238: Don’t let this become unbalanced
Update: 2024-07-17
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We are not "balance" people.
Obviously, some things need balanced: Today talk about self-awareness
The Problem
Give a picture of self-awareness: Ripple effects of your decisions and your presence.
The problem is when others awareness of you exceeds your own level of self-awareness.
What happens when that becomes unbalanced:
You keep making messes that you're unaware of.
You slow down because you always have to re-calibrate yourself to current reality.
You will eventually lose your leadership. People will deal with a mess when you're winning, never when you're losing: Coaches
What makes this so Tricky:
Others, always, have a better a view of you than you do.
Literally: YOU CAN'T SEE YOU! So you don't know what it's like when you enter the room, or leave it!
Which means: Self-Awareness if not about gifting, it's about the discipline to gain that perspective.
Not Gifting: When someone says, "I'm really self-aware", they're not. Or they were at one time, but they're not.
There are habits of self-awareness that must be cultivated.
We are not "balance" people.
Obviously, some things need balanced: Today talk about self-awareness
The Problem
Give a picture of self-awareness: Ripple effects of your decisions and your presence.
The problem is when others awareness of you exceeds your own level of self-awareness.
What happens when that becomes unbalanced:
You keep making messes that you're unaware of.
You slow down because you always have to re-calibrate yourself to current reality.
You will eventually lose your leadership. People will deal with a mess when you're winning, never when you're losing: Coaches
What makes this so Tricky:
Others, always, have a better a view of you than you do.
Literally: YOU CAN'T SEE YOU! So you don't know what it's like when you enter the room, or leave it!
Which means: Self-Awareness if not about gifting, it's about the discipline to gain that perspective.
Not Gifting: When someone says, "I'm really self-aware", they're not. Or they were at one time, but they're not.
There are habits of self-awareness that must be cultivated.
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