DiscoverWhat It's Like To Be You#46: Kalla Mort (SO/SP 6w7 639) – Escaping High Control Religion, Coming Out as Queer, and Learning to Orient Myself
#46: Kalla Mort (SO/SP 6w7 639) – Escaping High Control Religion, Coming Out as Queer, and Learning to Orient Myself

#46: Kalla Mort (SO/SP 6w7 639) – Escaping High Control Religion, Coming Out as Queer, and Learning to Orient Myself

Update: 2025-04-01
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Kalla Mort shares her jaw-dropping story of escaping the high control religion of her youth (read: cult) and coming out as queer. This is an incredibly rich exploration of Attachment in the Mental Center, and how Type 6 navigates revolutions of core beliefs. Enjoy.


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TIMESTAMPS


00:00 - Intro


2:17 - Growing up in high control religion, 6 attachment in head center


8:30 - Young 6 strategizing, ‘selling out’ in religion, theater life


10:21 - Sexuality in a purity culture


13:23 - IBLP, Gotthard, being a mouthpiece for collective ideals


24:56 - Awakening to identity


33:15 - Christian ‘beacon of love’ vs. personal visceral truth


46:03 - Dissociation of the attachment types


50:41 - Mental health, conversion therapy


55:10 - 6 ‘copy-paste’ discernment


1:04:21 - Psychosomatic symptoms of body/mind incongruence


1:13:49 - The mental center as a prison for the heart


1:31:45 - Deconstruction


1:38:13 - Weaponizing faith


1:51:02 - Getting ‘too big’ for old constructs


1:55:12 - Esoteric healing methods


2:02:25 - 6’s mistrust of the mental center


2:18:38 - “My biggest savior is my biggest sin - subjectivity”


2:25:56 - Outro


CREDITS


Interview by Josh Lavine


Edited by Kristen Oberly


Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay


Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/


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#46: Kalla Mort (SO/SP 6w7 639) – Escaping High Control Religion, Coming Out as Queer, and Learning to Orient Myself

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