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ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intense

ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intense

Update: 2025-10-07
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Have you ever met someone and suddenly you’re imagining your wedding playlist — all before the first date? Dr. Monica Johnson weighs in on the science behind crushes and the ADHD brain.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What’s happening in your brain during a crush
  • Why women with ADHD often fall fast and hard in relationships
  • How to stay grounded in reality without completely shutting down

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Timestamps:

(00:00 ) Intro
(00:57 ) Why do ADHD brains fall in love fast?
(07:15 ) Strategies for remaining balanced while enjoying the butterflies
(14:18 ) Credits

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ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intense

ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intense

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