Parenting With Psychology

✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this episode, we’ll explore pendulum parenting—what happens when you swing from a permissive childhood to overly strict parenting. You’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, provide structure with warmth, and balance firmness with kindness. I’ll also show you how to stop second-guessing yourself and parent with confidence while breaking generational cycles. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 2:26: Recognizing the Overcorrection   2:26 – 3:53: What Balanced Structure Looks Like   3:53 – 5:49: Finding Your Balance   5:49 – 7:17: Timeline and Results

✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this video, we’ll cover the critical parenting shift every child between ages 1 and 5 needs—establishing yourself as their loving authority. You’ll learn how to set consistent boundaries, explain the “why” behind your rules, and focus on safety, respect, and responsibility. These strategies reduce power struggles, build cooperation, and set the stage for a lifelong respectful relationship. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 00:46 Why Ages 1–5 Are a Critical Parenting Window   00:46 – 02:28 Principle #1: Establishing Yourself as the Loving Authority   02:28 – 03:32 How to Use Calm Leadership in Daily Battles   03:32 – 05:19 Principle #2: Explaining “Why” Behind Household Rules   05:19 – 06:48 Principle #3: Focusing on Safety, Respect, and Responsibility   06:48 – 08:41 Teaching Skills Instead of Punishing Behavior   08:41 – 09:15 Building Cooperation and Mutual Respect for the Long Term

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, you’ll learn the powerful concept child development experts use to build lifelong resilience, strong relationships, and even future success—secure attachment. I’ll walk you through three simple principles: responsive caregiving, consistent connection, and reading your baby’s cues. These strategies ease stress, strengthen your bond, and set your child up for confidence and calm. Plus, I’ll share the 5-step framework for handling toddler tantrums and defiance without breaking that connection. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies  00:00 – 01:04 Why Secure Attachment Matters More Than Anything   01:04 – 03:02 Principle #1: Responsive Caregiving in Real Life   03:02 – 05:01 Principle #2: Physical Contact & Daily Interaction   05:01 – 06:16 How Consistency Builds Confidence and Calm   06:16 – 08:27 Principle #3: Understanding Your Baby’s Communication   08:27 – 09:38 When Attachment Bonds Form (and It’s Not Too Late)   09:38 – 10:33 Next Stage: How to Handle Tantrums & Defiance

✨ Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!! https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, I'll expose the hidden dangers of authoritarian parenting that most parents never see coming, and the biggest risk isn't what you think. While you may be using strict "because I said so" methods to raise a respectful, successful child who can handle the real world, this approach often achieves the exact opposite of what you're hoping for. I'll break down five critical risks of authoritarian parenting, including what happens to these "perfect" kids when they become adults that will completely change how you think about discipline and control. The biggest risk isn't rebellion or acting out - it's something far more devastating and often permanent that destroys the most important thing in your family. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #authoritarianparenting  00:00 – 00:53 Why Authoritarian Parenting Feels Right (But Isn’t)   00:53 – 02:25 What Authoritarian Parenting Really Looks Like   02:25 – 03:34 The First Risk: Emotional Suppression   03:34 – 05:35 The Second Risk: Poor Internal Decision-Making   05:35 – 06:47 The Third Risk: Struggles with Relationships   06:47 – 07:54 The Fourth Risk: Losing the Parent-Child Bond   07:54 – 09:13 The Better Way: Introducing Authoritative Parenting

✨ Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, I'll expose the hidden dangers of permissive parenting that loving parents never see coming, and the biggest risk isn't what you think. While you may be using permissive methods to nurture your child's creativity and build their confidence, this approach often creates the exact opposite of what you're hoping for. I'll reveal five devastating risks of saying yes too often, including the heartbreaking things adult children say to their permissive parents that will shock you. The next time your child begs and pleads for you to change your mind about a boundary you've set, you'll think twice after watching this video and understanding the real long-term consequences of avoiding conflict and structure in your parenting. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #permissiveparenting 0:00 – 2:52 What is Permissive Parenting? 2:53 – 4:04 Impaired Self-Regulation & Unhealthy Habits 4:05 – 6:14 Entitled & Selfish Behaviors 6:15 – 8:05 Unprepared for Real-World Expectations 8:06 – 10:04 The Biggest Risk: Resentment Toward Parents

✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod In this episode, I'll walk you through 10 subtle early signs of ADHD that you can identify in children aged 6 months to 5 years - including a specific behavior during bedtime stories that most parents and even some pediatricians completely miss.  As a clinical psychologist who works with families daily, I'll show you exactly how to check for each sign at home, because recognizing these early indicators can be transformative for your child's academic success, relationships, and your family's overall well-being. Keep in mind that potting one or two (or even more) of these signs does not necessarily mean your child has ADHD.  This video serves to facilitate seeking guidance from your child’s pediatrician or another health professional if you have concerns about your child’s behavior. It is meant to be an at-home diagnostic tool. Be sure to check out fellow creator, Emma Hubbard’s channel. It’s truly fabulous. I am thankful to her for suggesting I make this video: https://www.youtube.com/@EmmaHubbard #drlindsayemmerson #toddlerdevelopment #ADHD New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 02:03 The First Subtle Sign of ADHD   02:03 – 03:45 The Second Subtle Sign of ADHD   03:45 – 05:03 The Third Subtle Sign of ADHD   05:03 – 06:56 The Fourth Subtle Sign of ADHD   06:56 – 09:02 The Fifth Subtle Sign of ADHD   09:02 – 10:36 The Sixth Subtle Sign of ADHD   10:36 – 12:05 The Seventh Subtle Sign of ADHD   12:05 – 13:41 The Eighth Subtle Sign of ADHD   13:41 – 15:15 The Ninth Subtle Sign of ADHD   15:15 – 16:46 The Tenth Subtle Sign of ADHD

✨ Feel like an amazing parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed! https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll reveal the five common reasons kids of all ages transform from charming children to little terrors at school pickup time, and why this challenging behavior happens day after day. If you're doing your best to be loving and supportive but find your patience wearing thin when you collect your child from school, you're not alone. I'll explain what's really going on behind this frustrating pattern and help you understand why even older kids (not just kindergarteners) save their worst behavior for the moment they see you. The fifth reason will amaze you in a truly heartwarming way and completely change how you view these difficult pickup moments. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

✨  Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!! https://drlindsayemmerson.com/blueprint In this episode, I'll share the four-step triage plan I teach parents in my coaching program to successfully handle any high-intensity parenting situation, regardless of your child's age. Whether you're dealing with a toddler who just hit another child, an elementary-aged kid who got in trouble at school, or a teenager who came home past curfew, this psychology-based approach will guide you through any stressful parenting moment with confidence. You'll learn the exact steps to take when emotions are running high so you can respond effectively instead of just reacting, creating better outcomes for both you and your child while strengthening your relationship in the process. New to my podcast?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 0:00 – 0:27 The 4-step triage plan for handling stressful situations at any age 0:27 – 3:13 Step 1: Respond, Don’t React 3:13 – 6:07 Step 2: Communicate Unconditional Positive Regard 6:07 – 13:00 Step 3: Teaching & Skill Building 13:00 – 14:50 Step 4: Monitoring & Positive Reinforcement

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll share the five psychology-backed steps I take every fall as a psychologist and mom of four to set my kids up for school success using my 5 C's parenting framework. You may be surprised to learn that your back-to-school approach directly impacts your child's long-term success, and small changes now can have a huge impact on their future. I'll reveal findings from a groundbreaking 50-year study showing that students who show up ready for school with responsibility and genuine interest in learning are significantly more likely to achieve higher education levels 11 years later and earn higher incomes 50 years later. This isn't about being the smartest kid in class - it's about developing the right mindset and behaviors from day one, and I'll show you exactly how to build these specific traits while explaining why most back-to-school preparations miss the mark. New to my channel?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. 0:00 – 0:35 Back-to-School Prep That Impacts Your Child’s Future 0:35 – 2:29 Step 1 Communication: Helping Kids Handle School Anxiety 2:29 – 4:18 Step 2 Consistency: Practice Routines Before Day One 4:18 – 6:01 Step 3 Choices & Checkpoints: Building Independence with Support 6:01 – 7:45 Step 4 Positive Consequences: Reinforcing the Right Behaviors 7:45 – 9:19 Step 5 Modeling: Showing Kids That Learning Matters 9:19 – 9:35 Final Motivation: Preparing for Lifelong Success

✨  Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop 💧Click here to support #TeamWater: https://tilt.fyi/teYFIVvqaG In this episode, I'll reveal the 3 common consistency mistakes that sabotage your child's respect for you without you even realizing it. If you're tired of your child ignoring your requests and boundaries, or if you find yourself resorting to yelling and punishments to feel respected, these mistakes might be the culprit. You'll discover exactly what these consistency errors are and how to fix them so your child starts learning to respect your boundaries naturally. I'll show you how being consistent is a key component of balanced parenting that creates both strong bonds and better behavior, plus give you the specific strategies that quickly teach your child which behaviors are acceptable - all without the power struggles that exhaust most parents who've never been trained on when and how to focus on consistency. New to my channel?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 0:00 – 1:10 Are You Accidentally Losing Your Child’s Respect? 1:10 – 2:11 Mistake #1: Inconsistent Emotional Responses 2:11 – 3:36 Mistake #2: Misleading Time Promises 3:36 – 6:04 Mistake #3: Not Following Through on Consequences 6:04 – 6:51 Fix It with the “32 Thank You” Strategy

✨ Feel like an amazing parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop You’ve reminded your child a hundred times to say “please” or “thank you,” and still… nothing. If you’re tired of the constant nagging and wish your kids would use good manners on their own, this episode is for you. I’m sharing 3 psychology-backed parenting hacks that actually work even for strong-willed kids or those with attention challenges. You’ll learn how to teach respectful behavior without yelling, using powerful techniques like reinforcement vs. punishment, shaping behavior, and strategic withholding. These tools will help you create a home where kindness, patience, and politeness become second nature for toddlers, school-aged kids, and even teens. New to my channel?  I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 00:36 Why Kids Still Struggle with Manners   00:36 – 01:42 Why Traditional Methods Often Fail   01:42 – 03:15 Hack #1: Shaping Behavior with Baby Steps   03:15 – 04:34 Hack #2: Strategic Withholding to Reinforce Politeness   04:34 – 05:35 Hack #3: The Timing Secret for Teaching Manners   05:35 – 06:05 How These Strategies Transform Family Dynamics   06:05 – 07:11 Final Tips, Coaching Offer, and Disclaimer  

✨ Unlock your parenting potential! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop How often does your child listen the first time you ask? If your daily requests are being ignored and you find yourself repeating directions or losing your temper, this episode is for you. I’ll walk you through the “Acknowledge & Respond” method, an evidence-based strategy that helps parents raise kids who listen the first time. Backed by psychology research and real-life results, this approach taps into the power of attention and verbal commitment to create lasting change in your parent-child dynamic. Plus, I’ll share three key tips that make this strategy work in any situation whether you’re managing screen time, chore resistance, or morning chaos. To download your free resource on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/meeting New to my channel?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 00:20 Why Your Child Doesn’t Listen the First Time   00:20 – 00:43 The Two Words That Instantly Improve Listening   00:43 – 01:45 How to Use “Acknowledge and Respond”   01:45 – 03:21 The Psychology Behind Why It Works   03:21 – 04:03 Why This Strategy Is Effective for All Ages   04:03 – 04:56 3 Expert Tips to Make It Stick   04:56 – 05:25 What to Watch Next: Fixing Rude Requests

✨ Master balanced parenting in 12 weeks or less - guaranteed! https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/blueprint In this episode, I'll show you how to stop feeling like you have to choose between being your child's friend or being the "mean parent" because you CAN have strong emotional bonds AND well-behaved kids. I'll share the psychology-backed approach that helps thousands of parents create the perfect balance between connection and discipline, including my complete 5 C's parenting framework that works for children from birth to 18 years old. You'll discover why most parents get the connection vs. discipline balance wrong, learn the research-proven parenting style that raises successful adults, hear real parent success stories and transformations, and gain the confidence to handle any parenting challenge while building lasting emotional bonds with your children and setting loving boundaries that actually work so you can raise happy kids who grow into thriving adults. New to my channel?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:29 – 01:14 Why Balanced Parenting Matters 01:14 – 01:51 What Is “Amazing Parenting” Really? 01:51 – 08:21 The 5 C’s Framework Explained 08:21 – 09:10 Applying All 5 C’s to Real-Life Parenting 09:10 – 11:28 The Psychology Behind the Blueprint 11:28 – 12:29 Real Parent Success Stories + Guarantee 12:29 – 13:38 Final Invite: Your Path to Amazing Parenting

✨ Confidently handle any parenting situation! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Family meetings are a powerful parenting tool, but they often fall flat especially when they turn into lectures, drag on too long, or leave kids feeling unheard. In this episode, I’ll walk you through the 3 most common mistakes parents make during family meetings and exactly how to fix them. You’ll learn how to keep meetings short and focused, involve your kids in the decision-making process, and shift the tone so that your family meetings feel positive and productive. Whether you're tackling screen time battles, sibling conflict, or daily routines, this approach will help you build trust, promote cooperation, and actually get results. To download your free resource on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/meeting New to my channel?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

✨ Become an amazing parent! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I’ll share the most powerful confidence-building parenting phrases you can start using today to boost your child’s self-esteem and emotional resilience. Many well-meaning parents accidentally use phrases that create shame, foster comparison, or threaten abandonment—without realizing the long-term impact on their child’s confidence. I’ll guide you through simple swaps—what to say instead—to support healthy child development, strengthen your connection, and promote positive behavior without yelling or punishments. This video is perfect for parents looking to raise respectful, emotionally secure kids through positive discipline techniques and mindful communication. To download the free PDF “Say This, Not That: Confidence-Building Phrases,” head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/saythis New to my channel?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Learn the 5-step system that will help you thrive as a parent: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Do you struggle with getting your kids to listen to you without yelling or losing your temper?  In this video, we'll share effective strategies to help you earn respect from your kids without having to raise your voice.  I will teach you my #1 strategy for raising kids who actually listen to your requests and respect your boundaries - without yelling, threatening, or harsh punishments.  You can start using it today and see results by the end of the week.  Learn how to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and build a strong relationship with your children.  This is positive discipline at its finest.  Get ready to transform your parenting style and create a more peaceful home environment.  Discover the secrets to getting respect from your kids without yelling and start seeing positive changes in your family today! To download your free 3, 2, Thank You! flowchart, head to https://drlindsayemmerson.com/thankyou New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Transform your parenting experience in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episdoe, I'll share my 3-part parenting philosophy that helps you find the sweet spot between overparenting and underparenting. You'll discover how to avoid helicopter parenting while ensuring you're not neglecting your child's development needs. Learn the key strategies I teach parents in my coaching program to raise children who feel loved and supported but are also prepared for independence by age 18. This balanced approach will help you guide your day-to-day parenting decisions and set your child on the right trajectory for healthy development and future success. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Feel like an amazing parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll share a simple action plan to help your loud child learn appropriate volume control. If your kid consistently speaks too loudly or escalates to near-yelling when excited or angry, you're not alone - this is more common than you think. I understand the embarrassment, social concerns, and daily headaches that come with having a naturally loud child. You'll discover practical steps for meaningful, lasting change that teaches your child when and how to use their "inside voice" effectively. Perfect for parents who want to address volume issues without dampening their child's natural enthusiasm and personality. To download the free resource I mentioned in the video on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/meeting New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Make parenting easier and more enjoyable! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll guide you through potty training even the most stubborn, strong-willed children using my proven 5 C's parenting framework. As a psychologist and mom of four who has successfully potty-trained my own kids and helped countless families through my coaching program, I understand the unique challenges that come with determined toddlers. You'll discover practical strategies to make the process smoother and less stressful, while working with your child's strong personality rather than against it. Perfect for parents facing potty training resistance who want a structured, psychology-based approach that actually works. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Become an amazing parent!  Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll show you exactly how to respond when your child starts swearing using my proven 5 C's parenting framework. If you've been shocked by bad words coming from your sweet child's mouth, you're not alone - nearly every parent faces this challenge. You'll learn practical strategies to handle swearing with confidence, set appropriate boundaries, and guide your child toward better language choices without damaging your relationship. Perfect for parents who want to address cursing effectively while maintaining connection with their kids. Here’s the link to that video I mentioned called Empty Threats Destroy Respect: Parent Differently: https://open.spotify.com/episode/05LI5wHMFmcnawfTBmVdHe?si=69K0ZdTTRnCCFU26moO_Fw New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.