In this episode of The Alchemy Podcast, host Doug Cartwright sits down with sales leader and former national-team boxer Omar Qatishat. They dive into Omar’s journey from growing up between Jordan and the U.S. to finding identity through boxing, and later through door-to-door sales with Vivint. Omar shares raw stories about mental toughness, pushing through extreme training camps, and the wake-up call of realizing his entire self-worth was tied to performance, money, and relationships. He opens up about a devastating breakup, an “ego death” summer on the doors, and how grief, spirituality, and mentorship helped him rebuild from the inside out. Doug and Omar explore what real masculinity looks like, the power of learning to feel your emotions instead of running from them, and how freedom comes not from escaping discomfort, but from expanding your capacity to experience it.Timestamps of Key Moments00:45 — Nervous Start: Omar admits imposter syndrome.02:05 — Alchemy Summit: Redwoods, yoga, spirituality glimpse.03:40 — Liminal Space: Identity crisis after a rough summer.05:00 — What is Alchemy Summit?: Doug explains the purpose 06:30 — Seasonal Energy: Feminine reset vs. masculine sales event.07:55 — Jordan Upbringing: "Too Arab for America, too white for Jordan" tension.09:20 — Boxing Roots: Finding belonging, national team, staying sane through fighting.11:05 — Coach Tom Era: 130° garage gym, Ramadan, "finish 12 rounds."13:10 — Mortality: Weight cuts, dehydration, friends lost in boxing.14:45 — Performance Highs: Sales vs. fight wins; sales' deeper call.16:20 — Letting Boxing Go: Dreams vs. reality of long-term damage.17:55 — Recruitment: Ali Sultan's timely Snapchat message.19:15 — First Blitz: Small upgrades, early wins, commission taste.20:35 — Palm Springs Broke: "Sell 3 EFP or you’re stuck here"—hitting 3.01.22:10 — Rich House Awakening: Mansion, steak, vision expansion.23:30 — Mentors & Brotherhood: Steve, Jay Lou, Ali, Noor, Qais—gratitude.25:00 — DC Summers: Bageling → Rookie 165 → Sophomore 200.26:30 — Heartbreak Summer: Worst breakup, crying daily on the doors.28:00 — Doug Parallels: His 2018 breakup, depression, 125-deal year.29:40 — Self-Worth Collapse: Tying identity to sales, women, status.31:00 — "Just for today": Doug's Little Rock practice—nature, journaling.32:45 — Ego Death: Losing hair, car, money, persona—left weeping.34:20 — Grief as Initiation: Men lacking ritual; Francis Weller.35:55 — Karma Full Circle: Stealing girls → being cheated on.37:15 — Freedom from Self: Doug on feeling discomfort.38:40 — Self-Work as Numbing: Using wellness to escape.40:05 — Last Week Breakthrough: Going out anxious but present; detaching from results.41:30 — Divine Intuition: Surrendering effort, not forcing outcomes.43:00 — Luciana Lesson: "I wake up and let intuition lead."44:30 — Flow vs. Force: Action + surrender, harvesting the day.46:00 — Big-Year Vision: 300+ personal, 2,000-rep downline—by winning today.47:10 — Doug Reflects: From chaos to grounded masculine.48:20 — Closeout: Love, brotherhood, and Alchemy Summit return tease.49:30 — After-Mic: ATL vs. Utah summits; Omar loving Atlanta life.Follow Doug:IG: @doug_cartwrightJoin the Alchemy Accelerator: HERE Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: HERE