Welcome to episode #235! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Who Are You Listening To? The Power of Voices in Your Journey to Freedom

In this episode, Braden dives deep into the influence of the voices and environments we surround ourselves with—especially when it comes to breaking free from pornography, unhealthy habits, and finding lasting relational wellness. Whether you follow Jesus or are simply searching for a healthier, more purposeful life, this conversation will help you reflect on the sources shaping your mindset and choices.
Key Takeaways:
• Your Environment Shapes You: The spaces and people you choose to be around—like a peaceful jazz concert or a supportive friend—can lift your mindset, deepen your connections, and help you appreciate life’s beauty.
• Voices Matter: We are constantly bombarded by advice, opinions, and content—some helpful, some harmful. Who you listen to can either encourage your growth or keep you stuck. “We are shaped by the voices we listen to.”
• Wisdom from Proverbs: Ancient wisdom reminds us: “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” The people you allow to speak into your life will influence your direction, for better or worse.
• Navigating Advice: Not all advice is created equal. Well-meaning people can sometimes give harmful guidance out of ignorance. Learn to discern what truly helps you move toward freedom and wholeness.
• Accountability Done Right: Real accountability isn’t about guilt or shame—it’s about honest support, practical plans, and people who want to see you thrive. Your spouse can support you, but shouldn’t be your sole accountability partner.
• Watch Out for Toxic Messages: Beware of voices—online or offline—that normalize destructive habits, promote isolation, or tell you to “just do it on your own.” True healing happens in community, with encouragement and wise counsel.
• Hope Is Real: No matter where you are on your journey, there is hope. Surround yourself with voices that speak life, challenge you to grow, and remind you of your value.
Action Steps:
1. Identify Your Top Influences: Who or what are the three main voices shaping your thinking right now? Are they helping or hindering your growth?
2. Replace Harmful Voices: If you spot a negative influence, take steps to replace it with a positive one—someone who encourages, challenges, and supports you.
3. Connect with Community: Don’t go it alone. Reach out to a friend, mentor, group, or counselor who can walk with you on your journey.

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BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com