98. Who Am I Without Him? How To Rebuild The Self He Tried To Destroy
Description
Have you looked in the mirror after a relationship ended and actually didn’t recognize yourself anymore?
When you’ve been consumed by someone else’s needs, opinions, and control, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are. This episode dives into why recovery feels impossible after losing yourself in a narcissistic relationship, and the shift that will help you find your way back.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- The hidden ways identity loss keeps you stuck
- The lie keeping you tied to him — and the truth that sets you free
- A powerful step to take right now towards finding yourself again
Press play now to learn how to stop drifting in the aftermath of a toxic relationship and finally begin reclaiming the self they tried to erase.
QUICK LINKS FROM EPISODE:
- Schedule your free Intro Session: https://tinyurl.com/freeintroseshpod
RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:
🌻 Schedule your free Intro Session: https://tinyurl.com/freeintroseshpod
❤️ For more resources on healing from the mindf*ck of confusing relationships so you can securely attach + experience healthy love: https://www.brewolta.com
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- Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
- Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
- Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
- Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you
🫶🏻 FIND YOURSELF AGAIN Self-guided course to help you rediscover your needs and identity after years of focusing on others first
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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse. The host and guests share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safety after love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.




