Claire and Sebastian talk about how NOT to do polyamory. The ethics of multi-partner living are discussed through examples of poor behavior outlined in Chapter 11 of the Ethical Slut. Claire and Sebastian both have new examples to add to the mix - begging the questions, is polyamory different in the modern internet driven world of dating? Slut-shaming, ghosting and unicorn hunting are all under attack.

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Show notes

For some articles on non-ethical unicorn hunting see this article in The Stranger, and this article in Medium.  For those interested in how to approach unicorn-hunting ethically please see this live show by Multiamory. 

The CDC offers guidance on the legality of knowingly infecting others, see links here and here. 

Normalizing Non-Monogamy podcast can be found here 

Catfishing has been explored in this article. 

An overview of passive-aggressive use of social media – including breadcrumbing -  can be found on Elite Daily (here) 

The Church of All worlds hold the original essay on their site here as well as information on the Green Egg Magazine 

Vice profiled Oberon Zell-Ravenheart here.