Episode Overview

In this episode, we explore the transformative approach of trauma-informed parenting. We discuss how to understand trauma, create a safe and attuned environment for your children, recognize and address projected trauma, and implement a practical trauma-informed parenting blueprint to support both you and your child’s emotional growth.

Key Takeaways

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   Trauma isn’t only about external events—it’s also about the internal impact on the individual.

   
   


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   Children’s stress responses require co-regulation, not simply “self-soothing.”

   
   


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   Authenticity and attachment can sometimes be in conflict, leading to suppressed emotions.

   
   


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   Projecting our unresolved trauma onto our children is common but can be worked through.

   
   


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   Awareness of unconscious parenting beliefs and patterns is essential for meaningful change.

   
   


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   Integrating difficult emotions, such as anger, in a healthy way is important.

   
   


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   Maintaining your sense of identity beyond being a parent helps prevent burnout and resentment.

   
   

Key Topics Covered

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  Understanding trauma, emotional imprints, and the stress response

  
  


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  Creating a space of safety, attunement, and authenticity

  
  


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  Recognizing and addressing projected trauma

  
  


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  Implementing a trauma-informed parenting blueprint

  
  

Actionable Steps

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   Deepen your understanding of trauma, the stress response, and nervous system regulation.

   
   


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   Create a safe, attuned, and authentic environment where your children can thrive.

   
   


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   Notice when you might be projecting your own trauma and take steps to address it.

   
   


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   Apply a trauma-informed parenting blueprint, including:

   
   
   
   
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     Identifying emotional triggers and unconscious beliefs

     
     
   
   
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     Integrating difficult emotions in a healthy way

     
     
   
   
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     Preserving your identity beyond parenting

     
     
   
   
   
   


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   Seek support, continue learning, and grow as a trauma-informed parent.

   
   

Recommended Resources

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  Embodied Processing (EP) Practitioner Training  – for deeper trauma work and personal development

  
  


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  Awareness by Anthony de Mello

  
  


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  V for Vendetta (movie)

  
  


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  The Shift (movie)