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2799: We Argue All the Time. Should I Continue in This Relationship? by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Emotional Boundaries

2799: We Argue All the Time. Should I Continue in This Relationship? by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Emotional Boundaries

Update: 2025-11-15
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Episode 2799:

Melissa Josue guides readers through the emotional complexity of relationships filled with conflict by emphasizing the importance of understanding personal needs and clearly communicating expectations. This compassionate advice helps partners determine whether their visions for love and family are truly aligned, and whether continuing the relationship supports each person's well-being.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/we-argue-all-the-time-should-i-continue-in-this-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"Getting clear on your needs, and what needs are not getting met helps you identify and communicate what you need to fix and improve in the relationship."

"Arguments usually stem from emotional reactivity and defensiveness."

"Kindness makes each partner feel cared for, understood, and validated, feel loved."

Episode references:

The Science of Lasting Relationships (The Atlantic): https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/06/the-science-of-lasting-relationships/361631/

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2799: We Argue All the Time. Should I Continue in This Relationship? by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Emotional Boundaries

2799: We Argue All the Time. Should I Continue in This Relationship? by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Emotional Boundaries

Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach