20 - Understanding Branding FlexibilityAll About BridgetBridget Baker specializes in working with coaches, consultants, therapists, organizers, and overall, people who help people. Her superpower is giving you the permission you need to brand your BIZ the way YOU want to. She's been a minimalist since before it was trendy, and organized her friends' closets for fun as a kid (true story!) Simplifying spaces and creating more room to play are her jam. That, coupled with a background in dance and choreography led her to want to find a way to use both her creative and organizational passions. Sprinkle in some writing and consulting, and over the past 15 years, she's built a business that has given her the flexibility and freedom to work from anywhere. Building brands and websites is the place where she combines all those skills and helps people let go of the cluttered ideas about their brands, and create the space for something they love.Resources mentioned in this episodeWrite Shit Mondays - Bridget's free weekly co-working writing community (every Monday)Bridget's Website - Connect with Bridget for branding and website servicesNoteworthy quotes from this episode"Branding is your behavior. It's your personality. What has you go buy that color of Stanley mug? It's not just Instagram telling you—it's like, pink is my thing.""This thing that's scary for you to share is probably the thing you should share because that's the thing that's going to make you the most vulnerable. That's going to have people connect with you and go, 'Oh my gosh, you're a real person.'""Get clear about what you really want in your life. And then you build the brand from there. You don't just go, 'What marketable skills do I have?' Because then you just get into hustle culture.""You contain multitudes. You have these different arenas that you share with the world—your art, your work, your podcast. That's what makes it interesting.""I'm a website therapist because I do like to dig in and really figure out the juicy underbelly of people's brands."Connect with Bridget BakerInstagram: @bridgetbakerbrandingWebsite: bridgetbakerbranding.comConnect & Stay UpdatedVisit my website (Art, Projects & More)Follow on Instagram (@stephaniegraham)Join my Studio NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtJoin the noseyAF DispatchSend Feedback or MessageEpisode Credits:Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #92: Voices of Survival — A Conversation with Filmmaker James ConeyThank you for listening to noseyAF! So happy to have your ears!Good Stuff Only 💅🏾Fresh art, messy ideas, tiny victories, wild inspirations, candid stories, fun secrets, and the occasional surprise—straight from my studio to your inbox.Join artists, curators, gallerists, and art lovers getting first looks at new work 1-2x a month.→ Subscribe to Good Stuff OnlyThis episode of noseyAF was recorded live on Lumpen Radio on October 25, 2025, and features filmmaker James Coney, founder of Joyful Rebellion Films and creator of the short film “There Are No Words”.The film takes inspiration from Chanel Miller’s powerful victim impact statement, and James joins me to talk about what it means to tell survivor-centered stories with care, empathy, and intention. We get into how he brought together 35 actresses to collectively voice Chanel’s words, how filmmaking can serve as healing, and why representation behind the camera matters just as much as what we see on screen.It’s a tender, thoughtful conversation about the ways art can open hearts, challenge silence, and spark community healing.What We Talk AboutHow “There Are No Words” came to lifeJames’s creative process and why he chose 35 actresses to share Chanel Miller’s wordsWhat it means to create a safe and supportive setThe connection between filmmaking, empathy, and activismHow storytelling can inspire understanding and changeThings We Mentioned“Know My Name” by Chanel MillerAll About James ConeyJames Coney has been a movie lover since childhood — Amadeus was his first big-screen obsession. After earning a film degree from Columbia College Chicago, he worked in TV production on shows like Judge Mathis, The Oprah Winfrey Show, Steve Harvey, and America’s Got Talent.In 2015, he founded Joyful Rebellion Films — a company committed to fearless storytelling that challenges silence and celebrates authenticity. There Are No Words continues that mission by amplifying the voices of survivors and using film as a tool for empathy and awareness.🎬 Instagram: @joyfulrebellionfilms🌐 Website: joyfulrebellionfilms.comTakeaways 💭Art can be a form of healing. James shows how filmmaking can hold space for pain, reflection, and transformation — both for artists and audiences.Representation behind the camera matters. Centering women’s voices in every part of the process changed the way this story was told and received.Listening is powerful. When we take the time to truly hear survivor stories, we open the door to empathy, connection, and lasting change.Chapters• 00:04 - Live from Lumpen Radio: Meet James Coney• 03:29 - How “There Are No Words” Came to Be• 19:33 - Filmmaking Through a Pandemic• 28:26 - Building a Safe Set for Survivors• 42:06 - Why Representation and Empathy MatterMore ways to connect:Email: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my workFollow me on Instagram @stephaniegrahamListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtEpisode CreditsProduced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep #91: The Power of Intentional Community Building with Lindsey LernerSummary of the EpisodeHey friends! In this episode, I’m talking with Lindsey Lerner community builder, photographer, and creative strategist who’s all about shaking things up. Lindsey calls herself “allergic to the status quo,” and once you hear her talk, you’ll totally get why.Her project, Field Notes from the Work in the Wild, captures people in those quiet, in-between moments before the big break, before the outcome when they’re just doing the work and figuring things out. We talked about how capitalism affects the way we see value, what it really means to build community that matters, and how slowing down to notice the “messy middle” can actually be where the magic lives.This one’s full of heart, honesty, and a few mic-drop moments. I promise it’ll have you thinking about creativity, care, and community in a whole new way.Topics We Got IntoWhat intentional community building really looks like (and what it’s not)How capitalism shapes the way we value ourselves and othersThe inspiration behind Field Notes from the Work in the WildOwning your power and agency in work and lifeThe difference between having an audience, fans, and a true communityCuriosity and vulnerability as creative superpowersWhat it means to be “allergic to the status quo”TakeawaysYou have more power and agency than you might think use it with intention.A real community isn’t just followers or fans it’s about connection, care, and reciprocity.The in-between moments matter. That’s where growth, creativity, and clarity show up.It’s okay to question the systems you’re in and to define value on your own terms.You’re allowed to be more than one thing artist, dreamer, strategist, whatever lights you up.Don’t skip the messy middle it’s where the good stuff happens.Chapters:• 00:07 - Introducing Lindsay Lerner• 01:10 - Navigating Personal Power and Community Values• 15:32 - Understanding Community vs. Audience• 18:25 - The Evolution of Community in the Digital Age• 32:32 - Stepping Into Your Element• 37:41 - The Concept of Portfolio Careers• 45:24 - Creative Retreat PlanningAll About Lindsey:Lindsey Lerner is a photographer, interviewer, and strategist reshaping how we witness work, identity, and belonging. Through her project Field Notes from the Work (and the Wild), she captures people in their element — before the performance, before the polished story, before the world takes notice. Her work documents the rituals, questions, and quiet shifts that shape how people show up, offering a new lens on creativity, leadership, and meaningful change.Lindsey speaks on the power of being fully seen, the stories we overlook, and how honoring the work behind the work transforms the way we build, connect, and live.Noteworthy quotes from Lindsey“You do have a sense of power and agency if you want to take accountability for the work you’re doing day to day.”“When you have a community, there’s actual relationship. It’s not one way — it’s connection, it’s care, it’s reciprocity.”“It’s not about reinventing yourself — it’s about riding the waves and listening to what’s real right now.”Connect with Lindsey LernerInstagram: @lindseylernerWebsite: https://www.lindseylerner.com/Connect & Stay UpdatedVisit my website (Art, Projects & More)Follow on Instagram (@stephaniegraham)Join my Studio NewsletterListen to more episodesSupport & FeedbackShare noseyAF with friendsRate & Review the ShowBuy Pins & Prints | Shop ArtJoin the noseyAF DispatchSend Feedback or MessageEpisode Credits:Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

Ep 90: Using Art to Process Climate Anxiety and Loss: Katherine Seichen RosingSummary of the episodeIn this deeply personal conversation, Madison-based artist Katherine Steichen Rosing shares how she uses immersive installations and abstract paintings to explore climate anxiety, environmental loss, and the intricate connections between forests and watersheds. Katherine opens up about processing grief through art—from losing her mother to witnessing climate change's impact on the landscapes she loves. She discusses her journey from childhood camping trips around Lake Superior to creating large-scale installations that examine carbon cycles, water systems, and atmospheric rivers. This episode offers insight into how artists can channel eco-anxiety into meaningful creative work while addressing urgent environmental issues through beauty and immersion.Chapters:• 00:25 - Exploring the Connections Between Art and Nature• 05:26 - The Connection Between Nature and Art• 12:25 - The Interconnectedness of Trees• 13:25 - The Importance of Trees in Urban Life• 22:24 - The Artistic Process: Navigating Uncertainty• 27:46 - The Impact of Climate Spirits on Art• 31:23 - Exploring Residencies and Nature's Influence on Art• 39:30 - Navigating Artistic Challenges• 45:39 - Exploring the Artist's Mind: Decisions and Vulnerability• 49:54 - Environmental Awareness and Individual ActionTopics discussed:Processing personal loss and climate anxiety through environmental artThe deep connections between forests, watersheds, and natural cyclesCreating immersive installations that help viewers experience nature's systemsHow childhood experiences in nature shaped Katherine's artistic practiceThe role of beauty in addressing complex ecological issuesWorking with scientists during artist residencies at Trout Lake and St. Croix WatershedAtmospheric rivers, drought, and changing precipitation patternsTrusting your artistic instincts and working through creative uncertaintyIndividual actions we can take to address climate changeThe interconnectedness of trees and forest ecosystemsAll about Katherine Steichen Rosing:Katherine Steichen Rosing creates immersive installations and intricate abstract paintings that explore environmental processes linking forests and watersheds, including the carbon and water cycles. Based in Madison, Wisconsin, her work has been exhibited in museums and galleries across the United States and abroad. She has received numerous grants and awards, including the Forward Art Prize and the Madison Arts Commission/Wisconsin Arts Board Individual Artist Fellowship. She earned an MFA in painting and drawing from Northern Illinois University, taught at universities and colleges in Madison and Chicago, and is represented by Kim Storage Gallery in Milwaukee and Groveland Gallery in Minneapolis.Resources mentioned in this episodeSusan Simard - Researcher studying how trees communicate and interconnect through root systemsTrout Lake Research Station - Artist residency location in northern WisconsinSt. Croix Watershed Research Station - Science-based artist residencyPouch Cove Foundation - Artist residency in Newfoundland, CanadaARC Gallery - Chicago gallery collective that pioneered installation art spacesGreta Thunberg - Climate activist mentioned regarding individual actionUpcoming exhibitionsSolo Exhibition at K. Stecker Gallery, Ripon College, Ripon, WisconsinOpens: October 17, 2025Artist Talk: October 17, 2025Solo Exhibition at Kim Storage Gallery, Milwaukee, WisconsinOpens: April 17, 2026On view: April 17 - May 23, 2026Artist Talk: April 18, 2026Noteworthy quotes from this episode"When I look in the forest, I see that the old decaying logs or the trunks of the trees, they're fostering new life and nurturing new growth. They're decaying and becoming part of the soil. And it's just this beautiful life cycle.""I think of white as a sort of a funeral color, like the absence of life and the draining of color. And so I was able to kind of try to give this sort of ghostly feeling as people walk through those translucent trees.""We have to be our own final voice because we know what feels right.""The answer to this or the lesson, I guess, is to not give up. Sometimes you just have to keep plugging away at it. Don't give up on the idea, but let it evolve.""I think the thing that I'm passionate about, the idea that every single individual can make a difference... if we all make different buying decisions and act differently, all those actions add up."Connect with Katherine Steichen RosingKatherine's websiteKatherine's InstagramJoin Katherine’s NewsletterConnect with StephanieInstagram: @stephaniegrahamEmail: stephanie@missgraham.comCheck out my art and projectsEnjoy my work? Join my studio newsletterMore Episodes at noseyaf.comPlease leave me feedback or send me a message:Support the ShowRate and Review the show:Share noseyAF with your friends:Buy a pinBuy a printJoin the noseyAF DispatchEpisode Credits:Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)Lyrics: Queen LexInstrumental: Freddie Bam Fam