Being part of the LGBTQ+ community is a challenging life. People judge, discriminate and bully you. The struggle of expressing yourself with your family is real. But, that is okay. Whatever is going on in your life, if you are straight, gay, lesbian, or trans it’s OKAY to be who you are! In this episode, we have August Rocha, a beautiful trans man who spreads trans joy over the internet. August shares his story with his family and on TikTok, the emotional response of his family, and his life after coming out. Highlights August as an “EXTRA” child in China The pain and struggle of explaining who you are to your parents Catholic school full of queer people Fighting the silent battles of life The controversial dream before the wedding; and TikTok as the biggest community August had Links Follow August on TikTok @withloveaugust and Instagram @withlove_august. Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ 5 Simple Steps Parents of LGBTQ+ Children Use to Create Loving, Affirming and Supportive Homes: https://www.drlulus5shifts.com/r/a
Love and support are power. They can either make or break a young child’s life. For parents, having these two things can create a big difference in raising their children. By loving them for who they are and supporting them in what they are going through in life because every beautiful human deserves to be happy whatever gender they take or path they choose to walk. In today’s episode, we have Bailey Latronica, also known as “baayfree,” who is a magazine writer and a proud genderqueer, to share their very unique, inviting in story. Bailey talks about their childhood liking girls in a tiny town, how ze come out to the whole family, and the initial reaction of people around when they walk out of the closet. They also talk about people’s freedom of their gender, clothing, and life in general. So, if you are a queer or a parent of queer who wants to live a life with embodied experience, then this episode is perfect for you. In this episode, you’ll hear: Bailey’s unexpected comment about Katy Perry The “Trevor Project” Having a loving and accepting dad Living the full embodied experience; and Why does Bailey refer themself as demisexual Links Follow Bailey Latronica on Instagram @baayfree Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parentingInstagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
The family has a significant role in building the core foundation of every person's being. Every queer individual for once dreamed of having a family that is supportive, affirming, and loving. And so, having an open rainbow family for a queer is a dream come true. In today's episode, Patrice, also known as "blackiswhoiam" in Tik Tok, shares her stepping-in story. This beautiful human being talks about her childhood, her traumatic relationship experience, and her way of breaking the silence and being a proud black lesbian. Patrice also shares her rainbow family's acceptance of her true self and how they support each other's journey to discovery. In this episode, you'll hear: The biggest coming out in the family Busting the closet open and not going back Patrice's first real girlfriend A tribe of women that support each other; and The perverted people with their issues Links Follow Patrice Strachan on Instagram @patricestrachan and TikTok @blackiswhoiam Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Most queer folks are afraid of spreading their colorful wings to the world because they feel pressured, unsafe, unsupported, and not celebrated. For Kevin, these are some of the reasons he kept lying, hiding his true self, and exploring in secrecy until one pivotal moment happened to him. Kevin Shah also known as “Captain Empathy” is a beautiful queer person of color that helps promote empathy and shares that anyone can learn the superpower of empathy and become captain empathy themselves. In this episode, Kevin get really raw and vulnerable in sharing his coming out story, the fear and shame of being seen as gay by his community, the pain of hiding his colorful personality, and the initial reaction of his Indian family to his coming out. He also talks about the importance of being true and having empathy in finding your purpose in life. Highlights Kevin’s secret exploration into his queerness The gay bar incident with his friend Solving the “gay character” problem The true meaning of unconditional love and celebration Pulse nightclub shooting; and Learn to run away from lying and build a foundation of truth Links To connect and follow Kevin Shah, head to:: LinkedIn: Kevin Shah Twitter: @shahkevin Instagram @kevinshah2018 Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/
What is your definition of a good person? Does being a good person mean following the rules even if you know inside that you're hiding your true feelings and emotions? For Megs, being a good person is being and loving yourself. Accept who you are no matter how different and extra you can be. Be a good person to yourself first before being good to others. In this episode, Megs shares her inviting in story, the distress she felt trying to figure out how to navigate her situation as a young queer, her heartbreaks, and the reaction and response of her family to her queerness. She also gives advice to young queers and parents who struggle to accept and love themselves. Megs Pulvermacher is a proud queer, entrepreneur, podcast host, and school psychologist. She is one of the best queer connection facilitators in the game. Meg's dream is to bring the coolest people together to share ideas, think big, and have an incredibly fun time. Highlights Megs as a badass little queer kid Come out to the family or breakup The safe feeling of disclosing the sexuality Being single as a queer is totally okay; and Self-soothing, self-love, and self-acceptance Links Follow Megs Pulvermacher on Instagram at @megspulvermache and @queerimpactcollective, listen to her podcast @outwhatnowpodcast, and visit Megs website megsthebrand.com Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @drlulutalkradio Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @drlulutalkradio Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: DrLuluTalkRadio LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/
People are always afraid of new things. They are worried that people may judge them for their decision, so they tend to hide their powerful divinity with a mask. But it’s time to end the old pattern and criticism to embrace the new world of queerness and love. In this episode, Johnny and Dr. Lulu talk about the rebirth, transformation, and reclamation of the world that invites and accepts transness and queerness. Johnny also shares his coming out story, his family’s response to his new way of existence, and how he supports beautiful humans with his heart and art. Johnny Brantley III is a broadway actor, musical comedian, and a proud queer. His dream is for a better world full of love, equity, and harmony. Activism and art are Johnny’s ways of helping society to welcome the new world that accept and love the queer community. Highlights Jonny’s rebirth of transness and queerness Putting on a mask to feel safe from people’s judgment The experiences of indirect homophobia and racism Who is Johnny’s greatest teacher; and The reclamation of the word “queer.” Links Follow Johnny Brantley III on Instagram @johnnyleeb3 and check out his website johnnyb3.com Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Every person needs one affirmation from their parents to thrive, and that is “I love you.” No conditions, no judgment, just love. As a mother, Blair always turned to books when she wanted to understand her children’s feelings, but even with the constant searching, she realized that these books didn’t exist outside. Blair Bryan, also known as Ninya, is a proud mother of a queer child and the author of various books, including “When Wren Came Out.” Her ultimate hope in writing this book is for people to read her work with an open heart. In this episode, Blair shares her unconventional story of coming out as a parent of a queer child. She highlights the power of making room for conversation with your child and loving them under no conditions. Blair also talks about her journey of writing books and the biggest learnings she gained to understand her children. Highlights The importance of learning the person’s pronoun How did Blair come up with her book title “When Ren Came Out.” Parents have the same feelings for their children Blair’s story of the rainbow turtle; and Why do people feel ashamed talking about their queer children Links Follow Blair Bryan on Instagram @tealbutterflypress, check out her website tealbutterflypress.com, and grab a copy of her book When Wren Came Out Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
LGBTQ health discrimination is a serious topic that needs to be addressed in our society. Every human being has the right and privilege to have better health assistance. Martha De la Paz is a trans woman and an LGBTQ rights and health advocate. She is helping on educating people about sexual orientation and gender identity. In today’s episode, Martha shares her story of coming out and acceptance as a trans woman living in a predominantly Catholic society, the Philippines. She talks about how she met a group of people called Dollhouse that educates her about trans gender. Martha also speaks about LGBTQ health rights and gives her message to the parent and children who are struggling with acceptance. Highlights Martha’s two instances of coming out The story of “Why doesn't your bag match with your shoes?’’ What are the reasons why LGBTQ health services are lacking; and Her motivation for advocating for LGBTQ rights and health in the Philippines Links Follow Martha De la Paz on Instagram @_callmemartha Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Being different is not seen as a good thing by most people, especially if you are queer, non-binary, and transgender. The feeling of being rejected and the loneliness to be different is so painful. Harmony, aka @yourgaydanceteacher, is a non-binary and transgender who is rejected by his own family. In this episode, Harmony shares his journey of coming out as a non-binary and a trans-gender. He talks about the painful experience of not being accepted by his family and how he moves forward and shows everyone that every non-binary or transgender human being deserves to be seen, understood, and loved. Highlights Why trans people are common in the military The difference between gender expression and gender identity Where did she find acceptance for her gender identity What happens when parents of LGBT youth fails to accept their child; and Harmony's message for parents who have difficulties accepting their children Links Follow Harmony Lee on Instagram @yourgaydanceteacher and visit his website yourgaydanceteacher.com if you want to learn more about self-defense. Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Parents' support is like a treasure for children. The parent's love and support make them feel safe, and their acceptance can help them overcome peer pressure and life struggles. Dr. Chinyelu is an ally who accepts and supports the LGBTQ+ community. Dr. Chinyelu is an extraordinary physician, wife, mother, medical student mentor, and co-author of the best-selling book The Warrior Women Project. In today's episode, Dr. Lulu and Dr. Chinyelu talk about the need for parents' acceptance and support of their LGBTQ+ children. Dr. Chinyelu explains how children are very open-minded, love their parents unconditionally, and talk about their amazing contribution to the world. Highlights Learn to stop venting you're anger to your child The creative contribution of the LGBTQ+ community to the world Why do members of the community try to make themselves invisible How kids actually educate their parents about life; and The importance of supporting your child Links Follow Dr. Chinyelu E. Oraedu on Instagram @dr_chy Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
A child is a gift from God and we must be thankful and see them as a reward from the Lord. We have no right to judge and hate them for being who they are. Shwanda is a friend of the community who speaks life to a child’s spirit. She believes that people shouldn't be judged based on their appearance or gender preference, but on their spirit. In today’s episode, Shwanda sends a message to all the kids and parents in the community. She explains some of the reasons why the black community shames, bash, and judges their own people. Shwanda also speaks about self-love and self-worth and gives a bit of advice to all the parents. Highlights The reason for the increasing number of black people suffering in silence Encourage people to have self-love based on what God has instilled in them Why a man’s corrupt heart is the root of all sins Learn to understand the spirit of a person; and How to respond to what you call yourself Links Follow Shwanda Ifeoma Onwuachi on Instagram @shwandaonwuachi Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Children who are physically, mentally, and emotionally hurt suffer from traumatic stress and suicidal thoughts, especially when the person who hurts them is their family members. As parents, it’s our obligation to be at their side, to trust, support, and love them NOT hurt and abuse them for being who they are. Dr. Hisla Bates is a psychiatrist, fashion designer, and artist who helps people with medication management and treatment of psychiatric disorders such as depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and disorders associated with chronic medical conditions. She also helps creatives use art to heal themselves through burnout. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Dr. Bates talk about the viral video of a black child who has been bullied by his own family and records it to post on social media. They discuss the impact and trauma of a child suffering from this kind of environment. Highlights The viral video of an abusive and bullied family to a gay child What are some of the causes of the high rate of suicide in the queer community The suffering of many children goes unnoticed Beating and bullying your child can’t change them from being who they truly are; and Allow our children to take charge of their journey Links Follow Dr. Hisla Bates on Instagram @drhislabatesmd and listen to her podcast Healer Heal Yourself, Reduce Burnout, Discover Your Creativity While You Heal Others Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Racial and gender inequality is an important topic that needs to be discussed. This is because a person's life depends on it. Ashley chooses to be an ally that advocates gender equality to help save LGBTQ+ teens’ and children’s lives. Ashley Evans is a trauma-informed holistic master healer and a business wellness coach. She is working with individuals who struggle with substance abuse, and severe, persistent mental illness. Ashley is also the founder of AR Counseling. In today’s episode, Ashley shares her thoughts about intersectionality and oppression in the LGBTQ+ community. She explains some of the reasons for the high rate of HIV cases among African American women. Ashley also talks about how she helps people in exploring their sexuality and what that means to their identity. Highlights Ashley's stand against oppression of people of color How to be an ally of the LGBTQ+ community The conscious choice to be consistent and congruent Why people should be judged by their character and not by their color or gender; and How every single ally can use their voice to advocate for the oppressed Links Follow Ashley Evans on Instagram @a_rcounselingllc and check out her website www.a-rcounseling.com Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
If there is a problem, there is always a solution. Unexpected things happen, but it does not stop us from sharing great stories and experiences about our true selves. These stories might turn out to be the life-saving message someone needs to hear. In this episode, we are joined by not just one but four amazing guests. Charlie, Blake, Chloe, and Shari share their message to people of color about acceptance, mental well-being, and serving and supporting the people. These individuals show their true selves and give so much love to this community. Highlights The role of acceptance and its impact on a person's mental health Where is the lack of self-acceptance come from How to best serve the community of colors Creating a community free of racism; and Why we should stop sexualizing everything Links Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Being physically and mentally abused by their parents can be extremely traumatizing for a young child. It leaves a permanent scar. Amir Renzzo is a victim of abuse from his parents for being gay. He felt invisible, rejected, and unloved because of who he truly was. In today's episode, Renzzo shares his personal experience being a black cisgender man. He talks about growing in an environment that teaches him how to react to a situation instead of allowing him to express himself. Renzzo also shares his realizations and how he freed himself from the pain of rejection and learned to love himself. Highlights Renzzo's coming out story and rejections The impact of his past rejection on his relationships with other people Why did he choose to be homeless, and how he overcome the pain The current state of his relationship with his mother; and How Renzzo learn the best kind of love Links Follow Amir Renzzo on Instagram @a_renzzo and check out his podcast Keepin’ It Kosher Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Our experience as a part of the LGBTQ+ community has taught us how painful it is to hear shameful words. People criticize and blame us. As a result, we deny the real person inside ourselves for fear of being judged. But we must be smarter than the voices around us and accept who we are. In this episode, David Posner shares his coming-out story and the struggle of accepting himself as gay. He talks about the time he realized that he was a good person who deserved to be loved. David also touches on the trauma children feel from their parents and the pain of hearing shameful words. Finally, he gives a piece of advice to children, parents, and allies of the queer community. Highlights David’s story of coming out and the battle of accepting himself How he heals from the toxicity of shame-related pain Learn to stand up and stand back to your children The stories that parents instilled in their children; and See the real person within your child Links Follow David Posner on Instagram @posnie and check out his website www.davidposner.coach Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Are you someone who struggles to accept yourself? It might sound like a strange question but a lot of people face this difficult situation. Including our guest today Sebastian, who had to re-learn to accept and forgive himself from his programmed ideas of perfection. Sebastian LaCause is an LGBTQ actor, director, writer, and transformational activist that use storytelling to inspire people. He creates content with a message of self-acceptance and inner transformation. In this episode, Sebastian shares his personal journey of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness. He talks about his coming-out experiences and what triggered him to go back in the closet. Sebastian also shares his thoughts on how the LGBTQ+ community is wrongly viewed and gives some great advice to people who are struggling to accept themselves. Check the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CLAMOxv-L2g Highlights Sebastian’s three instances coming out His first experience of betrayal with his own best friend What can happen when emotions are repressed The struggles of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness; and Discover the importance of holding space Links Connect with Sebastian on Instagram @lacause_iam and listen to his podcast entitled Sebastian LaCause, Chasing Happy Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
In the past, very few teenagers would come out to their parents and families or tell others that they are gay. This is because they were afraid of being rejected and facing hurtful comments. But how would you feel if your family and friends supported you and gave you a rainbow cookie? In this episode, we invited another ally. Shari Bender shares her story as a proud mother of a queer child, her fun experiences, and what happened when her child came out to them through a letter. She talks about her being a bit too much as a supportive parent and the things she learns and unlearns in the process. Highlights Shari’s experience as a proud mother, her reaction and response to her son coming out Discover the story behind the rainbow cookie Find out how Shari’s child came out to the public Understand how the environment at home impacts the safety of your child; and How does a community support system help parents like Shari Links Read Shari Bender’s parenting blogs on Grown & Flown and Collegiate Parent Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting: Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
We go to a therapist to solve a problem. They assist us with anything from our child's behavior to addiction, depression, and even sex issues. Aydrelle Collins is a sex therapist with specialized training from the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). She also advertises herself as a therapist who affirms and accepts beautiful humans. In today's episode, Aydrelle talks about her role as a sex therapist and as an ally of the LGBTQ+ community. As she mainly works with LGBTQ+ people, particularly black folks. Aydrelle discusses how trauma has affected black people in America, and why affirmation and acceptance are important in the queer community. Highlights Discover how Aydrelle becomes an ally in the queer space Find out why affirmation and acceptance are important to the queer community Understand the difference between a friendly therapist and an affirming therapist Why depression and suicidal ideation holds people up from getting gender confirmation; and Aydrelle’s message to the queer community Links Follow Aydrelle on Instagram @melaninsextherapy and visit her website www.melaninsextherapy.com to learn more about her services. Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting: Instagram: @askdoctorlulu Facebook: @askdoctorlulu Tiktok: @uuchenna Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9 YouTube: Ask Doctor Lulu LinkedIn: Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.
Many of us take for granted the fact that we have food, a comfortable bed, and are safe. But there are people who are starving, homeless, and abused and still able to build their life despite the challenges of living without shelter and acceptance. As a child, Tyanna suffered physical and mental abuse because her mother rejected her for being herself. At the age of nine, she had suicidal thoughts and was placed in a foster home. For most of her 20s, she was homeless. Today, our special guest Tyanna Thompson shares her story of coming out as a black beautiful human being and how she was able to publish her book in a homeless shelter. She also talks about her traumatic experience at home and in church. Tyanna overcame the challenges life threw at her and now she is stronger and fearless. Highlights Tyanna's story of coming out and escaping her mother's abuse Discover how she published a book in a homeless shelter Her battles on depression, suicide, alcoholism, and being homeless Learn the damage that religion can do a child who is questioning their sexuality; and Learn what makes Tyanna indestructible Links Follow Tyanna Thompson on Instagram @bomw_inc and grab her book Uncensored: Revised Edition 2021 Follow Dr. Lulu on her socials to learn more about queer parenting: On Instagram and Facebook @askdoctorlulu; on Tiktok @uuchenna; on Twitter: @UchennaUmeh9; on YouTube Ask Doctor Lulu; and on LinkedIn Dr. Lulu Grab Dr. Lulu’s book: A Teen’s Life: looking at Teen’s Lives Through Their Daily Struggles and visit her website https://www.dr-lulu.com/ Feel free to share this podcast with your family and friends if you find it useful. Also, join her Facebook group: Positively Parenting Your LGBTQ* Child(ren) and talk with other parents and allies about anything LGBTQ-related.