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023. Understanding Why You Feel Hard to Get Along With

023. Understanding Why You Feel Hard to Get Along With

Update: 2025-11-07
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Unresolved CPTSD shapes what you might believe is your personality. When you are running trauma energies, your nervous system does not yet believe you are safe. That present sense of constant danger drives continued action, but those patterns are not fixed. What appears as a rigid personality is actually survival programming that can be unlearned and reorganized through CPTSD Resolution.

Questions you may be asking yourself that are answered in this episode:

  • How can I change my personality?

  • Why do I keep repeating the same mistakes in relationships?

  • Why do I always attract the same people?

  • How can I reprogram my subconscious mind?


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About Dr. Tanner Wallace

Dr. Tanner Wallace, PhD and IFS Level 3 Practitioner, is the creator of CPTSD Medicine, a research-grounded and spiritually integrated framework that helps high-achieving professionals resolve CPTSD at the root. Her non-pharmaceutical method unburdens trauma energies, amplifies Self Energy, and teaches Self Leadership so humans can move from survival to sovereignty.

About the CPTSD Medicine Podcast

Hosted by Dr. Tanner Wallace, the CPTSD Medicine Podcast explores CPTSD healing and trauma recovery without medication. Learn why unresolved CPTSD impacts love, work, and self-trust, and study a structured path toward secure attachment, emotional safety, and lasting love. Designed for successful professionals ready for real CPTSD resolution at the root.

 

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023. Understanding Why You Feel Hard to Get Along With

023. Understanding Why You Feel Hard to Get Along With

Dr. Tanner Wallace