Episode 30: Life on Your Own Terms

Being self-centered isn’t selfish. It’s the ultimate power move! It’s time to put yourself first in a way that’s empowering, not egotistical. In this episode, Hilary redefines what it means to be self-centered and why it’s the key to living life on your own terms. At 52, she’s thriving in her health, relationships, business—literally every area of her life—and she’s here to show you how you can do it too.

Episode Highlights:

• Forget the lie that “the world doesn’t revolve around you.” Hilary explains why embracing your role as the center of your world changes everything.


• Self-prioritization is survival. Hilary talks about how putting yourself first creates the safety and stability to truly thrive.


• Own your stuff! Hilary challenges listeners to take radical responsibility for their lives because when you’re the problem, you’re also the solution.


• Enough with the self-sacrifice. Hilary debunks the myth that putting others first makes you “virtuous” and reveals why boundaries and self-respect are non-negotiable.


• Success is about how you feel showing up as your most authentic self.

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00 ] Redefining “Self-Centered”  


• [00:41 ] The Five Core Concepts Overview  


• [01:47 ] Prioritizing Your Relationship with Yourself  


• [02:08 ] Authenticity and Living in Alignment  


• [02:41 ] Core Concept 1: You Are the Center of Your Universe  


• [03:45 ] Core Concept 2: You Come First and You Go First  


• [05:20 ] Core Concept 3: You Are Both the Problem and the Solution  


• [07:17 ] Core Concept 4: It’s Not Noble to Be Selfless  


• [09:56 ] Core Concept 5: The Outcome Is Internal  


• [12:04 ] Final Thoughts

Don’t wait—hit play, and start living unapologetically self-centered today!

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