153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)

Update: 2025-09-18

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Are you blaming your partner, friends or family members for how you feel?

Saying they ‘make’ you feel bad, insecure, anxious or rejected?

'Shoulding' them - believing they should behave differently. And tending to assume the worst?

If so - it sounds like you need to start cleaning up your own side of the relationship equation and getting more intentional about how you choose to to think, feel and respond to the situations in your relationships.

And I’m going to teach you how!

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153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)

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153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)

153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)