DiscoverAnchored Decisions027: Ask a Decision Coach: Should I buy the new build or the fixer upper?
027: Ask a Decision Coach: Should I buy the new build or the fixer upper?

027: Ask a Decision Coach: Should I buy the new build or the fixer upper?

Update: 2025-02-20
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Are you torn between two big choices and don’t know which one is right for you? In this episode of Ask a Decision Coach, I help Marie navigate her decision between a fixer-upper with land or a move-in-ready home in a tight-knit community. Instead of relying on a pros and cons list, we use my SAIL Method to align her decision with her values, priorities, and long-term goals. If you’ve ever faced a major decision—whether it’s about housing, career, or family—this episode will give you a framework to move forward with confidence. Plus, learn how you can submit your own decision dilemma for a future episode!

Links From This Episode:
✨ Submit a Question for Ask a Decision Coach – anchoreddecisions.com/podcast
✨ Download My Free Decision Compass – anchoreddecisions.com/compass
✨ Decision Scorecard (Weighted Decision Matrix) – anchoreddecisions.com/scorecard
✨ How to Ditch Your Pros & Cons List and Make Better Decisions – www.anchoreddecisions.com/blog/simplify-tough-decisions-weighted-decision-scorecard
✨ The SAIL Method for Decision-Making – anchoreddecisions.com/4
✨ Show Notes & Links: anchoreddecisions.com/27

Key Points:
🔑 Why a pros & cons list won’t make your decision for you
🔑 How to identify whether your decision is about lifestyle, values, or practical needs
🔑 The SAIL Method: Self-Awareness, Impact, and Litmus Test
🔑 How past experiences can guide future decisions
🔑 Evaluating the long-term impact of your choice (financially, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally)
🔑 Problem-solving potential roadblocks creatively
🔑 Why no decision is permanent and how to give yourself grace in the process
🔑 How to use a weighted decision matrix to quantify your priorities

Your Action Step for the Week:
Start practicing better decision-making by clarifying your top values and priorities. Download my free Decision Compass at anchoreddecisions.com/compass and use it to set your foundation before making big decisions.

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more faith-based decision-making tips!

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Check out my website and decision guide shop:
www.anchoreddecisions.com
www.anchoreddecisions.com/shop

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027: Ask a Decision Coach: Should I buy the new build or the fixer upper?

027: Ask a Decision Coach: Should I buy the new build or the fixer upper?

Lauren Black