021: How I Decided: Sending my Christian kid to public school
Description
Questioning whether you should send your child to public school as a Christian? In this episode, I share about the struggles with choosing a school for your child as a Christian — not just for the academics, but for a well-rounded social, emotional and educational intelligence. I share my journey of selecting a school for my child, including the various options I was considering and my pros and cons for each — public school, private Christian schools, charter school, homeschooling, and homeschool/private hybrid. I then share how I made my decision, using my decision-making framework, SAIL Method, which includes factors such as self-awareness, research, and prayer. I hope my story of choosing a school for my son helps you make an informed, personal decision for what’s best for your family.
KEY POINTS:
Importance of School Choice:
Impacts on friendships, education, and social abilities
The decision is significant but not irreversible; changes can be made if needed
Personal Story:
Considerations of school districts when buying a house
The importance of living in a good school district
Public School Pros and Cons (09:12 ):
My Pros: Proximity to home, A-rated school, government-funded opportunities, local friendships, special education support
My Cons: Secular environment and curriculum, culture conflicts, safety concerns
Christian Private School Pros and Cons (14:20 ):
My Pros: Smaller class sizes, Christian environment, rigorous academics
My Cons: High tuition, less time for family activities, proximity to friends
Charter School Pros and Cons (17:29 ):
My Pros: Classical curriculum, discipline, free tuition, strong academic focus
My Cons: Long commute, car line issues, scattered student base, limited extracurriculars and sports
Homeschool Pros and Cons (21:05 ):
My Pros: Curriculum control, flexibility, personalized education
My Cons: No break for parents, less social interaction, potential for household chaos
Homeschool Hybrid Pros and Cons (25:16 ):
My Pros: Social opportunities, flexible schedules, less parental teaching burden
My Cons: Expensive, less flexible than homeschooling, curriculum restrictions
Decision-Making Framework (SAIL Method):
Cover this decision in prayer, first and foremost
Self-Awareness: Evaluate family needs and child’s personality, complete research (School tours, parent/staff feedback)
Impact: Consider the impact of each school option on your family financially, physically, emotionally, relationally, spiritually and academically
Litmus test: Consider the most important factors and list them in order of priority for your family to determine which option supports your goals/desires the best
LINKS MENTIONED:
Blog post interview with Elizabeth Spencer on her journey with public school: anchoreddecisions.com/blog/sending-christian-kids-to-public-school
School Decision bundle: www.anchoreddecisions.com/schoolbundle
School Research & Comparison Guide
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Episode 4: Pros and cons list leaving you confused? Use THIS for your decisions instead!
Episode 3: 3 Steps to Easier Decisions Using the SAIL Method - Our Signature Decision-Making Framework
Awanas — Christian kids ministry
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