How Do We Manage?

Having a successful career whilst raising children can sometimes feel like an impossible challenge – but Dolly Jones wants to change that narrative. Dolly’s a former editor at Vogue, a digital consultant and author of “Leaving the Ladder Down”, a book which encourages us to think differently about working parents – for ourselves, our families and in the workplace. In this episode of How Do We Manage, Dolly explains why we should appreciate every type of mother and the roles they play – both those at home and at work. She advocates for a culture of speaking openly and honestly about family to employers and colleagues, putting aside mother guilt, accepting the joy of having both a job and a family – and celebrating the everyday wins.   Resources & Links  https://www.amazon.co.uk/Ladder-Down-Dolly-Jones/dp/0008431388    @dolly_jones  Host: Stephanie von Bismarck  Guest:  Dolly Jones Producer: Tory Pope  Production Manager: Angela Crago  Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino  The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios.  Follow @HowDoWeManage

It’s one of life’s last remaining taboo subjects...Money.  What we earn, what we save and how we spend is mostly shrouded in secrecy. And in a world where the earning power and purse strings are still so often held by men, tackling the issue head on can be particularly challenging for women.  Today’s guest is on a mission to change that. Bola Sol is a financial advisor, a money columnist and the author of two books, “Your Money Life” and “How To Save It”, which aim to help us better understand how to manage our money. She is also making it her mission to empower women around the world to take control of their finances. Bola and Stephanie discuss what it was like being a woman of colour in the world of corporate finance, why schools are failing us when it comes to teaching kids about money, and why getting women in a room together to talk about all things financial is so important. Bola also shares tips on the best ways to invest, save, budget and educate our children around money. We can all come away from this episode a little richer. Resources & Links https://bolasol.co.uk/  @bola_sol  @bolasol  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bola-sol/ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Bola Sol Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

Boundaries... it’s one of those words we hear all the time, but what does a healthy boundary really look and feel like? Do you know how to set your own and respect other people’s? In this episode Stephanie gets all the answers and so much more from best-selling author, therapist, and creator of the online platform “Struggle Care”, KC Davies. KC shares how her own addiction battles and mental health difficulties led her to a life providing help and support for others, how an ADHD diagnosis has shaped her own boundaries, and how to really ensure you’re treated with the respect you deserve in all your relationships. Resources & Links https://www.strugglecare.com/  https://www.instagram.com/strugglecare/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@domesticblisters?lang=en Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: KC Davies Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

How much do you know about what the children in your life are seeing online? The average age at which young people first see porn is now just 13 – with more than a quarter accessing it by age 11. As governments worldwide grapple with the best ways to protect children online, the theme of today’s episode is both timely and necessary. And the guest is a force to be reckoned with. Tatiana Kotlyarenko is an award-winning international expert on human trafficking and violence against women and girls. In this conversation with Stephanie she explains the real dangers children are exposed to online, the impact it has on their brains, and how to best keep them safe. She talks about holding global corporations to account, the unseen and unheard victims, and the measures that are desperately needed to make real change. And she shares how she remains hopeful and finds joy in her own life. This episode contains descriptions of sexual violence and graphic content. Resources & Links    linkedin.com/in/tatiana-kotlyarenko-b0b4a63   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Tatiana Kotlyarenko Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

It’s something so many people struggle with at some point in their lives – a healthy attitude to food, eating, diet and body image. So how can we eat in a way that’s well adjusted, and step away from those damaging messages that come from both outside influences and our own inner critic? Priya Tew is an award-winning registered dietitian and nutrition professional who has an incredibly grounding, and practical approach to the way we eat, and think about our bodies. She and Stephanie discuss the online influences that can lead us astray, the myths and misconceptions around what a healthy diet looks like, and how Priya approaches food with her own children. Content warning: Discussions around diet and eating disorders. Resources & Links https://www.priyatew.com/  https://www.instagram.com/priya_tew/?hl=en Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Priya Tew Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow⁠ @HowDoWeManage

Are you excited or frightened by AI? Is it helping us cope with everyday life more effectively – or destroying human creativity and agency?  These are some of the big questions tackled in today’s conversation with Greg Beato – a tech writer and co-author of the book “SuperAgency - What Could Possibly Go Right With Our Future”. Written with LinkedIn founder Reid Hoffman, the book explores the ways we can make AI work for us rather than against us – and encourages us all to get excited about the possibilities of the future. Greg and Stephanie discuss why AI is the biggest technological breakthrough in 300 years, what it means for our concept of privacy, the dangers it might present, and how to really use AI to our advantage.  This chat is a deep dive into what the future of technology can and will look like and how to really embrace it. Resources & Links http://www.superagency.ai. Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Greg Beato Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

In 2008, shortly after he’d qualified as as doctor, Dr Stuart Farrimond was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumour. He was forced to leave medical practise, but went on to become a science educator, an international bestselling author and a broadcaster. In this very special episode Stephanie and Dr Stu talked about the mental health condition which, by chance, led to his brain tumour diagnosis, and how he coped with those two illnesses alongside one another. Dr Stu gave us practical tips and techniques for living a healthy life, including his belief that a good night’s sleep provides the most crucial foundation for living well. Sadly, shortly after recording this, Dr Stuart’s condition deteriorated, and he passed away peacefully with friends and family around him in May 2025. This episode goes out in his memory, and with thanks to his wife Grace, for allowing us to share his story and his wisdom.   Content warning: This episode includes discussion around eating disorders, mental health issues and cancer treatment.   Links & Resources https://stuartfarrimond.com/ @realdoctorstu The Science of Flavour, released in the UK on July 31st 2025.   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck   Guest: Dr Stuart Farrimond  Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

Tova Leigh is a breath of fresh air. Having originally trained as a lawyer, and then an actress, she became an online sensation when she started sharing her feelings about motherhood in a blog that went viral. Since then she’s become a content creator, performer, best-selling author, and leads international women’s retreats.  Her thoughts on being a woman and everything it involves are honest, often hilarious, and nothing is off the table. In their conversation, Tova and Stephanie discuss the importance of women’s stories, her new book Good Girls Gossip, how she tackles “mother guilt” and why she’ll never stop speaking up. Content Warning: This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Resources & Links https://lnk.to/GoodGirlsGossip www.TovaLeigh.com  Facebook  Instagram  TikTok  YouTube Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Tova Leigh Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

The safety of our children online is a massive issue for parents, carers, guardians and governments worldwide. As amendments to the UK Online Safety Act come into force this week, this is the second part of a conversation with Baroness Beeban Kidron OBE, a leading voice on children’s rights in the digital environment , who was instrumental in the creation of the Act. In this, Part 2, we take a more in depth look at the UK Online Safety Act – how it came about and what it means for children. Baroness Kidron explains the huge global challenges of creating a digitally safe space for children, how we can all hold big tech corporations to account, and the importance of appreciating what’s around us in the real world, away from our screens. Don’t forget to go back and listen to Part 1, in which we hear about Baroness Kidron’s early career as a filmmaker, and how children provide the real voice behind all her work. Resources & Links https://beeban.com/ https://5rightsfoundation.com/ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Baroness Beeban Kidron OBE Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

Keeping children safe online is a massive global challenge, and Baroness Beeban Kidron OBE has been a huge force for establishing standards for digital safety and privacy across the world.  This conversation was recorded in July 2025 just before an amendment to the UK Online Safety Act came into force, to further protect children from harm, and we’re releasing it in two parts. A crossbench peer in the UK House of Lords, Baroness Kidron was instrumental in the creation of the act, and the Age Appropriate Design Code. And that came after her early success as a filmmaker, with directing credits including “Oranges are Not the Only Fruit” and “Bridget Jones 2 - Edge of Reason”.  In this, Part 1, Baroness Kidron explains how a childhood illness took her behind the camera, what she’s learnt from children worldwide on how they really feel about tech, and the one thing all parents could do to really make a difference. Part 2 will be released on 29th July, and explores the creation of the UK Online Safety Act, the huge global challenges of creating a safe space online for children, how we can all hold big tech corporations to account, and the importance of appreciating what’s around us in the real world, away from our screens. Resources & Links https://beeban.com/ https://5rightsfoundation.com/ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Baroness Beeban Kidron OBE Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

How much environmental guilt do you suffer from? Knowing where to start in terms of living and working in a more sustainable way can feel like a never ending question, but this episode of How Do We Manage can help with that. Stephanie’s joined by Chief Country Officer at the Sustainable Markets Initiative, Xenia zu Hohenlohe. Xenia is an expert in sustainability, having spent years advising the tourism industry,  and is now working with major companies across the world to provide advice on how they can make real change for the better. She discusses what sustainability means in the real world, and the things we can all be doing to protect the planet – from how we travel, to how we eat and how we work and play. Resources & Links  ⁠xenia zu hohenlohe⁠ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Xenia ze Hohenlohe Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow ⁠⁠@HowDoWeManage⁠⁠

Neurodiversity is something that now affects all of us – whether it be something you live with yourself, or through the relationships you have with friends, loved ones, and your children.It’s estimated that 15 to 20 percent of the global population have a neurodiversity, whether it be autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia or another condition. In this episode of How Do We Manage…? Stephanie meets Lucinda Miller – a naturopath and best-selling author, to discuss how some simple diet and nutrition swaps can really help brain function for those of us who are neurodiverse.  Lucinda’s recipe book “Brain Brilliance” focuses on the links between how we eat and our brain health. She talks with passion and honesty about her own diagnosis, how changes in diet changed her life, and the impact she’s had for both her own family and the families she works with. She provides helpful tips and practical advice on how to manage symptoms of neurodiversity through nutrition, and how to celebrate all the amazing gifts and qualities someone living with neurodiversity can bring to life.    Resources & Links  ⁠https://naturedoc.com/⁠ https://naturedoc.com/brain-brilliance/  @naturedockids  @LucindaNatDoc NatureDoc Health  NatureDoc  ⁠linkedin.com/in/lucinda-miller-4b5599⁠ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck  Guest:  Lucinda Miller Producer: Tory Pope  Production Manager: Angela Crago  Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino  The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios.  Follow @HowDoWeManage

“My purpose in life is to bring joy and positivity to every person that I interact with”...The words of the guest for this episode, Charlie Dark, MBE. Charlie is a DJ, creative, founder of Run Dem Crew, and a true inspiration. In this episode he and Stephanie discuss his upbringing in 1970s Peckham in London, the school which both opened opportunities and presented real challenges, how he grounded himself through running, and the community he’s created to encourage others to do the same. If you’re in need of some motivation in your life, this episode is most definitely for you!   Resources & Links  @daddydarkrdc @rundemcrew https://www.rundemcrew.com/ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Charlie Dark, MBE Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

How much time do you spend in the “mindless scroll?” Do you approach your social media with intention, or is it eating up your time, productivity and money in unhealthy ways? In this episode of How Do We Manage, Stephanie chats with social media expert, Matt Navarra. Matt is a consultant who advises major online platforms around the world including Google, Meta and the UN, and once managed the Twitter account for the UK Prime Minister David Cameron. He and Stephanie discuss how to use social media in a way that’s productive and not damaging, how to help our kids know what’s healthy and what’s not, the impact of Matt’s ADHD diagnosis on his career, and some easy tips to help us step away from our phones. Resources & Links Geekout Newsletter  mattnavarra  @mattnavarra  matthewnavarra  mattnavarra Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Matt Navarra Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

If you’ve ever struggled to understand your hormonal balance and the impact it has on your physical and mental health each day, this episode is for you. Stephanie’s guest is General Practitioner, Lifestyle and Longevity Expert Dr Anita Raja. She and Stephanie take a deep dive into all things hormones...how they work, the areas of your health they can impact, how they affect mental health, and what to watch out for in perimenopause and menopause. They also discuss topics around how to be really seen, heard and understood by your GP, going with your gut on your health concerns, what longevity really means, and the mental health difficulties Dr Anita has herself had to cope with during her career. Resources & Links https://dranitaraja.com/https://www.instagram.com/dranitaraja https://x.com/dranitaraja https://www.tiktok.com/@dranitaraja   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Dr Anita Raja Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

In this episode of How Do We Manage...Stephanie is joined by Cecile Fjellhøy. Cecilie shot to fame when her story of being defrauded of hundreds of thousands of dollars by a former lover was documented in the 2022 Netflix documentary, The Tinder Swindler. She’s gone on to become an activist for victims of romance fraud, founding LoveSaid – an organsation which offers help and advice to those affected. She and Stephanie look back at her journey, and talk about the impact it’s had on her life, both positive and negative. Cecilie offers valuable advice on how we can all protect ourselves from emotional scams, both online and in person. Links & Resources https://www.lovesaid.org/ The Tinder Swindler @cecilie_   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Cecilie Fjellhøy Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

In this episode of How Do We Manage, Stephanie chats with Co-Founder and Chairman of Implement AI, Piers Linney. Piers is a highly successful British business leader and entrepreneur and has appeared in TV shows such as Dragon’s Den and The Secret Millionaire. They discuss how to approach AI in the workplace, the digital change we need to prepare for and get on board with, and how to really maximise the potential of AI in a way that will work for you.  We also learn about the impact growing up as a mixed-race kid in a Lancashire mill town had on Piers, the triumphs he’s achieved and lessons he’s learnt, and get plenty of tips for all budding entrepreneurs and businesspeople about mindset, resilience and owning your failures. Resources & Links    www.implementai.io   @ImplementAI @Pierslinney   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck  Guest:   Producer: Tory Pope  Production Manager: Angela Crago  Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino  The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios.  Follow @HowDoWeManage

In this episode of How Do We Manage, Stephanie chats with Emily Cherkin, aka The Screentime Consultant Author of The Screentime Solution, Emily began her career as a teacher, but after a decade of watching screens becoming more and more present in children’s lives, both in the classroom and at home, she started working with parents and teachers to develop a healthy approach to screentime and now offers coaching and presentations around the world Stephanie and Emily explore that concept of being “tech-intentional”, discuss what a healthy relationship with our screens really looks like, tackle screentime battles and dig into how we role-model screentime for our children.  Links & Resources The Screentime Consultant The Screentime Solution – A judgement free guide to becoming a tech intentional family. The Screentime Consultant Webinars UnPlug EdTech Toolkit The EdTech Law Center @thescreentimeconsultant @ScreentimeLllc @thescreentimeconsultantllc6072 @thescreentimeconsultant Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Emily Cherkin Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

In this episode of How Do We Manage Stephanie is joined in the studio by a global fashion icon. Elizabeth von der Goltz has been a leading name in the fashion industry for decades. She worked her way up from a temp job at Barneys in New York to take on leadership roles at Bergdorf Goodman and Net-a-Porter and later became Chief Merchandising Officer for Matches.com and CEO of Browns. She’s now working as a Luxury Fashion & E-Commerce Executive, Board Leader & Strategic Advisor.   Elizabeth sits down with Stephanie to share her story of drive and self-belief, how she refused to participate in the more toxic elements of the industry, her own “Devil Wears Prada” moment, and how it feels when things don’t go to plan at the top of your game. She’s also got great advice for anyone just starting their career – plus tips on how to stay true to yourself in both your approach to your work, and your own personal style.   Resources & Links   @elizabethvdg elizabeth-von-der-goltz   Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage

Today's guest is Dr Paul Conti. Paul is a psychiatrist and author, specialising in trauma and the impact it can have on our minds and bodies. His 2022 book Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic, comes with an endorsement from Lady Gaga, who claims he saved her life. In this episode, Paul and Stephanie talk in depth about trauma, both individual and collective, how we recognise it, and how we can work to heal from it. Paul emphasies the importance of placing equal value on our mental health as our physical health, and shares tips and advice on how to do that. They discuss the concept of inherited trauma, and what to do if you feel that’s something affecting your life.  And Paul also reminds us of how to take joy in the simple things, and find gratitude in the every day. Content warning: this episode contains discussions around mental health, suicide and trauma. Links & Resources https://drpaulconti.com/ https://pacificpremiergroup.com/ Host: Stephanie von Bismarck Guest: Dr Paul Conti Producer: Tory Pope Production Manager: Angela Crago Executive Producer: Ellie Di Martino The series was recorded and edited at Pod Shop studios. Follow @HowDoWeManage