70: Can you ever change what you want?

Update: 2025-06-24

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In this episode, Moya and Ash talk about what to do with their impossible desires. Plus: Britain’s drinking problems, and and advice for a gay man whose female bestie has ditched him.

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Music by Matt Huxley.

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