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54. They’re Not Avoidant, They’re Just Not That Into You

54. They’re Not Avoidant, They’re Just Not That Into You

Update: 2025-11-10
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In this episode, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola discuss the complexities of romantic relationships, focusing on the differences between avoidant attachment and disinterest. They explore signs of avoidant attachment, the dynamics of dating, and the importance of setting realistic expectations. The conversation emphasizes the need for emotional availability, communication, and recognizing red flags in relationships. They also touch on cultural influences and the significance of partner compatibility, ultimately encouraging listeners to prioritize their needs and desires in dating.
takeaways
Understanding the difference between avoidant attachment and disinterest is crucial in dating.
Signs of avoidant attachment include isolation and disappearing acts.
It's important to recognize when someone is just not that into you.
Cultural perspectives can influence how we view relationships and attachment.
Setting realistic goals in dating can help avoid disappointment.
Identifying red flags early can save time and emotional energy.
Vulnerability is key in building healthy relationships.
Compatibility with a partner can amplify personal growth and happiness.
Communication about needs and expectations is essential in relationships.
It's important to recognize when to walk away from a relationship that isn't fulfilling.

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54. They’re Not Avoidant, They’re Just Not That Into You

54. They’re Not Avoidant, They’re Just Not That Into You

Talia Bombola, LMFT and Adam Luke, LMFT