Over The Oxer

All equestrians want to harness mindset know-how and learn the ease of successful riding. On this podcast, I’m demystifying the mind, delving into the best of mindset and debunking myths for equestrians and horse owners. Mindset is the key to solving a host of problems that manifest when we ride, including riding anxiety, self-doubt, limiting belief, imposter syndrome, overwhelm or perfectionism. As an accredited Trainer and Master Coach of NLP and Hypnotherapy, I’ll lead you through the solutions that work for me and my clients.

Breaking the Rules Behind High-Functioning Anxiety

Breaking the Rules Behind High-Functioning Anxiety In this episode of Over the Oxer, I get into how high-functioning anxiety shows up in riders and equestrians. Discover why the same drive that fuels your success can also trigger tension, perfectionism, and self-doubt. Learn how hidden “rules” like I must ride every day or I’m only worthy if I’m busy quietly feed anxiety—and how to rewrite them for calm, confidence, and true high performance in and out of the saddle. ✨ Follow Over the Oxer for more mindset tools and calm confidence strategies for riders.   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training: Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook: https://tinyurl.com/ypjunref

10-14
20:15

High-functionign anxiety - the hidden truths

High-functioning anxiety is incredibly common, largely unheard of and seldom talked about. But if you or someone you know is a high achiever, appears outwardly successful and inwardly a mass of stress, nerves and worries, then that's what it is. A problem arises when we start to believe that this way of being is normal and necessary. What are the red flags if it's mostly hidden? Let's find out!   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training: Starts 12th January 2026. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior knowledge needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   NLP Trainers Training: 1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook: https://tinyurl.com/ypjunref    Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB      

10-07
22:42

Chatting Pony Books with Jane Badger

Did you enjoy reading pony books? Maybe you're a Pullein-Thompson sisters fan or a Jill/Jinny fan? Many of these books have been beautifully republished by Jane Badger Books and are available to read as paperbacks and e-books.    Jane publishes classic horse and pony books, and writes about them too. She's written Heroines on Horseback - the Pony Book in Children's Fiction, as well as a follow on to the Jill stories. She tells us about how publishing these books came about, as well as the enormous effort of sourcing copyright on the test and illustrations, not to mention any quotes or lyrics the books may have!   Follow Jane Website: https://janebadgerbooks.co.uk/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064642031731 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janebadger.books/    New publication - Dream of the Dance (Jinny 13) Availble from Jane's website (above) or Amazon: https://shorturl.at/pEVG3https://shorturl.at/pEVG3 

09-30
33:59

Catching up and slowing my mind

My first solo episode after my little summer break. A round up of what I've been up to and a way to slow your mind.   Interested in Equestrian R Infinity and their retraining or ethical racehorse training and ownership? https://eqrltd.com/   Evening Bootcamp for Australia, New Zealand and East Asia (morning time in the UK/Europe too) Register your interest now by email info@traceycolenlp.com or message me on social media (below).    Dr Renee Tucker's Biokinetic Techniques https://www.tuckerbiokinetic.com/   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Let's be social! www.traceycolenlp.com www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com info@traceycolenlp.com  

09-23
24:04

Chatting with The Disruptive Equestrian, Alison Lincoln

Alison Lincoln has been passionate about horses since childhood, moving from a traditional Pony Club and competition background into a lifelong exploration of equine performance, coaching, and welfare. After completing a pioneering degree in Equine Sports Coaching, she went on to lecture at equestrian colleges across the UK and authored her first book, Equine Sports Coaching, bringing coaching theory from wider sport into the equestrian world. Her second book, Be Your Own Equine Sports Coach, combined over a decade of learning in biomechanics, physiology, sport psychology, and independent training. Alongside her academic and practical experience, Alison has trained in Equine Facilitated Learning and studied equine behaviour and welfare, including the 5 Domains model and the Ridden Horse Performance Checklist. Known on LinkedIn as The Disruptive Equestrian, she is an avid learner, continually exploring the intersection of performance, coaching, and wellbeing to improve outcomes for both horses and riders.   Alison's Books: Equine Sports Coaching https://shorturl.at/vb0Hi Be Your Own Equine Sports Coach https://shorturl.at/uU1qf   Alison's Website https://www.alisonlincoln.co.uk/   Writing portfolio https://www.clippings.me/users/alincoln   Follow Alison on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-lincoln-the-disruptive-equestrian-67b9061a6/   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Next Equestrian Mindset Bootcamp On Zoom 22nd-26th September 7-7:45 pm UK time each evening. WhatsApp support. Takeaway resources. Recordings available. All welcome. Book here https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/      

09-16
45:04

Your mind's secret weapon against being triggered

A trigger is something that sets us off, usually in a negative way, bringing back an unpleasant memory or emotion that demands our attention. Our brains are naturally biased toward negativity. The great news is that there is a way to rebalance that bias. It's all about glimmers.   This episode is all about how to become a "glimmer hunter" and actively seek out these tiny positive moments using all five of your senses. You'll learn how to "collect" them like little gems and use them as a powerful reset button when a negative trigger tries to send you into a downward spiral. It’s not about pretending everything is perfect; it’s about realistically improving your mental state to become a more resilient and effective human being!   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training: Starts January 2026. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   NLP Trainers Training: 1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1              

08-26
13:53

Chatting with Show-Jumper Aileen Feeney - An MND Diagnosis and Horses

Aileen Feeney is a producer of young showjumping and eventing horses. She show-jumped herself to a high level and ran a successful yard in Cheshire, England for 20 years before moving back and setting up business in Northern Ireland. Aileen is currently under investigation for Motor Neuron Disease (MND); this disease is a degenerative illness of the nervous system, usually progressing quickly and for which there is no  cure.  We chat about Aileen's love of horses and show-jumping, how she produced young horses for elite British and Irish show-jumpers whilst in England and her move back home to Northern Ireland. She now co-owns Yellowfield Stables in County Antrim with her sister.  When diagnosed with MND, Aileen set up the #mndonearmchallenge on social media to raise awareness of the disease. She has also started a Just Giving site where all donations, no matter how small, can be sent. All proceeds go to the Motor Neurone Disease Association. https://www.justgiving.com/page/onearmchallenge   Follow Aileen Yellowfield Stables - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100034428106538 MND One Arm Challenge https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577021617829 Just Giving https://www.justgiving.com/page/onearmchallenge   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Let's be social! www.traceycolenlp.com www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com info@traceycolenlp.com  

08-19
34:27

How to Stop Spiralling Thought Loops - Fast

If your mind feels like it’s stuck on repeat—goong round and round, replaying conversations and rides, worrying about things that haven’t happened or spiralling just when you need calm—this episode is for you. We’re talking about perseverative cognition (yes, it’s a mouthful and I can hardly say it!); why it happens, how it affects your body and what you can do to break the cycle. With practical NLP techniques like sensory shifts, future pacing, and the “worry window,” you’ll learn how to gently take back control from looping thoughts—whether you're riding, prepping, or just trying to sleep.   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Let's be social! www.traceycolenlp.com www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com info@traceycolenlp.com   Free mental imagery / visualisations (no sign-up necessary) https://traceycolenlp.com/free-mental-imagery-recordings/   Free Words Have Power course (no sign-up necessary) https://traceycolenlp.com/free-course-your-words-have-power/   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB        

08-12
11:38

Chatting with Mindset & Business Coach, Nicola Kinnard-Comedie

Nicola Kinnard-Comedie (Msc, BHSAI Int. SM) is a mindset and business coach, helping equine and canine therapists to create their dream business, combining her industry experience with NLP Practitioner skills. Nicola mentors vets, and regularly lectures and speaks at Conferences in the UK and USA. She is the director of NKC Equestrian Training and host of the Healthy Horse Conference and annual CPD event for equine professionals and committed horse owners.   We chat about her horsey journey and how she moved from being a riding coach to where she is now - helping horse owners, vets, physios, chiropractors and others to know and share more about horse health and well-being.   Nicola's exclusive offer to all listeners Enjoy a 25% discount on attending the Healthy Horse Conference 21st-22nd Nov (Day 1 online or in-person; Day 2 online). Use Discount code OXER25. https://www.nkcequestrian.com/product/the-healthy-horse-conference-online-ticket/   Contact Nicola https://www.nkcequestrian.com/ nicola@nkcequestrian.com https://www.facebook.com/nkcequestriantraining https://www.instagram.com/nkcbusinesscoaching    Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB        

08-05
35:37

Shaping the Ride Ahead - using an underused time line technique

What if the key to achieving your riding goals isn't in doing more, but in thinking differently about time? And specifically about the ride to come. In this episode,I talk about the fascinating world of Time Line Therapy®, focusing specifically on the underused future side of the time line—and how equestrians can harness this tool to unlock clarity, confidence, and calm in the saddle. Whether you're prepping for a show, overcoming nerves or simply striving for more consistency in your riding, 'future pacing' can become a powerful ally in your mental toolkit. You'll also learn about the Prometheus Induction, a subtle yet powerful process that helps create a vivid, compelling vision of your future success—so your unconscious mind begins working toward it now. 🔹 Why equestrians often get stuck looping past experiences—and how to shift forward 🔹 How future-based mental rehearsal builds real-world confidence 🔹 The role of emotion and identity in future goal setting 🔹 A practical walkthrough you can try today Whether you're a dressage rider, jumper, eventer or happy hacker, this episode is packed with insights to help you ride with more purpose and power. 🎧 Hit play to explore the mental edge you didn’t know you needed—and don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode built to support your journey, in and out of the arena.   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

07-29
20:20

Chatting With The Chinese Dressage Girl, Sarah Rao

Sarah Rao, aka The Chines Dressage Girl, is one of the most inspiring riders and influencers in China and also in the UK.   She's represented China numerous times and made history with the first double international win for China. She's a youth ambassador of an FEI charity programme. She's based in Cheshire with Sarah Higgins.   We chat about her childhood in China, coming to the UK, her horses (and their personalities), why she was drawn to dressage and her new brand - including a beautiful dragon design which will go onto white breeches, stitched in white for that understated, yet empowering look.   Follow Sarah https://www.instagram.com/the_chinese_dressage_girl/ https://www.facebook.com/thechinesedressagegirl   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1

07-22
35:13

How to get perspective and clarity - FAST

Who hasn't come out of a ring or got back from a ride feeling frustration or disappointment? Who hasn't known that the nerves have got the better of them? It's that sinking feeling that our minds are controlling us.  But there's no need to despair. Today's episode gives you a very quick technique to get a FAST and EFFECTIVE perspective on your riding and yourself as a rider. Get proactive, rather than reactive.   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Join my Zoom Bootcamp 21st-25th July, 7pm-7:45pm UK time Learn the powerful techniques that I use with my 1:1 clients and more in  a friendly atmosphere with multiple takeaways! £80 per person. All very welcome! https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/     Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training: Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB    

07-15
07:45

Chatting with Coach and Emotional Labour Researcher Ellie Halsey

This week, I'm chatting with Ellie Halsey. Ellie did some sterling research on emotional labour in equestrian coaches and her findings are highly relevant to all riders and horse owners. Emotional labour is about the effortful way we all carry and suppress emotions in our daily lives, something equestrian coaches do quite a bit of!   Ellie is a Performance Coach/BHSI and British Equestrian Level 4 Coach, with an MSc in Professional Practice in Sport Coaching. She has been coaching for almost 30 years and is currently an equine lecturer at FE college. She also holds a coaching and mentoring certificate; and another hat she sometimes wears is an expedition leader for Camps International and she's off to Kenya this July!   Where to find Ellie https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellie-halsey-23b283309/    Ellie's blog for equestrian coaches on the Riders Minds website  https://ridersminds.org/2025/04/30/emotional-labour-in-equestrian-coaching/   The Riders Minds Equestrian Burnout Blog Mentioned by Ellie https://ridersminds.org/2025/01/30/burnout-in-the-equestrian-industry/   Riders Minds Website - mental health support for anyone in anyway connected with horses - riders, horse owners, professionals, amateurs, recreational riders, grooms https://ridersminds.org/get-support/   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   ✨NEW!! RIDER MINDSET BOOTCAMP ON ZOOM 21ST-25THJULY 7-7:45PM MON-FRI ✨ ALL WELCOME - SPACES ARE LIMITED! FIRST COME, FIRST SERVED https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/    Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training: Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/

07-08
37:58

Quick check-in

A quick check-in with you, hpw are things going? How are your riding plans going?   Contact me info@traceycolenlp.com Socials: @traceycolenlp www.traceycolenlp.com   FREE GROUP MINDSET SESSION with me 10th July 2025 at 6pm UK time - simply write a 5* review, email me to say you've done it and join the Zoom call or recording absolutely free, gratis and no cost!   UPCOMING EVENTS 1. Mindset workshop and/or 1:1 and/or riding lesson at Wakesfield RDA, West Yorkshire, England *Saturday 12th July* Workshop 11am-1pm A- Mindset workshop £35 per person 11am - 1pm B- 1:1 session 50mins £55 per person C- Workshop + 1:1 session £80 per person D - Workshop + 30min ride* session £60 E - 1:1 + 30min ride* session £80 per person F - Workshop + 1:1 + ride* session £100 per person A combination to suit everyone! Contact @cedressage on Facebook to book (or email Tracey asap), but be quick spaces are limited!!   2. Online Bootcamp *Mon-Fri 21st-25th July 7pm UK time* https://traceycolenlp.com/group-mindset-bootcamp-for-riders/   45 minutes each day on Zoom (recordings available) - Monday to Friday. ready to ride/compete on Saturday! Learn the techniques I do with my private clients.  

07-07
08:47

Who knew chocolate could help your equestrian mind game?

This episode is a must-listen for chocolate lovers.  We're exploring how dark chocolate can do more than satisfy a craving—it can enhance cognitive performance, reduce stress and support learning, all backed by research from Loma Linda University. Drawing on findings from a 2018 brainwave study and a 2016 paper published in Appetite, we unpack how 70% cacao dark chocolate increases gamma brainwave activity linked to memory and focus, and supports neuroplasticity and mood regulation. You'll learn how to apply these insights directly to your riding routine—whether you're memorising a dressage test, walking a jump course, or reviewing a round. Practical, evidence-based, and a little indulgent—this is mindset coaching with a scientific twist.   Papers used in this episode 2018 Loma Linda Study (Berk et al., Experimental Biology): 48 g of 70% cacao dark chocolate enhances gamma brainwave activity, neural gene expression, and reduces inflammation and stress. 2016 Loma Linda Appetite Study (Crichton et al., Appetite): Regular chocolate consumers demonstrated better visual-spatial memory, working memory, and cognitive function overall.   Have you written a 5* review - email me (see below) and join me on the exclusive workshop on 10th July (recordings available)   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com     Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:   Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/     NLP Trainers Training:   1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB  

07-01
15:29

Chatting with Accredited Clinical Equine Behaviourist, Debbie Busby

Find out why a knowledge of behaviour is crucial to the horse-human relationship and how horses may be wanting a human behaviourist to work on their human!   My guest this week is Debbie Busby, an accredited, registered Clinical Equine Behaviourist, running her successful international consultancy, Evolution Equine Behaviour, since 2006. Debbie supervises university masters students and new behaviourists, and writes and lectures on all aspects of equine behaviour and applied practice. Also a practising psychotherapist, she has developed a Transactional Analysis model to promote effective communication between horse owners and practitioners. She is currently conducting doctoral research into horse and human wellbeing in the spheres of riding and training horses.   Debbie's website and socials https://evolutionequine.wordpress.com/ https://www.facebook.com/share/1Awgpbk9M1/ https://www.linkedIn.com/in/debbie-busby-consultancy   Debbie's Facebook Groups Alien in My Stable https://www.facebook.com/groups/707740261252860  https://www.facebook.com/evolutionequinebehaviour   Debbie's Book 'Equine Behaviour in Practice' avilable on Amazon and direct from the publisher,  https://shorturl.at/w73n2  https://www.routledge.com/Equine-Behaviour-in-Practice-Understanding-Horses-and-Treating-Behaviour-Problems/Busby/p/book/9781032947143?srsltid=AfmBOorXu_7YqFxKg6LXymWCQFjmZvuJ2yvcZxjq3ph6wLhHSPmmfyt9   Contact Tracey www.traceycolenlp.com info@traecycolenlp.com          

06-24
50:30

Be Like Water: for Equestrian Confidence and Calm

In this episode, we explore the powerful intersection between equestrian mindset and the timeless wisdom of Bruce Lee. Drawing on Lee’s philosophy of mental clarity, adaptability, and inner strength, we reflect on how his teachings can inspire riders to develop focus, presence, and emotional control in the saddle. Whether you're facing nerves before a competition or working through a training block, this episode offers practical tools to help you “be like water” and ride with confidence, fluidity, and resilience.   Free Workshop on Zoom 10th July 6pm UK time (GMT+1) If you feel it's appropriate,  write a 5* review and email/message me to join us in this exclusive workshop. I'll be sharing some techniques reserved for my provate clients   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com     Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:   Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Next NLP Master Practitioner Training:   NLP Only. Starts 18th June. Every Wednesday 1:30-5pm. Recordings made available. NLP Practitioner or Coach as pre-requisite. https://traceycolenlp.com/product/nlp-master-practitioner-coach/   NLP Trainers Training:   1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB  

06-17
17:29

Nerves, Nominations, Oxers and NLP: my story

🎙️ In this solo episode of Over the Oxer, I’m doing something a little different—sharing my own story. From being a pony-mad preschooler in Warrington to riding across the Kansas prairies, I talk about my lifelong love of horses, the bumps along the way, and how mindset work transformed my confidence in the saddle. I've also a very exciting announcement: Over the Oxer has been named a finalist in the Equestrian Media category at the Equestrian Business Awards! Plus, I invite you to take part in a special workshop I’m offering to thank those who leave a review. If you’re curious about my horsey roots, how I overcame fear through NLP, or what I love beyond the arena (hint: beaches, history, and ice cream), this episode is for you. (If you write a 5* review, please email me at info@traceycolenlp.com or contact me via social media [see below] as I may not see your review - and, of course, I'd love to read what you have to say!)   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com   Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:   Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Next NLP Master Practitioner Training:   NLP Only. Starts 18th June. Every Wednesday 1:30-5pm. Recordings made available. NLP Practitioner or Coach as pre-requisite. https://traceycolenlp.com/product/nlp-master-practitioner-coach/   NLP Trainers Training:   1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB    

06-10
28:55

Chatting with Equestrian Tai Chi Expert Jenny Pim

Sometimes you chat with people for the first time and you just click. That was how I felt when Jenny and I had this fabulous chat. Jenny Pim lives in Co Wexford in Ireland with her husband, dogs and ponies. She's the founder and creator of Equestrian Tai Chi and Tao Riding (pronounced dao, rhymes with take a bow or bough of a tree.) She loves helping humans develop a deeper connection with their horses through developing their internal energy or chi.   Jenny is a Certified Tai Chi Instructor registered instructor with The Tai Union for Great Britain. She’s been teaching Tai Chi since 2002. She’s won silver medals in the British Open Tai Chi Championships. She’s a Certified Riding Coach registered with Horse Sport Ireland.   She's also one of life's totally genuine all-round good guys. Take a listen, it'll be worth it!   Jenny's links https://www.facebook.com/EquestrianTaiChi  https://www.instagram.com/equestriantaichi_tao_riding/  https://www.equestriantaichi.com/  https://www.equestriantaichi.com/five-tips/      Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com     Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:   Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Next NLP Master Practitioner Training:   NLP Only. Starts 18th June. Every Wednesday 1:30-5pm. Recordings made available. NLP Practitioner or Coach as pre-requisite. https://traceycolenlp.com/product/nlp-master-practitioner-coach/   NLP Trainers Training:   1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB  

06-03
40:19

Predict Success: The Neuroscience-Backed Path to Better Riding

This episode explores predictive coding, a powerful psychological model that explains how the brain generates expectations based on past experiences, emotional states and environmental cues. For equestrians, these predictions can unconsciously influence posture, tension, decision-making, and even horse–rider communication—often reinforcing fear-based or limiting patterns. Learn how this can be turned on its head to help riders re-programme their brain’s default responses and ride with greater calm, clarity, and confidence.   Contact me  Info@traceycolenlp.com www.traceycolenlp.com   Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@traceycolenlp2086   Let's be social! www.facebook.com/traceycolenlp.com www.instagram.com/traceycolenlp.com     Next NLP Practitioner and NLP Coach Training:   Starts 28th July. Every Monday 1:30-5pm UK time. No prior learning needed. Recordings made available. NLP only for Practitioner and 5 certifications for the NLP Coach (all internationally recognised, accredited and certified by professsional boards) https://traceycolenlp.com/product/empowered-equestrian-coach/   Next NLP Master Practitioner Training:   NLP Only. Starts 18th June. Every Wednesday 1:30-5pm. Recordings made available. NLP Practitioner or Coach as pre-requisite. https://traceycolenlp.com/product/nlp-master-practitioner-coach/   NLP Trainers Training:   1:1 Start any time. Pre-requisite: Master NLP Practitioner https://traceycolenlp.com/nlp-trainers-training-curious-to-know-more/   Confident Rider Mindset Book/ Audiobook:   https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confident-Rider-Mindset-Riding-Success/dp/B0BMPLCB7Z/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6KCWM6D43BT2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4pkr-o3d2vf5lIXP8ZO4GQ.ZAOQQmJLBq1ZoSiq1ytb3423Zz3p0mqdZfHY4IIjauM&dib_tag=se&keywords=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole&qid=1746616441&sprefix=confident+rider+mindset+tracey+cole%2Caps%2C91&sr=8-1   Buy me a cup of tea! Some kind people have suggested that my podcast is helping them with their riding and asked how they can help to defray the costs of making the podcast, (mostly editing software etc.). Many, many thanks, you can buy me a cup of tea here: www.buymeacoffee.com/?via=Ny2j49lgXB      

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