810: GET ON THE SAME FINANCIAL PAGE
Digest
Tony and Alisa Deloranzo, hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage show, delve into the crucial topic of financial intimacy in marriage. They share their personal journey as parents navigating the complexities of college tuition costs for their children, highlighting the importance of open communication and finding common ground. They emphasize that financial intimacy extends beyond budgeting and debt management, encompassing long-term investments and financial planning for the future. The episode explores the challenges they faced as a couple with differing financial backgrounds and experiences, leading to intense conversations and emotional decisions. They highlight the importance of listening to each other's viewpoints, understanding the heart behind their desires, and ultimately prioritizing the best interests of the marriage and family. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to address areas of financial intimacy in their own relationships, emphasizing the potential for breakthroughs and strengthened bonds through open communication and shared financial goals.
Outlines
Introduction and Free Training Announcement
This Chapter introduces the One Extraordinary Marriage show and announces a free training session for wives on June 4th, focusing on intimacy in the bedroom. The hosts encourage listeners to register at 1Xtornaymarriage.com/freetraining.
Financial Intimacy in Marriage
This Chapter delves into the importance of financial intimacy in marriage, highlighting the quote "Money problems destroy marriages." The hosts emphasize the need for couples to be on the same page financially and work together towards common goals. They introduce the concept of financial intimacy as encompassing more than just budgeting and debt management, including long-term investments and financial planning.
Navigating College Costs and Financial Intimacy
This Chapter focuses on the Deloranzo's personal experience navigating college costs for their children. They share their journey, including the challenges of differing financial backgrounds, the impact of COVID-19 on their son's college plans, and the complexities of financial aid applications. They emphasize the importance of open communication, listening to each other's viewpoints, and prioritizing the best interests of the marriage and family.
Keywords
Financial Intimacy
Financial intimacy refers to the open and honest communication and shared understanding of finances within a relationship. It encompasses budgeting, debt management, long-term investments, and financial planning for the future. It involves couples being on the same page regarding financial goals, values, and priorities, fostering trust and transparency in their financial partnership.
One Extraordinary Marriage
One Extraordinary Marriage is a podcast hosted by Tony and Alisa Deloranzo, focusing on strengthening marriages and relationships. The show provides insights, advice, and practical tools for couples to navigate various aspects of their relationship, including communication, intimacy, conflict resolution, and personal growth.
Six Pillars of Intimacy
The Six Pillars of Intimacy is a framework developed by Tony and Alisa Deloranzo, outlining six key areas essential for a thriving marriage: Physical Intimacy, Emotional Intimacy, Intellectual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy, Recreational Intimacy, and Financial Intimacy. The framework provides a comprehensive approach to building and maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship.
FAFSA
FAFSA stands for Free Application for Federal Student Aid. It is a form that students and their families must complete to apply for federal financial aid for college, including grants, loans, and work-study programs. The FAFSA process involves providing information about income, assets, and family size to determine eligibility for financial aid.
College Tuition
College tuition refers to the fees paid for attending a college or university. It can vary significantly depending on the institution, program of study, and location. College tuition costs can be a significant financial burden for families, often requiring careful planning and budgeting.
Q&A
What is financial intimacy in marriage and why is it important?
Financial intimacy goes beyond just budgeting and debt management. It's about open communication, shared understanding, and working together towards common financial goals. It's about being on the same page regarding values, priorities, and long-term investments. Financial intimacy fosters trust and transparency, strengthening the foundation of the marriage.
How did Tony and Alisa navigate the challenges of college tuition costs for their children?
They faced challenges due to their differing financial backgrounds and experiences. They had to have difficult conversations, listen to each other's viewpoints, and prioritize the best interests of their marriage and family. They emphasized the importance of open communication and finding common ground, even when facing difficult financial decisions.
What are some practical steps couples can take to improve their financial intimacy?
Start by having regular money meetings to discuss finances, expenses, and goals. Listen actively to each other's viewpoints and understand the heart behind their desires. Prioritize the best interests of the marriage and family when making financial decisions. Work together to create a shared financial plan that aligns with your values and priorities.
How did Tony and Alisa approach the conversation about college costs with their daughter?
They recognized the emotional aspect of the decision and presented the information in a way that allowed their daughter to process it, grieve it, and ultimately understand the impact of their choices. They emphasized the importance of family relationships and encouraged their daughter to trust their judgment.
Show Notes
Learn how getting on the same financial page with your spouse can be a valuable gift to both of you and your family. | "Money problems destroy marriages. Get on the same page with your spouse and work together toward a common goal." —Anonymous
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Yes it is!
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