738. Q&AF: Building Your Team Up, Relationships Being An Entrepreneur & Developing Decisiveness
Digest
This episode of the podcast starts with an announcement about DJ's pool retreat, which is available for $997 today only and will cost $10,000 tomorrow. The episode then moves on to Q&A, where Andy answers questions from listeners. The first question is from a commercial insurance broker who is struggling to motivate his account managers. Andy advises the listener to be patient and to teach his team the skills they need to succeed. He also emphasizes the importance of helping employees understand their own goals and how their work can help them achieve those goals. The second question is from a 24-year-old man who is trying to build his own insurance brokerage in Atlanta. He is in a relationship with a woman who lives two hours away and is not ready to move. Andy advises the listener to focus on building his business and to wait until he is more successful before settling down. He explains that men often make poor choices when they have a wider selection pool of potential partners. The third question is from a listener who has just finished the 75 Hard program and is struggling with indecisiveness. Andy advises the listener to understand that most decisions are not fatal and to make decisions quickly and then adjust them as needed. He emphasizes the importance of being able to observe feedback and adjust quickly. The episode ends with a reminder to share the show and to not be a "hoe."
Outlines
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Intro and Announcement
This Chapter starts with the introduction of the podcast and an announcement about DJ's pool retreat. The retreat is a one-day event that will cost $997 today only and $10,000 tomorrow. The retreat will include a barbecue and a pool, and attendees are encouraged to drink a lot before coming over. DJ emphasizes that crying is a requirement for attending the retreat, and that anyone who doesn't cry will have to leave.
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Q&A: Motivating Employees
This Chapter features the first question from a listener who is a commercial insurance broker struggling to motivate his account managers. Andy advises the listener to be patient and to teach his team the skills they need to succeed. He also emphasizes the importance of helping employees understand their own goals and how their work can help them achieve those goals. Andy suggests using vision boards as a tool to help employees visualize their goals and to create a culture of ambition within the workplace.
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Q&A: Relationship vs. Business
This Chapter features the second question from a listener who is a 24-year-old man trying to build his own insurance brokerage in Atlanta. He is in a relationship with a woman who lives two hours away and is not ready to move. Andy advises the listener to focus on building his business and to wait until he is more successful before settling down. He explains that men often make poor choices when they have a wider selection pool of potential partners. Andy uses the analogy of a man in the desert who is starving and will eat any food that is offered to him, even if it is bad. He suggests that men should be selective about their partners, especially when they are successful.
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Q&A: Developing Decisiveness
This Chapter features the third question from a listener who has just finished the 75 Hard program and is struggling with indecisiveness. Andy advises the listener to understand that most decisions are not fatal and to make decisions quickly and then adjust them as needed. He emphasizes the importance of being able to observe feedback and adjust quickly. Andy explains that entrepreneurship is fluid and requires constant adaptation. He also suggests that people often put unrealistic consequences on their decisions, which leads to paralysis by analysis.
Keywords
75 Hard
75 Hard is a mental toughness training program created by Andy Frisella. It is a 75-day program that requires participants to complete a series of daily tasks, including two workouts, drinking a gallon of water, eating a healthy diet, reading for 10 minutes, and taking a cold shower. The program is designed to help people develop discipline, mental toughness, and self-control.
Vision Board
A vision board is a visual representation of a person's goals and aspirations. It is typically created by cutting out pictures and words from magazines and newspapers and arranging them on a board or poster. Vision boards can be used to help people stay motivated and focused on their goals. They can also be used to help people visualize their desired future and to create a positive mindset.
Entrepreneurship
Entrepreneurship is the process of starting and running a business. It involves identifying a market opportunity, developing a business plan, raising capital, and managing the day-to-day operations of the business. Entrepreneurs are often driven by a passion for their idea and a desire to create something new and innovative.
Mental Toughness
Mental toughness is the ability to withstand stress, adversity, and pressure. It is a key trait of successful people in all walks of life. Mental toughness can be developed through training, practice, and experience. It is essential for achieving goals, overcoming challenges, and maintaining a positive mindset.
Decision Making
Decision making is the process of choosing between two or more alternatives. It is a fundamental skill that is essential for success in all areas of life. Effective decision making involves identifying the problem, gathering information, evaluating alternatives, making a choice, and taking action. It is also important to be able to learn from past decisions and to adjust future decisions accordingly.
Andy Frisella
Andy Frisella is an entrepreneur, author, and podcast host. He is the founder of 1st Phorm, a supplement company, and the host of the "Real AF" podcast. Frisella is known for his no-nonsense approach to business and his emphasis on mental toughness and personal development. He is a popular figure in the self-help and entrepreneurship communities.
DJ
DJ is a co-host of the "Real AF" podcast. He is a close friend of Andy Frisella and is known for his humor and his willingness to challenge Andy's opinions. DJ is also a successful entrepreneur and has a strong following in the self-help and entrepreneurship communities.
Atlanta
Atlanta is the capital and most populous city of the U.S. state of Georgia. It is a major center for business, finance, transportation, and culture. Atlanta is known for its vibrant arts scene, its diverse population, and its rich history. The city is also home to several major corporations, including Coca-Cola, Delta Air Lines, and Home Depot.
Q&A
How can I motivate my employees to be more productive?
Andy advises being patient and teaching your team the skills they need to succeed. He also emphasizes the importance of helping employees understand their own goals and how their work can help them achieve those goals. He suggests using vision boards as a tool to help employees visualize their goals and to create a culture of ambition within the workplace.
Should I focus on my business or my relationship?
Andy advises focusing on building your business and waiting until you are more successful before settling down. He explains that men often make poor choices when they have a wider selection pool of potential partners. He suggests that men should be selective about their partners, especially when they are successful.
How can I become more decisive?
Andy advises understanding that most decisions are not fatal and to make decisions quickly and then adjust them as needed. He emphasizes the importance of being able to observe feedback and adjust quickly. Andy explains that entrepreneurship is fluid and requires constant adaptation. He also suggests that people often put unrealistic consequences on their decisions, which leads to paralysis by analysis.
What is the 75 Hard program?
75 Hard is a mental toughness training program created by Andy Frisella. It is a 75-day program that requires participants to complete a series of daily tasks, including two workouts, drinking a gallon of water, eating a healthy diet, reading for 10 minutes, and taking a cold shower. The program is designed to help people develop discipline, mental toughness, and self-control.
What is a vision board?
A vision board is a visual representation of a person's goals and aspirations. It is typically created by cutting out pictures and words from magazines and newspapers and arranging them on a board or poster. Vision boards can be used to help people stay motivated and focused on their goals. They can also be used to help people visualize their desired future and to create a positive mindset.
Show Notes
In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to build your team up as a young entrepreneur, how to navigate relationships while you're trying to build a business, and the best way to develop decisiveness.