#132 Refined by Loss, Not defined by Loss.

Update: 2025-11-12

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I share my latest understanding of allowing loss or failure to refine me in the present moment, but not define me, nor my future. My heart also wishes me to learn this so it can have the space to participate in my life, in my refinement, in my future. I am never defined by a moment, I am refined by it.

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#132 Refined by Loss, Not defined by Loss.