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Co-Parenting Will Never Be Easy. BeAligned Makes It Easier: Breaking the Conflict Cycle with Trina Nudson on Divorce #401 & Beyond

Co-Parenting Will Never Be Easy. BeAligned Makes It Easier: Breaking the Conflict Cycle with Trina Nudson on Divorce #401 & Beyond

Update: 2025-12-22
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As Divorce & Beyond closes out 2025, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Trina Nudson for a powerful bookend conversation exploring BeAligned, a revolutionary AI-powered reflection platform designed to help parents regulate emotions, interrupt the cycle of conflict, and problem-solve with their children’s wellbeing at the center.


BeAligned is not another communication app, and it is not about getting co-parents to agree or behave perfectly. Instead, Trina explains how the platform meets parents where they are, supports emotional regulation in real time, and helps interrupt the conflict cycles that so often take over co-parenting relationships.


Susan and Trina also explore how even one parent can shift the entire family dynamic, why co-parenting is about awareness rather than perfection, and how using technology intentionally can make co-parenting easier during emotionally charged moments.


Why This Conversation Matters

Co-parenting is hard even in intact families. Add divorce, grief, fear, and conflict, and it can feel overwhelming. Many parents know what they should do but struggle to access those tools in the moment when emotions take over.


This conversation matters because BeAligned acknowledges the reality of human emotions and provides support in real time. It helps parents step out of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, see the bigger picture, and create solutions that protect childhoods without relying on blame, shame, or court intervention.


You Will Learn:

  • Why it only takes one parent to shift the co-parenting dynamic

  • Why co-parenting is not about perfection, but about awareness and regulation

  • How BeAligned helps parents move from reaction to alignment and interrupt the cycle of conflict


  • How technology can support calmer communication without replacing attorneys, therapists, or coaches

  • Why focusing on children’s needs changes everything


Special Offer from Trina Nudson and BeAligned:


Trina is generously offering Divorce & Beyond listeners 90 days of free access to BeAligned using code BEYOND.  No credit card required. You’ll get full access to the platform’s reflection tools and support resources, and an invitation to share feedback that helps improve and expand its impact.



Visit http://BeAligned.app to get started.


About the Guest: 

Trina Nudson is a family law attorney, mediator, court-appointed guardian ad litem, child advocate, Certified Divorce Coach® (CDC®), Divorce Coaching Academy® graduate (DCA®), and Licensed Bachelor Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience in the trenches of high-conflict co-parenting and family systems.


She is the founder of The Layne Project, owner of My Child Advocate, PA, and the creator of the evidence-based BeH2O® co-parenting system and BeAligned™, an AI-powered reflection platform that helps parents move from reaction to alignment.


Across thousands of cases, Trina has worked alongside judges, attorneys, therapists, and schools to center children’s wellbeing while helping parents navigate some of the hardest seasons of their lives. Her mission is simple and non-negotiable: safeguarding childhoods by helping adults show up with clarity, steadiness, and purpose—especially when it’s hard.


Websites:



BeAligned: http://bealigned.app


BeH20: http://BeH2OCoparenting.com


Social Media:


https://www.linkedin.com/in/trina-nudson-19b169149/


Divorce and Beyond Appearances:



The Business of Co-Parenting: How Neuroscience and Mindset Coaching Are Transforming Conflict into Collaboration with Trina Nudson on Divorce & Beyond


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Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation’s leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and compassion. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant.


Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, where she shared her insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships. Her expertise has also been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC’s Chicago Today, among many others.


As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 3.4 million downloads, Susan brings together top experts and powerful personal stories to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence, insight, and hope.


Learn more about Susan and her work at susaneguthrie.com.


Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!  


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Co-Parenting Will Never Be Easy. BeAligned Makes It Easier: Breaking the Conflict Cycle with Trina Nudson on Divorce #401 & Beyond

Co-Parenting Will Never Be Easy. BeAligned Makes It Easier: Breaking the Conflict Cycle with Trina Nudson on Divorce #401 & Beyond

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