DiscoverHeartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships93. Who are they REALLY? How To Reconcile With The Person They Are Vs. Who You Thought Them To Be
93. Who are they REALLY? How To Reconcile With The Person They Are Vs. Who You Thought Them To Be

93. Who are they REALLY? How To Reconcile With The Person They Are Vs. Who You Thought Them To Be

Update: 2025-08-27
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What do you do when the person you thought was your soulmate reveals a side of themselves you never saw coming?

The hardest part of healing from a narcissistic relationship isn’t just leaving, it’s reconciling the loving, attentive person you fell for with the controlling, dismissive, or cruel partner they became.

In this episode, you will discover:

  • The survival mechanisms that keep you holding onto hope
  • How to grieve someone who’s still alive but was never who you thought they were
  • How to reclaim control of your mind and your life post separation

Listen now to uncover how to finally reconcile the fantasy with the facts so you can stop questioning your reality and start reclaiming your life.

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  • Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
  • Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
  • Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
  • Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

🫶🏻 FIND YOURSELF AGAIN Self-guided course to help you rediscover your needs and identity after years of focusing on others first


In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse. The host and guests share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safety after love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.

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93. Who are they REALLY? How To Reconcile With The Person They Are Vs. Who You Thought Them To Be

93. Who are they REALLY? How To Reconcile With The Person They Are Vs. Who You Thought Them To Be