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A Quarter of Men are 'Just Surviving' or Feeling Overwhelmed - Darren Lawrence on Men Needing Help

A Quarter of Men are 'Just Surviving' or Feeling Overwhelmed - Darren Lawrence on Men Needing Help

Update: 2025-07-23
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Many midlife men feel isolated or overwhelmed but remain silent, often unaware that help is available or assuming they just need to ‘get on with it’. As a direct result they grapple with a number of emotional, social and practical challenges, from dwindling friendships and financial strain to burnout, low self-esteem, and a loss of joy.



This week Paul is joined by Darren Lawrence, a coach and consultant to men who recently conducted a study called Understanding Men in Midlife that looks at what challenges midlife men face and what the hidden realities of male midlife are.



They discuss the key findings from Darren’s research, including that 78% of men believe more support is needed, while over a quarter are either just surviving or feeling completely overwhelmed. Friendship loss and low energy top the list of concerns, yet many don’t know where to turn.



Reflecting on his own experiences with redundancy, divorce and career reinvention, Darren opens up about how these events sparked his passion for helping other men navigate similar transitions. He also challenges the myth that ‘men don’t talk’, and calls for better awareness of how we support midlife wellbeing in families, workplaces, and communities.



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You can connect with Darren on LinkedIn.



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A Quarter of Men are 'Just Surviving' or Feeling Overwhelmed - Darren Lawrence on Men Needing Help

A Quarter of Men are 'Just Surviving' or Feeling Overwhelmed - Darren Lawrence on Men Needing Help

Paul Sutton