How to Slow Down Without Losing Momentum - ft. Julian Gonzalez-Becerra
Description
In this episode of The Alchemy Podcast, host Doug Cartwright sits down with coach and former CrossFit competitor Julian Gonzalez-Becerra to explore the inner game behind growth, spirituality, and performance. They dive into Julian’s journey from feeling awkward in his body to becoming a high-level CrossFit athlete and coach, and how a brutal burpee workout led to one of his first spiritual awakenings. Julian shares how plant medicine, yoga, and traditional Hatha practices helped him move from a life of constant “doing” into one of deeper awareness, alignment, and intuition.
They also unpack the power of daily pause rituals, phone-free Sundays, and learning to distinguish ego from genuine inner calling, especially during big life transitions like leaving LA or changing careers. Along the way, Doug and Julian talk about rewiring limiting beliefs, spotting recurring patterns in relationships and business, and the importance of aligned community and high-quality coaching on the path of becoming your highest self.
Timestamps of Key Moments
01:32 – Who Julian Was Before Men’s Work, Burning Man & Plant Medicine
03:58 – Feeling Awkward in His Body & Becoming a CrossFit Athlete
06:45 – From Self-Focused Athlete to Service-Focused Coach
09:12 – Spiritual Awakening Doing Burpees: “I Am Not My Thoughts”
12:48 – Last Competitive Season, Moving States & a Potent Mushroom Journey
16:30 – Realizing There’s More to Life Than Just Performance & Goals
19:40 – Moving to Bali & Discovering Traditional Hatha Yoga
23:35 – Mind–Body–Spirit: The 8 Limbs of Yoga & Ascending Consciousness
27:18 – Doug’s First Yoga Class & 15 Years of Mental Noise Going Quiet
31:05 – Funny Restorative Yoga Story & Softening the “Sales Bro” Identity
34:42 – Julian’s Night Routine: Stretch, Breath & Meditation on the Road
38:20 – Front Layer vs Second Layer of Mind & Accessing Intuition
42:36 – You Are the Driver, Not the Car: Self vs the Mind-Machine
46:10 – Flow State, Synchronicity & The Story of How They Actually Met
49:22 – Grandview Summer in Venice: The Power of Aligned Community
53:05 – Following Your Heart, Leaving LA & Knowing When It’s Time to Go
56:40 – Ego vs True Intuitive Calling & Being Honest With Yourself
1:00:02 – Journaling, Patterns in Dating & Rewriting Subconscious Beliefs
1:04:30 – Helping Men Get Free: Coaching, Communication & Energy Leaks
1:08:05 – Why Having a Coach Accelerates Growth & What Julian Works On
1:11:10 – How to Work With Julian & Closing Big Love
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