DiscoverWhat It's Like To Be You#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk
#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk

#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk

Update: 2025-03-25
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Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614), trauma-informed massage therapist, joins us from Wyoming. We dive into the existential crisis sparked when her partner didn't finish his weekly banana quota—forcing her into making muffins against her will. Plus, we unpack how Sara, as SP/SX armed with all three frustration types (1, 4, 7), meticulously crafts her ideal cozy cocoon, yet accidentally projects being more socially "available" than she ever truly feels. Enjoy. 


LINKS


Sara’s Website (Massage Therapy, Astrology, Blog)
https://www.sarapryde.com/


Learn at The Enneagram School
https://theenneagramschool.com/


Intro Course
https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course


Get Typed
https://www.enneagrammer.com/


Sinsomnia Podcast (Dreams)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sinsomnia/id1684154994


TIMESTAMPS


00:00 - Intro


03:08 - Nervous interview ‘bubbling’, 6-1 stem not managing the stress


09:28 - Social blind “I don’t like being a person”, being perceived, “I have to be mythic”


17:22 - Massage therapy, curating perfect environment


22:38 - Conflicts in Type Structure, 6 can’t cut off from service and security 


29:24 - Comfort is not health, coming up for air as sp/sx


33:41 - “Security” as Self-preservation 6


34:55 - “Muffin Madness”: social blind frustration


49:32 - Not holding a socially collective reasoning


57:24 - Accidental availability as a 6, despite social blind


1:01:19 - Childhood


1:14:18 - Self-Reliance as Type 6, Anchoring to meaning-making maps


1:19:41 - 6s inner zig-zag, different ‘parts’ conflicting thoughts/statements


1:30:48 - Outro






CREDITS


Interview by Josh Lavine 


Edited by Kristen Oberly 


Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay 


Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ 


Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ 


 


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#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk

#45: Sara Pryde (SP/SX 6w7 614) - Curating Delicious Environments, Raging About Rotten Bananas, Being Accidentally Available,& Zig-Zagging as I Talk