44. Dealing with a Difficult Parent in Assisted Living, Hospice, and Farewells in the Era of COVID
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In this episode we talk about the intricacies of family, illness, and life's unexpected challenges. Listen as I open up about my father's rapid health decline from Parkinson's and navigating the tough decisions that led to his move to assisted living amidst the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic. I reflect on the emotional toll, the family dynamics at play, and the poignant full-circle moment when my father entered a facility where my son once worked. This personal narrative underscores the realities many face when caring for aging loved ones and the rollercoaster of emotions that come with it.
I talk about the daunting task of emptying out my father’s home, sorting through a lifetime's accumulation under the pressure of a pandemic-stricken world. Selling your parents house against a backdrop of anxiety and urgency all while their health is declining is truly a cocktail full of dread. We reflect on the difficult decisions, like parting with once cherished possessions that no longer have a place to go. We also delve into the intricate and emotional process of establishing hospice care, piecing together a semblance of normality in the chaos, and dealing with a difficult parent that even in the last of their days harbor resentment, anger, and have an unwillingness to let go. It’s a subject many go through but may feel guilt when discussing. Thanks for listening, and I hope this story lands well with people who have had similar experiences.
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