Episode 24: 9 Things WINNERS Don’t Do

What makes high achievers stand out? Hilary Silver is here to break down 9 things winners don’t do—trust us, it’s not what you think. Ready to up your game in life, love, or business? This episode is your VIP ticket!

Episode Highlights:

• Winners don’t sit around complaining. They handle it, find solutions, and move on. 


• Blame games are for losers. Winners own their stuff and get to work fixing the problem, not shifting the blame.


• Making excuses? Not a chance. Winners know excuses get you nowhere—own up, learn, and do better next time.


• Life’s not happening to you—it’s happening because of you. Winners take the reins and steer their own ship.


• Who cares if people don’t validate you? Winners know they’re already enough, no outside approval required.


• Entitlement? Please. Winners create their own opportunities by showing up, grinding hard, and staying focused.


• Winners aren’t worried about someone else’s success; they’re too busy creating their own and cheering on others.


• People-pleasing? Not today. Winners know who they are, stay true to themselves, and don’t bend to fit someone else’s mold.


• Fear is natural, but winners choose faith. They push through uncertainty, trust the process, and keep growing.

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00 ] The Unwritten Rules of Winners


• [01:08 ] Complaining? Not Here


• [01:47 ] Blame is a Loser’s Game


• [02:20 ] Excuses Don’t Fly


• [03:29 ] Victim Mentality? No Thanks


• [04:27 ] Validation is Overrated


• [05:39 ] Nobody Owes You Anything


• [06:22 ] Celebrate, Don’t Hate


• [07:10 ] Stay Authentic or Bust


• [07:51 ] Faith Over Fear, Always

Listener Takeaways:

• Take a hard look at these 9 traits—are you embodying them, or falling into the trap of what winners don’t do?


• Discover how tweaking your mindset can kick those bad habits to the curb—like making excuses or waiting for validation.


• Get fired up to face fear head-on, trust the process, and step into your next level of success.

This episode is your wake-up call—because winners are made by what they don’t do. Tune in, take notes, and get ready to crush it in every part of your life!

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