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239. The #1 Thing Standing Between You and the Life You Want

239. The #1 Thing Standing Between You and the Life You Want

Update: 2025-10-03
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Clarity: The First Step Toward the Life You Actually Want

What if the reason you’re not living the life you want isn’t because you’re lazy or unmotivated — but simply because you haven’t gotten clear on what you truly want? In this powerful conversation, Chris and Melissa kick off a two-part series on living with intention, starting with the one thing that has to come first: clarity.

They unpack why clarity is so often missing in our lives — from distractions and busyness to fear of what the truth might require from us. Chris shares how clarity is the gateway to intentionality and why it’s impossible to build a life on purpose without first defining what matters most. Together, they discuss how too many people settle for “good” and miss out on “great,” how the phrase “I don’t know” lets us off the hook, and why it’s so important to confront our deeper desires even when it’s uncomfortable.

The episode also dives into the practical side of clarity. Chris shares how he and Melissa once created a “creation list” for their marriage and life — and how that act of defining their goals completely transformed their future. They offer a simple exercise for listeners: reflect on five key areas (faith, family, fitness, finances, and fun) and define what’s most important in each right now. Even one sentence of clarity in a single category can start a powerful ripple of change.

This episode is an invitation to stop drifting like a tumbleweed and start designing a life you love — one that reflects your deepest values and highest purpose. Clarity takes courage, but as Chris and Melissa remind us, everything you want is on the other side of getting clear.

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Episode Minute By Minute:

00:00 – Kicking off a two-part series on clarity and intentionality
01:00 – Defining “intentional” and why it matters
03:30 – Clarity as the gateway to intentional living
05:00 – Why clarity is hard: noise, fear, and feelings of unworthiness
07:00 – “I don’t know” — the most dangerous phrase in our vocabulary
09:30 – How “good” can become the enemy of “great”
11:00 – Creating a “2.0” version of your life after success or change
12:30 – The power of vision boards and the “creation list”
15:00 – How couples drift apart when they stop dreaming together
16:30 – Getting clear individually, as a couple, and as a family
17:30 – Everything you want is on the other side of clarity
18:30 – Why focusing on what you do want matters more than what you don’t
19:30 – Practical exercise: the five F’s of life
20:30 – Homework: Identify where you’re least clear and define what you want
22:00 – Final encouragement: clarity can change everything




 

 

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239. The #1 Thing Standing Between You and the Life You Want

239. The #1 Thing Standing Between You and the Life You Want