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How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion

How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion

Update: 2025-10-01
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Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop

In this video, we’ll cover the critical parenting shift every child between ages 1 and 5 needs—establishing yourself as their loving authority. You’ll learn how to set consistent boundaries, explain the “why” behind your rules, and focus on safety, respect, and responsibility. These strategies reduce power struggles, build cooperation, and set the stage for a lifelong respectful relationship.

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00:0000:46 Why Ages 1–5 Are a Critical Parenting Window  
00:4602:28 Principle #1: Establishing Yourself as the Loving Authority  
02:2803:32 How to Use Calm Leadership in Daily Battles  
03:3205:19 Principle #2: Explaining “Why” Behind Household Rules  
05:1906:48 Principle #3: Focusing on Safety, Respect, and Responsibility  
06:4808:41 Teaching Skills Instead of Punishing Behavior  
08:4109:15 Building Cooperation and Mutual Respect for the Long Term

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How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion

How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion

Dr. Lindsay Emmerson