27. Desire at Different Speeds: A Candid Look at Libido and Connection
Description
In today’s episode, I’m diving into a common dynamic many heterosexual couples face:
✨ One partner is ready to go — the other needs more time.
✨ One craves sex often — the other seems to have a lower libido.
But is it really about low libido? Especially for women, the answer is often more nuanced.
I talk about how desire works differently — and why what looks like “low libido” may actually be about:
-Sex moving too fast
-The experience not being fully enjoyable
-Not honoring her responsive (vs. spontaneous) desire
I also share simple but powerful ways to stay connected even when you’re not aligned — with slowness, presence, and honest communication at the heart of it.
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Curious how to navigate libido mismatches with care and confidence?
Ready to explore guided practices that make intimacy exciting again?
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