The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

Susan Guthrie welcomes Karis Nafte, Pet Custody Mediator and Certified Dog Behavior Consultant, to explore the complexities of pet custody in divorce. With the legal landscape around pets evolving, the topic of pet custody has become increasingly relevant for divorcing couples. Karis, founder of Who Keeps the Dog?, sheds light on the unique challenges of navigating custody for your furry family members and shares insights from her new book, Who Keeps the Dog: Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce. In this conversation, Karis explains how divorce can impact your beloved pets and provides practical strategies to ensure their well-being throughout the process. What You'll Hear: Why pets are no longer treated as mere property in divorce How the changing legal landscape impacts pet custody decisions Key considerations for creating a pet custody agreement Tips for minimizing stress for your pets during separation Golden Nuggets: “ You can't make the decision on the dog's future based on your hurt feelings or your negative emotions. You're not considering your dog. You're not seeing the situation through their eyes. And that's really hard, but you can do it. The most correct decision for the dog is there, if you dig for it.” “ Your dog will be fine. Dogs are so much more adaptable than we think they are. Don't imagine that your dog will be as upset as you are. I know that's hard to hear. It's harder for us than it is for dogs.” “ How do we look after our pets during divorce where we're really focusing on what's best for the dog? It's hard to do that when emotions do what they do in divorce.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Karis Nafte Karis Nafte is the founder of Who Keeps the Dog, Pet Custody Mediation. A Certified Dog Behaviour Consultant & Accredited Family Mediator, she brings 25 years professional experience as a dog behaviour expert into her work of dogs and divorce. A global pioneer in her work, in addition to seeing her own clients, Karis teaches the first accredited pet custody education course for divorce professionals. An author with a unique background, Karis has presented on the subject pet custody for the American Bar Association, the Association of Professional Family Mediators, The Ontario Association of Family Mediators, The South Africa Association of Mediators, the Kentucky Bar Association, The Multnomah Bar Association, International Mediation Week and many others. Her work has been featured in the Washington Post, the Associated Press, Scripps News, The New York Post, VICE News, ABC News and Australian Dog Lover Magazine. Karis’ book: Who Keeps the Dog? Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce Divorce and Beyond Listeners - Enjoy 10% off Karis’ Pet Custody Course. To get this special offer, simply email karis@whokeepsthedog.com and mention this special Divorce and Beyond promo. Karis on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karis-nafte-cdbc-b4b9b81a6/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: TURNS OUT PODCAST Introducing Turns Out..., my brand-new podcast launching in the new year. This show is all about life’s unexpected twists and turns—those aha moments that change everything. From career pivots to personal revelations, we’ll explore the stories that prove life is full of surprises. Make sure to visit turnsoutpodcast.com and keep an eye out for our launch drop! You won’t want to miss these inspiring stories, and you might even hear some familiar voices. Stay tuned, and remember, Turns Out... life has so much more in store than we ever imagined! ========= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Selling or buying a home during a divorce? Susan Guthrie brings in expert realtor Kathy Clark to shed light on the real estate journey for divorcing couples. With 13 years of experience in Southern California’s mortgage and real estate industry, Kathy shares essential strategies for navigating property sales, avoiding common pitfalls, and setting yourself up for a successful transition into your next home.  Kathy’s insights will help you avoid unnecessary stress and find the right realtor to guide you through mastering the real estate side of the divorce process. Featured Topics: The unique challenges of selling a home during a divorce, including differing goals with your soon-to-be-ex and when to consider selling How to find a realtor who genuinely understands divorce and real estate—questions to ask before signing on with anyone The ins and outs of realtor commissions and what to expect in today’s market Common mistakes divorcing individuals make when buying a new home—and how to avoid them Disclosure dilemmas: What to share (or not) with realtors and buyers about your divorce Golden nuggets: “Everything has a value and everything has a cost. I encourage people to go into it open-minded and make sure their agent knows what they need.” “We have a fiduciary responsibility not to share what you don't want to be shared. You tell us ‘It's fine. Go ahead. It's amicable.’ There's got to be an expectation of how you're going to do things. I don't think it serves you well to disclose to everyone that there is a divorce. But I also don't think that you can hide it.” “Every house is not the same. Finding the right realtor who has the expertise in your particular home is something worth spending a little bit of time on.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kathy Clark Kathy Clark is a long-time Orange County resident with a passion, and career that has been centered on the Southern California Real Estate Industry. First as a homeowner, then investor, both experiences lead her to explore home lending opportunities. With over 13 years in the mortgage industry, Kathy understands the real estate cycles and has adapted to the changing real estate and lending environments. This wisdom allows Kathy to strategize and structure a transaction in a way that allows her clients to meet their real estate needs and portfolio requirements.  Kathy’s experience in the mortgage industry sets her apart with a deep understanding of all facets of the real estate market. As a seasoned broker who has helped clients with numerous “out-of-the-box” purchase transactions, Kathy is committed to presenting the best options to her clients.  Contact Kathy: Website: https://harcourtsna.com/Blue-Water/agents/Kathy-Clark-Brenna-Van-Hoogenstyn Phone: (949) 283-2833 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathy-clark-707a29133/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KathyClarkRealtor Also mentioned in this episode: Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK As a family law attorney, I’ve seen firsthand how difficult it can be to navigate co-parenting when alcohol is involved, especially around the holidays. Soberlink is a breathalyzer that ensures your co-parent is staying sober while they have the kids, which is especially important during this time of year, when alcohol can be present at so many gatherings. Here’s how it works: Your co-parent will test at scheduled times throughout the day. The portable device uses facial recognition to confirm it’s really them taking the test, and tamper sensors ensure the results are accurate. Those results are sent directly to your phone or email in real-time, so you’ll always know that your kids are with a sober parent. Soberlink is trusted by family law professionals for a reason. It’s the top alcohol monitoring system, and its court-admissible data can make all the difference in custody situations. If you’re looking for more certainty and safety this holiday season, visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Susan Guthrie welcomes special guest Marcia Zug, a family law expert and law professor, to discuss the move to repeal no-fault divorce laws. As reform proposals emerge across several states, this conversation explores what a shift back to fault-based divorce could mean for individuals, families, and the legal system.  Marcia offers insights into the history of no-fault divorce, the forces behind this legislative push, and the potential impacts on personal freedom, safety, and family dynamics. Tune in for an eye-opening look at the fight to preserve no-fault divorce and the disastrous implications for your rights and future. Featured Topics: Understanding the difference between fault divorce and no-fault divorce and what each requires The origins of no-fault divorce laws and how California became the first state to pass them in 1969 The impact of repealing no-fault divorce, including its wider social and political implications The future of no-fault divorce, the momentum behind repeal efforts, and whether there are movements to protect or expand these laws Golden nuggets: “If we want more people to get married, I think they need to understand both what marriage does for them and how it might be beneficial, but also not scare them by locking them into a marriage that they could never get out of.” “By forcing people to rehash all of the horrible things that have gone on in the marriage,  it brings a lot of animosity to the divorce and makes negotiation and compromises much, much harder.” “ Even though cruelty was grounds for divorce, it wasn't protecting victims of violence in marriages. No-fault was seen as a solution to that.  States reluctantly accepted it, not because they liked divorce, but because they recognized that it was needed because divorce to fault grounds was deadly, particularly to women.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Marcia Zug Marcia Zug is a Family Law professor at the Jospeh F. Rice School of law at the University of South Carolina. Her latest book, You'll Do: A History of Marrying for Reasons Other than Love explores the instrumental use of marriage and the role of marriage in modern society. Marcia’s book: You'll Do: A History of Marrying for Reasons Other Than Love Mentioned in this episode: Uxoricide / Marticide: When a spouse kills their spouse. Beyond Divorce: Healing the Invisible Scars of Domestic Abuse with Beverly Price **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: TURNS OUT PODCAST Introducing Turns Out..., my brand-new podcast launching in the new year. This show is all about life’s unexpected twists and turns—those aha moments that change everything. From career pivots to personal revelations, we’ll explore the stories that prove life is full of surprises. Make sure to visit turnsoutpodcast.com and keep an eye out for our launch drop! You won’t want to miss these inspiring stories, and you might even hear some familiar voices. Stay tuned, and remember, Turns Out... life has so much more in store than we ever imagined! ========= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Few things are scarier than finances and divorce. In this special Halloween episode, Susan welcomes back financial experts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan of My Divorce Solution! Together they offer tips and insights for overcoming your spookiest financial fears during divorce. This episode dives into where financial fears come from, and how to overcome them and shares cautionary tales with powerful takeaways. You'll learn how taking control of your finances can help you conquer fear and uncertainty, and why it's essential to create a clear financial portrait to help you make important and difficult decisions. Featured Topics: The most common financial fears like the fear of letting go (of information, assets, or the financial life you were used to) Your financial portrait is the centerpiece—knowing the full picture is crucial Why a team approach to divorce leads to a quicker, smoother, more cost-effective process with less conflict The power of advocating for yourself and recognizing how your financial choices shape your future Golden nuggets: “Turn your fear into focus. That focus becomes on the knowledge that the financial portrait gives to you. That's invaluable and is a life-changing confidence builder.” “ Getting your financial portrait done ahead of time helps you understand what kind of attorney or what kind of mediator you will hire in the first place.” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison: For over 30 years, Karen has worked in the legal field as a paralegal and business manager. During her career, she served as an affiliated member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association and President Elect of the ALA (Association of Legal Administrators). Karen now serves clients and the professional team in her role as legal liaison. She is also a certified QDRO Administrator, Founder and President of Sisters U Foundation, and an Auditor of East Rockhill Township. As the mom of three children and two granddaughters, Karen is extremely passionate about helping women in all that she does. Catherine Shanahan, CDFA: After 30 years in the financial industry, having raised five children and endured her own experience with divorce, Catherine became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and trained mediator. A Professional Daily Money Manager (PDMM), Catherine is also a member of the Bucks County Collaborative Law Group, American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, and the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP). My Divorce Solution: https://mydivorcesolution.com/ We Chat Divorce Podcast: https://mydivorcesolution.com/we-chat-divorce-podcast/ My Divorce Solution on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mydivorcesolution My Divorce Solution on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mydivorcesolution/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: TURNS OUT PODCAST Introducing Turns Out..., my brand-new podcast launching in the new year. This show is all about life’s unexpected twists and turns—those aha moments that change everything. From career pivots to personal revelations, we’ll explore the stories that prove life is full of surprises. Make sure to visit turnsoutpodcast.com and keep an eye out for our launch drop! You won’t want to miss these inspiring stories, and you might even hear some familiar voices. Stay tuned, and remember, Turns Out... life has so much more in store than we ever imagined!  ========= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Jackie Pilossoph, Founder of Divorced Girl Smilin, to share insights from her latest book, Who Let the Dogs Out? a hilarious and heartfelt dive into dating after divorce. Jackie brings her journey to life, revealing the complexities and joys of dating after divorce. This episode combines humor with profound insights, providing listeners with a realistic yet optimistic view of dating post-divorce. You’ll walk away with actionable advice and a fresh outlook on what it means to find connection again. Featured Topics: Jackie breaks down the unique way she uses different dog breeds to describe the men she dated post-divorce.  Self-discovery is the hidden gem in the dating process  how pursuing your passion with like-minded people can lead to meaningful connections—and maybe even love. Practical advice on how to spot red flags early in a relationship. Maintaining a sense of self and independence even while navigating the dating world Golden nuggets: “When you’re dating - you are really learning about yourself.” “Even if you stay with the wrong person for too long, you realize later, ‘wow, I deserve better than this.’” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Jackie Pilossoph Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the media comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune. She was also a Huffington Post Divorce Blogger for five years. Pilossoph holds a Masters's degree in journalism from Boston University, and oh, she's divorced. Who Let the Dogs Out?  A Hilarious and Touching Tale of Dating After Divorce: https://amzn.to/40dSEhY Jackie’s website: http://divorcedgirlsmiling.com Jackie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/divorcedgirlJP  Jackie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcedGirlSmiling  Jackie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorced_girl_smiling/ Jackie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-pilossoph-0851814/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ========= HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Susan Guthrie sits down with Megan Grant, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator of Cherish Tours, to explore the transformative power of travel, especially for those navigating the journey of divorce. Join us as we unpack the many ways solo travel can be a tool for healing and growth. Megan shares her insights on how travel can positively impact mental health and offers practical tips for those looking to travel solo after a divorce. We’ll discuss how to prioritize travel amidst daily responsibilities, manage stressful travel triggers, and reframe the meaning of solo adventures. Plus, we’ll dive into overcoming decision fatigue to help you plan your next impactful journey. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that might just spark your next adventure! Featured Topics: Travel as a tool for healing: Does it really work? Managing stressful travel triggers Prioritizing travel in your daily life Reframing solo travel and what it could mean for you Overcoming decision fatigue to create your travel plans Golden nuggets: “ You don't have to travel full time or live unconventionally to create a healing experience with travel.” “ Yes, travel can sometimes be stressful, especially when something doesn't go to plan, but really when you're ripped out of your comfort zone is when you learn the most about yourself and it's a really great way to do a reset.” “ Solo travel, where it's the most meaningful, is in creating the space for yourself. It's taking and prioritizing the self-care aspects of travel and the healing parts of travel that you can find when you step outside of that comfort zone.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Megan Grant Meet Megan, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator for Cherish Tours. With a background in conference planning and a global canvas of world travel experiences, she has become deeply convinced that travel has the power to be transformational, especially for women striving to create a difference in the world. As a dedicated advocate for empowering women globally, Megan's influence extends well beyond her travels to 40 countries, including over 10 solo adventures. Her unique perspective and innovative approach have set her apart, making significant contributions to discussions on sustainable tourism, global women's businesses, the post-pandemic travel surge, women's travel experiences, and travel safety. Megan's experience adds a layer of expertise and vision, making her a compelling voice in the realm of travel and woman empowerment. Cherish Tours: https://www.gocherishtours.com/ Receive $100 off with promo code DIVORCEANDBEYOND for Cherish Tours Tanzania Safari in 2025: https://www.gocherishtours.com/one-of-a-kind-tanzania-safari Cherish Tours on Instagram: @gocherishtours Cherish Tours on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gocherishtours Cherish Tours on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/cherish-tours-llc **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ========= HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Swipe right to match with your ideal financial pro! In today’s episode, we’re excited to bring you an innovative topic that recognizes the hard part of divorce and makes it easier—gaining financial independence.  Whether navigating divorce or simply looking to take control of your future, our guest Lacy Garcia, Founder & CEO of Willow, introduces a game-changing platform that connects people with trusted fiduciary financial advisors, empowering them to make informed decisions. Lacy shares her expert insights on finding the right financial advisor and how to safeguard your financial future confidently. Featured topics: How to find the perfect financial advisor match The pillars of empathy, education, and empowerment in financial advising Why it’s never too early or too late to hire a financial advisor Financial empowerment helps you make the best choices for your present and future Golden nuggets: “It is never too early or too late to hire a financial advisor.” “This is the time when you're feeling overwhelmed. It's the time to put yourself first and to find that trusted financial advisor who can help you navigate this.” “ You could go through this whole process and then wake up and then be like, ‘Wait a second, I'm in this terrible financial position. And I didn't even realize it.’ If you know that information before you start, or as you're going through it, then you are empowered to be able to do your best.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Lacy Garcia Lacy Garcia is the Founder & CEO of Willow (trustwillow.com), a platform that connects Women and NextGen individuals with vetted and trusted fiduciary financial advisors. Much like a dating app, Willow provides a free concierge matching service that utilizes both your financial needs and personal preferences to match you with your ideal Advisor for Women™ or Advisor for NextGen™. As a former financial advisor, Lacy founded Willow to empower Women and NextGen clients to achieve their financial and life goals, and assist them in finding their "perfect match". Willow website: http://trustwillow.com Willow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/64554675/ Willow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trust_willow/ Willon on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZXZH1mGOkXr0ezS1XRygwA Willow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/trustwillow **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK As a family law attorney, I’ve seen firsthand how difficult it can be to navigate co-parenting when alcohol is involved, especially around the holidays. Soberlink is a breathalyzer that ensures your co-parent is staying sober while they have the kids, which is especially important during this time of year, when alcohol can be present at so many gatherings. Soberlink is trusted by family law professionals for a reason. It’s the top alcohol monitoring system, and its court-admissible data can make all the difference in custody situations. If you’re looking for more certainty and safety this holiday season, visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========================= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  She presently works with select professionals and entrepreneurs to maximize their business potential and create the practice of their dreams. Visit Guthrie Consutling for more information. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Beverly Price reveals the invisible scars that complicate healing during and after divorce for abuse victims in this powerful Domestic Violence Awareness Month episode of Divorce & Beyond. Susan Guthrie sits down with Beverly Price, a divorce coach and advocate for domestic violence survivors, to uncover the harsh realities of how divorce can re-traumatize victims. Together, they explore how untrained divorce professionals and legal abuse can exacerbate the trauma of domestic violence. Plus, Beverly shares critical advice on creating a safety exit plan, building support systems, and why trauma-informed care is essential. Featured topics: The various ways divorce can re-introduce trauma for those already traumatized in their relationship Unintentional re-traumatization by professionals not versed in domestic violence and how to encourage victims to seek trauma-informed experts Understanding legal abuse and how abusers can continue to manipulate and control throughout the legal process The importance of trauma counseling to help victims process and heal from their experiences How to find a trauma-informed divorce coach and the impact of having the right support Navigating personal turmoil, regret, and shame while going through divorce after being victimized The necessity of creating a safe exit plan—especially because 70% of women are murdered when leaving an abusive relationship Golden nuggets: “There's a process that can happen that takes a person from being traumatized to then going through divorce and being re-traumatized. It's the action of, in some cases, facing the abuser, whether it's in mediation or whether it's in litigation. That in itself can be terrible.” “You didn't cause it. I've been working with a woman for almost a year to watch her get stronger and not blame herself. But it takes work because if you think about it, all the years that you were subject to it [the abuse], you're not going to flip a switch and all of a sudden feel confident and feel like it's not your fault. But it is the abuser's fault. He's not doing it to you. He's doing it for himself.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Beverly Price Beverly Price, of Her Empowered Divorce, has helped thousands of women with her 30+ years’ divorce coaching experience by providing knowledge, support, and insight to empower those going through the divorce process before, during and after. Her one-on-one coaching process includes extensive preparation, legal and financial education, emotional management, communication and negotiation skills, empowerment and support. She herself has a personal history with co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple divorces, being a single working mother and more. Beverly is also the host of the Her Empowered Divorce Podcast with industry leading guests who bring the latest information and guidance to help those going through divorce. She herself has a personal history with co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple divorces, being a single working mother and more Beverly is also the creator of the Divorce Coalition, who along with founders, Susan Guthrie and Kate Anthony, have formed a group of top podcast hosts, bloggers, and divorce professionals who are dedicated to bringing understanding, healing, and resilience to the forefront, ending the cycle of abuse one survivor at a time. She hosts “Divorce Coalition Live” radio and tv show where she interviews top divorce and domestic violence professionals to bring education and awareness to victims, survivors and the general public. The Divorce Coalition: https://www.divorcecoalition.com Her Empowered Divorce: https://herempowereddivorce.com Email: Beverly(at)coachingbybeverlyprice.com   Resources mentioned in this episode: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 Breaking the Cycle of Shame and Divorce with Beverly Price **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:https://susaneguthrie.com Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Divorce and alcohol use disorder often go hand in hand, and in this episode, The Hangover Whisperer herself, Colleen Kachmann, shares her powerful insights on navigating both. With her unique perspective, Colleen offers support to those dealing with disordered drinking during the divorce process, helping listeners understand the deeper emotional roots of overdrinking and how to move toward emotional sobriety. In This Episode: The connection between disordered drinking and perfectionism Recognizing the cycle of overdrinking and how to break free What emotional sobriety really means—it's not just about quitting alcohol but healing the relationship with yourself Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again. Golden Nuggets: “We all get here because we are doing the best we can with what we think we should be doing.” “Overdrinking is the symptom of the problem.” “Emotional sobriety means you’re no longer intoxicated by your own BS—it's about reclaiming the relationship with yourself.” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Colleen Kachmann Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again. Colleen founded Recover with Colleen through her own experience with alcoholism and her passion for helping women liberate themselves from the oppressive belief that there is something fundamentally broken or flawed about them so that they can unlock a higher level of purpose, passion, and power. Colleen holds a Bachelors of Science in education, a Masters of Science in coaching, and a women’s functional and integrative medicine professional certificate. ✨Colleen’s Free Download: 7 Core Principles of Emotional Sobriety to Overcome Alcohol Use Disorder✨ Colleen’s website: https://www.colleenkachmann.com/ Colleen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehangoverwhisperer Colleen on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hangoverwhisperer Colleen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RecoverwithColleen It’s Not About the Alcohol Podcast: https://itsnotaboutthealcohol.com/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK Summer’s in full swing, bringing vacations, family gatherings, and lots of time with the kids to the forefront. But if you’re worried about your co-parent’s alcohol use, this season can be stressful. That’s where Soberlink comes in. Imagine your kids are off on a beach trip with your co-parent. With Soberlink, you'll receive instant proof of your ex’s sobriety via text or email. Soberlink is more than just a breathalyzer and is second to none when it comes to rebuilding trust and improving accountability. I’ve seen it work for others, and I know it can work for you.  Let Soberlink handle the monitoring so you can focus on yourself, whether that’s recharging by the pool, enjoying your vacation, or simply taking a moment for yourself without constant worry. Safeguard your summer with Soberlink. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  If you are a practitioner, professional or entrepreneur, check out Susan's other popular podcast, The Make Money Mediating Podcast, for tips and insights on building and growing the practice of your dreams! Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Exclusive Members Only Episode: Moving Out and Handling House Issues in Divorce  In this special Members Only episode, Susan dives deep into one of the biggest and most important topics in divorce—the house. If you and your spouse share a home, whether it’s owned or rented, the decision of when to move out or how to handle the residence is a critical one, with many emotional and legal considerations. In this episode, you will learn: The potential risks of moving out of a shared home during divorce—both practical and legal. How to protect your valuable items and important documents if you leave. The financial impact of maintaining two households and how it may affect your decisions. Considerations around children and parenting time when one spouse moves out. What to do if domestic violence becomes a concern. Legal implications and questions surrounding home ownership, including whether you can “lose” the home by moving out. The practicalities and legalities of changing locks or gaining exclusive possession of the marital residence. How to work with your mediator or attorney to come to agreements that protect your interests. As a special bonus for listeners, this episode has fewer ad breaks and is focused entirely on giving you the actionable advice you need.  If you’ve enjoyed this special members-only episode and found the information helpful, let me know if there are other topics you’d like to hear me talk about. Divorce is a journey, and I’m here to guide you beyond. Stay tuned for more special episodes coming your way, and be sure to check out the next one on what to do with your house when you jointly own it in a divorce. Other Episodes About the House to Listen to: Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak, CDLP Divorce, Mortgages, and Moving On: What You NEED to Know with Zachary Taylor on Divorce & Beyond Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

Struggling to co-parent in a high-conflict situation? Susan Guthrie is joined by Dr. Courtney Evans to reveal practical strategies that can help you find peace and set healthy boundaries in even the toughest parenting dynamics. Dr. Courtney Evans is a dedicated divorce and recovery coach with a wealth of experience in managing high-conflict situations. Dr. Courtney shares powerful strategies for reducing conflict, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your mental health in challenging co-parenting relationships. Together, Susan and Courtney explore the concept of parallel parenting, when and how to implement it, and practical tips for making the transition smoother for both you and your children. Tune in for valuable insights, personal experiences, and a path to peace beyond the conflict. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: Parallel Parenting: a transformative approach that can help you manage high-conflict situations with greater ease and clarity “There is no one solution for how to divorce, co-parent or parallel parent or how to recover after. Every situation is unique.” The difference between counter-parent, co-parent, and parallel parent Why Courtney likes to refer to parallel parenting as peaceful parenting How and when to get started with parallel parenting or make the transition **************************************** About this week's special guests: Dr. Courtney Evans Dr. Courtney is an experienced divorce and co-parenting coach who also holds a DNP. Her two-decade career in the healthcare field has lent to her deep understanding of mental health and the importance of self-care during challenging life transitions. In 2021, after a traumatic family court journey, she switched gears in her career, determined to turn her experience into a source of healing. She began coursework in Alternate Dispute Resolution strategies. In 2022, Courtney received her Divorce Coach and Recovery Coach certifications from the CDC® International Divorce Coach Certification Program and a specialization in Divorce Conflict from the Divorce Coach Academy®. Courtney is currently in school working on her MBA as well as continued work in co-parenting and high conflict dispute resolution specializations. She is also currently writing her first book, Uncaged: Redefining Forgiveness out January 13, 2025 Contact Dr. Courtney: TheDivorceCo@gmail.com Dr. Courtney’s website: www.thedivorceco.org Dr. Courtney on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thedivorceco Dr. Courtney on Facebook: http://facebook.com/thedivorceco Resources mentioned in this episode: The Parallel Parenting Solution (book) **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

In this re-released episode, Susan Guthrie revisits an important conversation with Jenny Stevens, originally recorded after the tragic events at Oxford High School in Michigan in December 2021. As communities face similar tragedies, like the recent school shooting at Apalachee High School, the advice and insights Jenny shared remain just as relevant today. This discussion provides essential guidance for parents on how to talk to their children about these harrowing events. Jenny offers her expert advice on managing the conversation around school shootings and helping children process their emotions. In This Episode, You Will Learn: Practical steps for initiating conversations about school shootings with children. Strategies for helping children process their emotions and fears following tragic events. Insights into the psychological impact of trauma on children and how to address it effectively. Ways to support children's mental health in the aftermath of a crisis. Guest Expert: Jenny Stevens, former school counselor and coach, now a dedicated child and family coach. For more information or to connect with Jenny: Email: jenny@jennystevenscoach.com Website: www.jennystevenscoach.com Instagram: @jennystevens_coach Join us in this crucial conversation to better understand and navigate the challenging discussions with our children about violence in schools. Listen, learn, and share this episode to help spread awareness and support for mental health in our communities. For more tips and resources on navigating divorce, visit Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Stay updated on new episodes and resources by joining our mailing list! Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

We’re reaching into our archives to bring back one of our most popular and insightful episodes featuring Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Hollis Hardiman. This episode has helped countless listeners, and we believe it will be just as valuable to you today! Divorce can be an emotionally and financially challenging time, and one of the biggest fears many face is the fear of financial instability. In this episode, Hollis shares her top tips for safeguarding your finances if you are considering or currently going through a divorce. With her expertise in financial planning and her personal experience as a child of divorced parents, Hollis brings a compassionate and practical approach to navigating the complexities of divorce finances. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Overcoming Financial Fears: Hollis discusses the common fear of "Will I become homeless?" and offers advice on how to secure your financial future, even during this uncertain time. Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Why relying on friends' divorce stories for financial advice may not be the best idea, and the importance of building a professional support team tailored to your unique situation. Understanding Your Finances: Learn how to track your spending, understand your lifestyle costs, and take control of your financial situation both during and after your divorce. Boosting Household Income: Hollis shares her insights on practical steps you can take to increase your income and secure your financial well-being. Budget Planning Before, During, and After Divorce: Tips on how to create a sustainable budget that adapts to your changing circumstances. About Hollis Hardiman, CDFA: Hollis Hardiman is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst specializing in helping individuals navigate major life transitions, including divorce, loss of a spouse, and retirement planning. With certifications in mediation and collaborative divorce, Hollis works closely with clients to help them make informed financial decisions during one of the most challenging times of their lives. Please Note: Since this is an archive episode, some links and resources mentioned may no longer be available. For the most up-to-date information and resources, please check the show notes below. Connect with Hollis Hardiman: Email: hhardiman@meritfa.com Phone: 203-423-5985 Website: https://www.divorcemediationct.com/ Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: How to Get Your Act Together So that You Can Tackle Your Divorce with Alex Beattie of Divide & Thrive The Solution for Tackling the Divorce Detour with Storey Jones, Creator of dtour.life It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak If you're contemplating divorce or are already in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you navigate the financial aspects with confidence and clarity. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find the support and guidance they need!   For more tips and resources on navigating divorce, visit Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Stay updated on new episodes and resources by joining our mailing list! Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. For more in-depth discussions, join our Facebook group where we connect, share, and support each other through the divorce journey and beyond. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM    

Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Stephen Johnston for a moving conversation about his co-parenting journey, shaped by his son's rare illness and the looming challenge of blindness.  Together with his co-parent, Dr. Johnston has faced the complex realities of their son's condition and the needs of their daughter, all while co-founding A Race Against Blindness Foundation in their quest for a cure. Their remarkable story is not only inspiring but also offers invaluable insights and practical advice for those navigating tough times in their co-parenting adventures.  Tune in for an episode that promises to uplift and equip you with guidance for your co-parenting journey. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: Navigating co-parenting while coping with a child’s illness or diagnosis Stephen and his co-parent’s journey to co-founding A Race Against Blindness  The effects on extended family or friends in the face of a hard diagnosis Advice for parents navigating a hard diagnosis, Stephen says, “Focus on your why.” How we can support A Race Against Blindness  **************************************** About this week's special guests: Dr. Stephen Johnston Stephen Johnston, MD, MBA, is a father, radiologist, non-profit founder, and Ironman athlete. When he found out his nine-year-old son, Luke, was going blind as a result of a rare disease, he founded A Race Against Blindness to fund sight-saving research for his son and thousands of others like him. Though Stephen is relatively new to the nonprofit world, he’s a man on a mission to raise $1 Million for a clinical trial and taking on challenges like Ironman to raise money and be an example for his son. So far, they’ve raised over six figures, been featured on GoodMorningAmerica.com and the Dan Karaty if I’m Being Honest podcast, and had TV spots in multiple major markets. Stephen lives outside of Phoenix and spends his spare time training for his next Ironman and traveling with his family to create lifelong sighted memories for Luke.  A Race Against Blindness: https://araceagainstblindness.org **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

In this 'From the Archive' episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie revisits one of the most powerful and popular discussions with the extraordinary Kate Anthony. If you're at a crossroads in your marriage or relationship, this episode is an absolute must-listen. Kate Anthony is back, right in her wheelhouse, guiding you through one of the most challenging decisions you'll ever face: Is there still hope for your relationship, or is it time to move on? On average, people spend four years agonizing over whether to stay or go. That's four years of wondering, trying, giving up, and trying again. But Kate understands the complexity of this decision, and she’s here to help you navigate it with clarity and confidence. In this deep and insightful conversation, Susan and Kate explore the emotional and practical aspects of deciding whether to stay in a relationship or move forward. Whether you're dealing with clear signs like abuse, adultery, or addiction, or you're struggling with the slow drip of uncertainty, Kate's wisdom will resonate with you. She not only helps people make this difficult decision but also supports them in crafting a plan for the future if the decision is to go. If you're questioning the viability of your marriage or relationship, this episode could be the turning point you've been looking for. About Kate Anthony: Kate Anthony is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and a divorce coach who helps women (with children, especially) decide if they should stay in or leave their marriages – and then either helps them heal their relationships, or exit with grace.  She is also the author of the bestselling book, "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage" For the last decade she has worked with hundreds of women all over the world, helping them make the most difficult decision of their lives and transition out of toxic marriages. Kate is passionate about empowering women to find their strength, passion, and confidence, even in the most disempowering circumstances. She helps them move forward with a solid plan, always keeping their children at the center (but not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients around the world. She lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband, along with their two dogs and a handful of fish. For more information on Kate’s programs, podcast, and coaching services, visit www.kateanthony.com. Kate's Freebies and Resources: Explore Kate's helpful resources and freebies here. Follow Kate on Social: Instagram: @thedivorcesurvivalguide MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Susan on TikTok @divorceandbeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM    

Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko are back, and we couldn't be more excited! These two incredible guests are returning to share insights from their brand-new book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld, now available for pre-order. The book sheds light on the systemic issues within the family court system, particularly how it affects women navigating through cases involving coercive control and post-separation abuse.  In this episode, Amy and Dr. Christine share harrowing real-life stories (straight from their book),  highlighting the deep-rooted misogyny and systemic flaws in the current judicial family court process. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: The chilling realities of the family court system: where is the system failing? Coercive abuse and narcissistic abusers in family court What is needed to reform the family court system? **************************************** About this week's special guests: Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She is a tenured college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years. She has been a social justice advocate since 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in coercive control and the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics nationally and internationally. Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Framed: Women In the Family Court Underworld for more information and workshops! Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld on Amazon Dr. Cocchiola’s website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com Dr. Cocchiola’s Clinician, Attorney, and Coach Training Amy’s website: https://www.freedomwarrior.info/ Episodes mentioned featuring Amy Polacko and Dr. Christine Cocchiola: Divorce Decoded: Become the CEO of Your Divorce with Amy Polacko Busting the Top 5 Myths of Domestic Abuse with Amy Polacko Special Bonus Episode EMPOWERED: How a New Family Court Law is (and isn’t) Helping Some Victims of IPV with Amy Polacko  Get Wise to the Tricks and Traps of Toxic People: Avoiding Narcissists and Sociopaths in Your Life with Former Investigative Journalist and Divorce Coach, Amy Polacko The Anatomy of a Coercive Controller with Dr. Christine Cocchiola Domestic Abuse Part One: Understanding Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola Domestic Abuse Part Two: Turning the Focus to Post-Separation Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Host Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone to discuss some of the mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist! Returning guest Tracy Malone is the author of Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up!  Divorcing a narcissist is a hot topic these days, and Tracy’s book is the most comprehensive compilation of tips, insights, case studies, and personal experiences about what it is like to divorce a narcissist. In this episode, Tracy and Susan explore some of the most common and biggest mistakes made when divorcing a narcissist and share practical advice for avoiding them. Conversation Golden Nuggets: The adversarial mindset, “How to BEAT a narcissist” is so harmful. Tracy shares her thoughts on the topic. Instead of “how to fight,” think “how to cope or prepare.” “Don’t call them a narcissist! It’s going to poke the bear, enrage them more, and set the whole divorce on a different trajectory.” Check your expectations when it comes to justice in family court and pick your battles! Make the parenting plan as inclusive as possible and consider the growth of your children. If you are aware, you can prepare. Plus, why it is important to have a team or support system during your divorce. Listen to this episode to learn as much as you can about divorcing a narcissist and then move forward with awareness! About this week's special guest: Tracy Malone Tracy Malone is an author, speaker, educator, and international emotional resilience coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors. Website: narcissistabusesupport.com Book: DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Red Flag Checklist: Free Red Flag Checklist Facebook Group: Join the Group YouTube: Tracy A. Malone Pinterest: Tracy A. Malone on Pinterest Twitter: @TracyAMalone Instagram: @tracyamalone Podcast: Narcissist Abuse Support Since this is a replay episode, some of the links mentioned may no longer be valid. Visit the show notes for up-to-date contact information and more. Don't miss this chance to revisit one of our top 10 all-time episodes! *********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Susan on TikTok @divorceandbeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

Did you know that over one-quarter of divorces in the United States today occur among couples over the age of 50? This is part of the ongoing phenomenon referred to as Gray Divorce.  Susan Guthrie welcomes Financial Expert Jennifer Lee for an enlightening episode on the financial pitfalls of divorcing later in life. Jennifer shares essential strategies to protect yourself and navigate this challenging transition.  Divorcing after building a lifetime together comes with unique challenges and opportunities. Today we'll delve into this trend – why it's happening and what it means for those going through it. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: Some of the major financial hurdles of gray divorce, include asset division, healthcare coverage, and securing retirement savings Jennifer reveals the importance of the 10-year rule for Social Security Benefits and how it can impact your future Valuable insights into spousal support and alimony tailored for those navigating divorce later in life Jennifer introduces her innovative "Love Letter to Your Family" concept, a heartfelt way to communicate your wishes and plans. **************************************** About this week's special guests: Jennifer Lee Jennifer Lee is the founder of Modern-Wealth, a Sarasota-based financial advising firm helping individuals going through major life events successfully gain control of their finances. She has been in the financial services industry for 26 years; 44 years if you count tagging along with her father to his office. This might not be the norm, but she truly enjoys her work. For her, it’s fulfilling and fun. She enjoys engaging with people, whether they might be experiencing divorce or selling a business, in order to educate and strengthen their relationship with money. Throughout the years of working with clients, she has noticed the growing importance of communicating one's values to the most important people in their lives. This was the driving force for her to write her first book, “Squeeze the Juice: Live With Purpose, then Leave a Legacy.” Jennifer’s website: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/ Jennifer’s book: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/book/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

In this special "From the Archive" episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, sits down with Dr. Debi Silber, the Founder of the PBT (Post-Betrayal Transformation) Institute, to discuss the trauma caused by betrayal and the path to healing and a better future. Dr. Debi shares her expertise on moving beyond betrayal, the five stages of healing, and offers invaluable tips to start your healing journey. Highlights from the Episode: What is betrayal and why is it so devastating? Why does Dr. Debi say that "even though it happened to you, it's not about you?" The five stages of betrayal and healing: Where are you? Three reasons people don't heal from betrayal How failure to heal can be like an addiction Top tips to start the healing process About Our Guest: About Our Guest: Dr. Debi Silber, Ph.D. is the founder of The PBT® (Post-Betrayal Transformation®) Institute, National Forgiveness Day, and runs a WBENC-Certified WBE company. A holistic psychologist and personal development expert, she authored Trust Again and The Rebuild Roadmap, and hosts the globally ranked podcast From Betrayal to Breakthrough. Her Ph.D. study on betrayal has made groundbreaking discoveries, and she’s dedicated to helping people overcome betrayal and other blocks to achieve health, happiness, and success. Important Links and Resources: Dr. Debi Silber's TEDx Talk: Do You Have Post-Betrayal Syndrome? Take the "Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz": PBT Institute Quiz - Discover if you have PBS, what stage you are in, and receive tips for healing by email. The PBT (Post-Betrayal Transformation) Institute: PBTInstitute.com Please Note: This is an archive episode, so some of the links and offers mentioned in the episode may no longer be valid. For the most up-to-date information and resources, please refer to the links provided above in these show notes. ************* Our Sponsors: Gabrielle Hartley, the Creator of the Better Apart Method:  Leading divorce lawyer, coach and mediator, Gabrielle Hartley's book book "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate" is a runaway best-seller and she provides mediation and consulting services to couples and individuals navigating the divorce process through her Better Apart Mediation practice. FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market!   What makes FAYR different?  At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those).  They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support.  For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast,  visit their website at www.fayr.com.  Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!! ***********************   MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair-Elect of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Susan on TikTok @divorceandbeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

Susan Guthrie welcomes leading matrimonial attorney Susan Myres to the show, where she shares the potential pitfalls and legal issues you may face when cohabiting before or instead of getting married. Together they explore the legal challenges couples face when living together, including property rights, financial agreements, and child custody issues. You’ll hear why education, planning, and potential cohabitation agreements are important and can mitigate the 'perils of playing house.'  Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: The legal implications of “playing house” Financial and property considerations:  “When romance is involved, we forget to take care of business.” Without divorce proceedings, you don’t have immediate rights to child support (you will have to go to court) and if you are a father, you may have a harder time fighting for parental access rights “You can fix most of these perils if you plan ahead.” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Susan Myres Susan Myres is a distinguished family law attorney with over 30 years of experience in the field. She has made significant contributions to the legal community, notably serving as a past president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). Susan is currently practicing law in Houston, Texas, where she continues to provide expert legal services and guidance. Website: https://www.thehoustondivorcefirm.com/ Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-myres/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK Summer’s in full swing, bringing vacations, family gatherings, and lots of time with the kids to the forefront. But if you’re worried about your co-parent’s alcohol use, this season can be stressful. That’s where Soberlink comes in. Imagine your kids are off on a beach trip with your co-parent. With Soberlink, you'll receive instant proof of your ex’s sobriety via text or email. Soberlink is more than just a breathalyzer and is second to none when it comes to rebuilding trust and improving accountability. I’ve seen it work for others, and I know it can work for you.  Let Soberlink handle the monitoring so you can focus on yourself, whether that’s recharging by the pool, enjoying your vacation, or simply taking a moment for yourself without constant worry. Safeguard your summer with Soberlink. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and award-winning host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair-Elect of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer.  Susan works with a select clientele of legal and dispute resolution professionals to support them in establishing and growing a successful practice and regularly speaks and trains at industry events around the world. 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